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My Wife Misbehaves Because I Cheated On Her. by Adasun(m): 9:30am On Mar 01, 2016
Hellow fellow,am in a big mess right now.



My pervetious heart lead me to cheat on my wife and unfortunately i got caught red handed.i woun't explain dat awkward experience for now.



My wife trusted me so much,but i broke those trust.now my own home is broken too.


When da deed happened and i was caught,she cried nd cried and later left my house.due to pleads frm those she respected so much because i ask them for help.she later came back to da hwz bt not in gud terms


we no longer greet,she hardly talks to me,she cook when she wants to.once she did not cook,i had to buy fud for da kids


most of all,she now started acting wield nd free.she picks suspicious calls right under my nose.laugh anyhow when charting.


When it first started,i thought it's just a plot to get me jealous so i dance to da tone.i use my body language to atleast show her am jealous and want her badly.


Bt it got worse,she now comes home late and even brought a guy home.and when i saw dis guy in da sitting rum,he introduce me as her cousing.sadsad


i was mad,but i myself i guilty.how do i show her dat am in charge when i myself was caught cheatingshould i send her out?on what ground

should i continue to make peace reign?bt i have tried my best.i need ur help my fellow landers.help a brother to make da right decision.

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Re: My Wife Misbehaves Because I Cheated On Her. by halfricanadian(f): 9:34am On Mar 01, 2016
cheesy cheesy cheesy cheesy she is trying to get back at you

More is yet to come dont complain she is still at beginners level but trust me she wont sleep with any one bt haunt ur soul die tongue

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Re: My Wife Misbehaves Because I Cheated On Her. by Nobody: 9:35am On Mar 01, 2016
Tis is unfortunate but yhur both handling it badly....or at least I think so....

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Re: My Wife Misbehaves Because I Cheated On Her. by Maximus85(m): 9:39am On Mar 01, 2016
Adasun:
[b]hellow fellow,am in a big mess right now.



My pervetious heart lead me to cheat on my wife and unfortunately i got caught red handed.i woun't explain dat awkward experience for now.



My wife trusted me so much,but i broke those trust.now my own home is broken too.


When da deed happened and i was caught,she cried nd cried and later left my house.due to pleads frm those she respected so much because i ask them for help.she later came back to da hwz bt not in gud terms


we no longer greet,she hardly talks to me,she cook when she wants to.once she did not cook,i had to buy fud for da kids


most of all,she now started acting wield nd free.she picks suspicious calls right under my nose.laugh anyhow when charting.


When it first started,i thought it's just a plot to get me jealous so i dance to da tone.i use my body language to atleast show her am jealous and want her badly.


Bt it got worse,she now comes home late and even brought a guy home.and when i saw dis guy in da sitting rum,he introduce me as her cousing.sadsad


i was mad,but i myself i guilty.how do i show her dat am in charge when i myself was caught cheatingshould i send her out?on what ground

should i continue to make peace reign?bt i have tried my best.i need ur help my fellow landers.help a brother to make da right decision.


lalasticala do da needful.
Tanks[/b]

Take it from me, she's a damn good woman and she's not cheating on you. She might have taken it too far by not cooking for her kids but you brought all these on yourself and now it's affecting your innocent kids.
It's up to you. Look for a way to take her far away from home to a quiet place, I private beach or resort. Open your heart to her and vow never ever to cheat on her.
Men should be in control of their joystick. It belongs not to you but your wife's.

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Re: My Wife Misbehaves Because I Cheated On Her. by skywalker240(m): 10:12am On Mar 01, 2016
op u messed up big time preety bad .
Now to d important solution is [b]communication on commitment issues[/b]must be effective.

Talk to ur wife, promise her, i know its hard but u have to be the man and take the bull by the horn..

U 4k up shaundecided

O and one more thing
*grin*

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Re: My Wife Misbehaves Because I Cheated On Her. by iamdynamite(m): 10:27am On Mar 01, 2016
op you really need to talk to your woman,you cant just keep quiet and allow this linger on.like someone said earlier,take her out to a quiet place.tell her you ve realised your mistake and you deserve a second chance to right the wrong.

