Hello admin, My name is princess. I'm 20 but caught in between two men. I'm a graduate and i speak 3 int'l languages. So due to that i look very matured more like 25yrs old. Therefore, older guys are attracted to me. Due to my past awful relationships i find it hard to fall in love. I stayed single for 2years, well i take care of myself cos i have a good job.

But last year January i got in contact with an old time friend of my brother. He stays abroad. We got talking and we were so into each other. We skyped and were connected a lot. But this guy is just 3yrs older than me unlike my usual admirers. He's a student and works. He is rich. Recently, i was trying out this dating site i opened few years ago and met another guy, he's 27.

A student doing his masters in the same country as my boyfriend even in the same city. He seem to give me the attention that i always wanted unlike my boyfriend. He is always there to help me with my process of going to join my boyfriend but he doesn't know i have a guy cos he assumed i'm single that's why i'm in a dating site.

I began to like this older one because he's so sweet & encouraging. Giving me the attention that I needed. He's ready to go to extra length to make sure I get to that country. But my boyfriend is always busy, he rarely gives me so much attention. He love me a lot but he is just too hard emotionally and as a woman i crave attention considering i haven't seen him face to face. But the older one isn't that rich, he's just ok plus he's Yoruba but my boyfriend is ibo like me. My brother knows him & my family but anytime we talk its always tense i watch my words but i love him more. The other guy is
really nice too. I'm due to travel in few weeks to
 join my boyfriend & i'm gonna be seeing the other one too cos he played 90%role in my process to travel.
I'm really confused and i don't like double dating. Both of them are serious about me and really love me. But i love someone who is hard emotionally hardly expresses his love for me. But the other one have no problem singing me to sleep. I'm a very attractive woman but i just find it hard to fall in love. And i'm here in love with two different people.

Please, what do i do?. Should i break things with the older guy so i don't lose both at the end or should i just play along then see how the future goes for us. I really don't know. Please help, I cant keep up with this for long.

Thanks



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Firstly you are damn pretty wonder y u got only 2 guys tracking your network.


The older man is a toaster n u should expect em to pull up the love n care he's showing you right now because,

all men possesses same behaviour and characters when wooing a lady and after the lady accept d proposal then we switch to our real characters.( not saying d older man is a bad or good person)

But the devil you know is far better off the angel u do not know.

So my advice stick to your boyfriend.

Play along like P square forget Jude matter he's just a manager, they are all family on long run a blogger says Jude impregnated Cynthia Morgan that I'm not sure sha...

Topestbilly:
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@ least say something, is ur head that empty

Where are the guys who are shouting money money makes ladies trip.

These ho.es aren't loyal


Confused set of people

NP: loyal - Chris Brown

Ok. *in tonytetula's voice* im in love with two men i no kmw wic one i go follow.. We go hear d end story for this same forum

my sister if to say I no get God I for say na your marketing strategy be this..........anyways, I know your worries.........I must first say you put this on yourself initially.........for you to be seeing your brothers friend before going to a dating site........to me my sister it means you're still not satisfied with what you are having already...........So, way out for you is to deploy TEST GAME to select the "THE ONE" (Lol) if there is anything like such.

libertyfather:
is ur head that empty

Lol, y u dey abuse me na? I booked d space to type ni....

i don't see any luv in dis story, ur boifrend wants to keep u cos most guys always have an eye for dia fwends sisters while d other guy knows how gullible u can be, both will just shine ur shoe wen u go visit abroad... If u're serious bout luv start with the guys around u

adonbililvit.....dat is a random picx!
and d story.....made up!

Babe is that your pix ..
Black is beauty o, you no fine ooo. Imagine sey you black first

My dear, if your story isn't farce, then I must tell you to slow down..
When a guy gets what he wants, he zooms off.. Its left for the guy to stay or leave. Puna or beauty can't keep a man.. The reason why you think the older guy is cool is because he's yet to see you and get what he wants.. Were you expecting him to be hostile or uncaring? He would do everything in his power, for you to get attached to him.. Just keep the older guy as friends for now, to know about each other and try to see him cos there's no point loving someone you haven't seen..

You mustn't date him because he's cool and caring, to avoid changing guys like clothes..
Some guys are meant to be kept as friends! Just Friends!

Well, be careful with internet dating.. Just tread with caution.

only u wit 2 guys?....u like like igbo & d same u like yoruba & u still want attention & u dunt like a guy wit soft emotional attention on u, pls are u d only gal in dat country wit xcess Luv hormones in her body?

Follow the one you love/the one that loves you and not the one that gives you attention.

A serious minded Yankee guy manages his his limited 24hrs per day and will surely not have all the time in the world for you especially when he is still young and new in a country.

I'm not trying to massage any tribe's ego but several hard-working Igbos in Yankee hardly have time to upload pics on Facebook and stuffs except when they have really settled well.

Any abroad guy that gives you all the time you need as a lady is either lazy or ain't eligible to work yet.

This is a raw truth, take it.

Nkechi im done with this relationship. Guess you dint know I followed nairaland too. Go meet ur toaster.

Lol, smh. So because you're a graduate and you speak 3 international languages, you look older than your age Ehn?