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Re: My Wife Misbehaves Because I Cheated On Her. by uckennety(m): 10:32am On Mar 01, 2016
Adasun:
[b]hellow fellow,am in a big mess right now.



My pervetious heart lead me to cheat on my wife and unfortunately i got caught red handed.i woun't explain dat awkward experience for now.



My wife trusted me so much,but i broke those trust.now my own home is broken too.


When da deed happened and i was caught,she cried nd cried and later left my house.due to pleads frm those she respected so much because i ask them for help.she later came back to da hwz bt not in gud terms


we no longer greet,she hardly talks to me,she cook when she wants to.once she did not cook,i had to buy fud for da kids


most of all,she now started acting wield nd free.she picks suspicious calls right under my nose.laugh anyhow when charting.


When it first started,i thought it's just a plot to get me jealous so i dance to da tone.i use my body language to atleast show her am jealous and want her badly.


Bt it got worse,she now comes home late and even brought a guy home.and when i saw dis guy in da sitting rum,he introduce me as her cousing.sadsad


i was mad,but i myself i guilty.how do i show her dat am in charge when i myself was caught cheatingshould i send her out?on what ground

should i continue to make peace reign?bt i have tried my best.i need ur help my fellow landers.help a brother to make da right decision.


lalasticala do da needful.
Tanks[/b]
Ur a wrong no doubt!but I v learnt neva to beg a woman!try tlk to her say ur sorry!if it continues!my brother let her bE!sEnd ur children to day care,or boardinG house!allow her have HER Fun wid whoEver!then as 4 a divorce!end d whole shit!two wrong makes no ryte!!!tnxz

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Re: My Wife Misbehaves Because I Cheated On Her. by pinkpebbles(f): 10:56am On Mar 01, 2016
Dis is one of the problems of the modern day marriage. Opinions and views like this. Op, please do not listen to this advice. She's ur wife and you have messed up her psychology. You dont knw hw it feels like to be cheated on. Trust me, most peopl barely recover from it. Just keep loving her and be a better man. Reassure her and with time she will come around. If you end up divorcing her, you mite cheat on ur next woman and this mite not be her reaction. She mite jst poison u or cut off your joystick grin
uckennety:

Ur a wrong no doubt!but I v learnt neva to beg a woman!try tlk to her say ur sorry!if it continues!my brother let her bE!sEnd ur children to day care,or boardinG house!allow her have HER Fun wid whoEver!then as 4 a divorce!end d whole shit!two wrong makes no ryte!!!tnxz

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Re: My Wife Misbehaves Because I Cheated On Her. by NemzySeries(m): 11:04am On Mar 01, 2016
yes u cheated, got caught & repented but I fink itz high time ur wife began to act straight & take d business of d day which is her marriage.....all dis bringing men home & not cooking 4 d kids is way too far......if she feels she can't 4give or let go den pls escort her to d gate bkos we can't cough out luv or affection frm pple dat are not willing to.....im not supporting seperation or divorce but honestly she gone too far 4getting she nw owns a family & d kids are growing as well as watching all dis unnecessary drama u guys are putting up wit.....success to u guys

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Re: My Wife Misbehaves Because I Cheated On Her. by Nobody: 11:06am On Mar 01, 2016
So why are you complaining? undecided

The fact she forgives doesn't mean you won't suffer for your sins. Even the bible made us realise a sinner won't go unpunished cheesy grin cheesy grin
Enjoy as she serves you hot

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Re: My Wife Misbehaves Because I Cheated On Her. by Elzends(m): 11:09am On Mar 01, 2016
Op abeg attach tonto dike n olajumoke pic to this ur story if you want it to hit fp

Wake me up if this makes fp
















Wakes up n stretches my limbs

E don happen, e don hit fp finally




Op be a man, take responsibility lest ur family goes into disarray..
Admit that u are crap 4 cheating buh dat doesn't mean you have to tolerate her new attitude.... Please divorce ain't an option n don't 4gt to give her time to heal

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Re: My Wife Misbehaves Because I Cheated On Her. by Swissheart(f): 11:13am On Mar 01, 2016
Not giving the kids food is totally bad and uncalled for.... .. We all sin and since you claim to have apologized and even repented she should get it go. I dislike ppl with you did and I do attitude. Anyways talk to her again and again. ..... Show her you won't ever do such again. Make her understand you won't like her bring problems home because of a sin you v repented over.

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Re: My Wife Misbehaves Because I Cheated On Her. by Adasun(m): 12:44pm On Mar 01, 2016
uckennety:

Ur a wrong no doubt!but I v learnt neva to beg a woman!try tlk to her say ur sorry!if it continues!my brother let her bE!sEnd ur children to day care,or boardinG house!allow her have HER Fun wid whoEver!then as 4 a divorce!end d whole shit!two wrong makes no ryte!!!tnxz
yeah i had thought abt da divorce thing.bt how do i start?what would be my excuse For da boarding skul stuf,


i don't want them in boarding skul,i have a big sis who can take care of them.

Tanks for ur care dear

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Re: My Wife Misbehaves Because I Cheated On Her. by Adasun(m): 12:49pm On Mar 01, 2016
Maximus85:


Take it from me, she's a damn good woman and she's not cheating on you. She might have taken it too far by not cooking for her kids but you brought all these on yourself and now it's affecting your innocent kids.
It's up to you. Look for a way to take her far away from home to a quiet place, I private beach or resort. Open your heart to her and vow never ever to cheat on her.
Men should be in control of their joystick. It belongs not to you but your wife's.
yeah u were right she was a gud woman,bt dat woman had completely changed.


Look as for da cheating,i tried to avoid it.u knw we men do something our heart do not like bt our body says otherwise.i am paying for my mistakes sha.

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Re: My Wife Misbehaves Because I Cheated On Her. by Adasun(m): 12:54pm On Mar 01, 2016
STFUareyouGod:
So why are you complaining? undecided
The fact she forgives doesn't mean you won't suffer for your sins. Even the bible made us realise a sinner won't go unpunished cheesy grin cheesy grin
Enjoy as she serves you hot
was dat expected to make me feel better
Re: My Wife Misbehaves Because I Cheated On Her. by Nobody: 1:12pm On Mar 01, 2016
What is sauce for the goose is sauce for the gander na grin grin grin
Okay Solution to the problem,
1. Cry and cry and cry cheesy cheesy
2. Pack out of the house and come back when respectable people come to ask you to come back tongue tongue

Don't forget to thank me grin grin

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Re: My Wife Misbehaves Because I Cheated On Her. by Armanee: 1:17pm On Mar 01, 2016
U shuld ask Toks2008 for an advice. He goes around encouraging Adulterous men. Im sure he has a backup plan for all situations concerning men who cheat. grin

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Re: My Wife Misbehaves Because I Cheated On Her. by Ngenge(m): 1:26pm On Mar 01, 2016
As some people said, she went to the extreme level by coming back late, bringing a guy home and not cooking 4 the kids. If she cannot forgive, then both of u can seperate in peace. Two captains cannot rock d same ship but na u cause d wahala o

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Re: My Wife Misbehaves Because I Cheated On Her. by ariyike23(f): 2:39pm On Mar 01, 2016
Adasun:
[b]hellow fellow,am in a big mess right now.



My pervetious heart lead me to cheat on my wife and unfortunately i got caught red handed.i woun't explain dat awkward experience for now.



My wife trusted me so much,but i broke those trust.now my own home is broken too.


When da deed happened and i was caught,she cried nd cried and later left my house.due to pleads frm those she respected so much because i ask them for help.she later came back to da hwz bt not in gud terms


we no longer greet,she hardly talks to me,she cook when she wants to.once she did not cook,i had to buy fud for da kids


most of all,she now started acting wield nd free.she picks suspicious calls right under my nose.laugh anyhow when charting.


When it first started,i thought it's just a plot to get me jealous so i dance to da tone.i use my body language to atleast show her am jealous and want her badly.


Bt it got worse,she now comes home late and even brought a guy home.and when i saw dis guy in da sitting rum,he introduce me as her cousing.sadsad


i was mad,but i myself i guilty.how do i show her dat am in charge when i myself was caught cheatingshould i send her out?on what ground

should i continue to make peace reign?bt i have tried my best.i need ur help my fellow landers.help a brother to make da right decision.


lalasticala do da needful.
Tanks[/b]


wen u cheat on ur partner,it messes up their psychology,u make ur wife wonder if she wasnt good enough,if she didnt do well,she must have forgiven u buh its difficult to get past cheating,esp wen she catches you red handed,trust me,it doesnt make things the same way,shez no robot,she has feelings and yu have mde her feel inadequate nd we all have different levels of pain absorber,u need to now do real apologsing,if u apologise in the mannish egoistic way,u wnt get a positive response,now is d time to put ur pride asides and save yur home,wake her up in the middle of the night,and kneel to beg her,cry if possible sef,put ur emotions in it and admit u messed up and tell her to give u anoda chance to right ur wrongs..shez onli waiting for u to sober up,she def still loves nd wants her marriage,, And yu beta kip ur thing to urself nd nt share wat is hers about,d moment u made d decision to make her ur wife,u have decided to be off limit to anybody.checkmate ur self,if u have sumfing attracting u out dere,try to inculcate d same in ur wife so she cn give u d best. most women are garbage in garbage out,u want a happy home,kip ur wife happy.This applies to decent women nd wives..

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Re: My Wife Misbehaves Because I Cheated On Her. by iamrealdeji(m): 4:12pm On Mar 01, 2016
Mr,with due respect,admit it that you're an animal for cheating on the mother of your kids. Just try to show much love to her,try to explain to her that we men are naturally polygamous,let her know that she's much better than the concubine you cheated on her with. Let her know that konji in men is just uncontrollable at times and let her know that a lot of men are he-goats,you inclusive. Ask for her forgiveness and promise never to do it again. Make sure she forgives you wholeheartedly

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Re: My Wife Misbehaves Because I Cheated On Her. by Came: 4:21pm On Mar 01, 2016
Cheating dey hard to forgive oooooo,,,, if you wan cheat,make sure say dem no catch you ,, because nothing remains the same once dem catch you .

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Re: My Wife Misbehaves Because I Cheated On Her. by cruzita(f): 4:28pm On Mar 01, 2016
that's what u sowed ,so my friend REAP IT

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Re: My Wife Misbehaves Because I Cheated On Her. by Nobody: 4:54pm On Mar 01, 2016
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Re: My Wife Misbehaves Because I Cheated On Her. by JustHere2Observ(f): 4:57pm On Mar 01, 2016
Win your wife back before you loose her. It might be broken, but it can still be fixed

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Re: My Wife Misbehaves Because I Cheated On Her. by Nobody: 5:04pm On Mar 01, 2016
Adasun:
yeah u were right she was a gud woman,bt dat woman had completely changed.
Look as for da cheating,i tried to avoid it.u knw we men do something our heart do not like bt our body says otherwise.i am paying for my mistakes sha.

Good wife gone bad . Try patience, prayers and honest communication instead of carrying the guilt around believing you deserve to be punished tolerating bad behavior put an end to the drama.

Pray for your wife to be healed you are after all the head of your home you have duties to make sure your marriage succeeds. Be a good captain.

Do you even know why you cheated? maybe you look into that so you don't repeat the same mistake knowledge they say is power.

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Re: My Wife Misbehaves Because I Cheated On Her. by xtervaganza(m): 5:39pm On Mar 01, 2016
She brought a guy home? Are you joking?



You have to be joking. I'm married and if my wife comes home with another man I'll kill the man 1st before throwing her out



I would never chest kn her though

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Re: My Wife Misbehaves Because I Cheated On Her. by uckennety(m): 8:22pm On Mar 01, 2016
Adasun:
yeah i had thought abt da divorce thing.bt how do i start?what would be my excuse For da boarding skul stuf,


i don't want them in boarding skul,i have a big sis who can take care of them.

Tanks for ur care dear
Haba!its called negligence of wife responsibility!and unfaithfulness!
And nxt timE a guy comes to ur house!use machete design am!ur d man!be d man!did u marry her a virgin?ur wrong yes!!!but marriage is 4 better 4 worse!!no one is perfect!wt she is doing is bullshit!and it's affecting u!especially wen it's ur fault!because u were caught!married men and women cheat dz days!so divorce her but 1st tlk to her!use anoda numba!called her and give ur child fone to tlk to her!saying mum we miss u and we r hungry!pls come n cook 4 us!if she doesn't respond to her children request then she doesn't love u or her kids and neva loved u!end dz quickly!as 4 d guys she brings use machete on him don't kill Him!and tk him to d police!accusing him of trespassing and breaking and entEring! No pity them ooo!wid dt she'll knw dt ur nt a soft Guy!she'll position! THIS is my adviceee cuz sHe is taking it too far!

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Re: My Wife Misbehaves Because I Cheated On Her. by Nobody: 9:03pm On Mar 01, 2016
uckennety:

Ur a wrong no doubt!but I v learnt neva to beg a woman!try tlk to her say ur sorry!if it continues!my brother let her bE!sEnd ur children to day care,or boardinG house!allow her have HER Fun wid whoEver!then as 4 a divorce!end d whole shit!two wrong makes no ryte!!!tnxz
u've succeded in brking deir marriage

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Re: My Wife Misbehaves Because I Cheated On Her. by Nobody: 9:05pm On Mar 01, 2016
Adasun:
yeah i had thought abt da divorce thing.bt how do i start?what would be my excuse For da boarding skul stuf,


i don't want them in boarding skul,i have a big sis who can take care of them.

Tanks for ur care dear
u finally wanto ruin ur marriage after cheatin now u want divorce lol :ou never c anything

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Re: My Wife Misbehaves Because I Cheated On Her. by Nobody: 9:07pm On Mar 01, 2016
uckennety:

Haba!its called negligence of wife responsibility!and unfaithfulness!
And nxt timE a guy comes to ur house!use machete design am!ur d man!be d man!did u marry her a virgin?ur wrong yes!!!but marriage is 4 better 4 worse!!no one is perfect!wt she is doing is bullshit!and it's affecting u!especially wen it's ur fault!because u were caught!married men and women cheat dz days!so divorce her but 1st tlk to her!use anoda numba!called her and give ur child fone to tlk to her!saying mum we miss u and we r hungry!pls come n cook 4 us!if she doesn't respond to her children request then she doesn't love u or her kids and neva loved u!end dz quickly!as 4 d guys she brings use machete on him don't kill Him!and tk him to d police!accusing him of trespassing and breaking and entEring! No pity them ooo!wid dt she'll knw dt ur nt a soft Guy!she'll position! THIS is my adviceee cuz sHe is taking it too far!
am sure if u were to catch ur wife cheating..u won't let her explain bfr u send her packing lol grin

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Re: My Wife Misbehaves Because I Cheated On Her. by Nobody: 9:10pm On Mar 01, 2016
Adasun:
[b]hellow fellow,am in a big mess right now.



My pervetious heart lead me to cheat on my wife and unfortunately i got caught red handed.i woun't explain dat awkward experience for now.



My wife trusted me so much,but i broke those trust.now my own home is broken too.


When da deed happened and i was caught,she cried nd cried and later left my house.due to pleads frm those she respected so much because i ask them for help.she later came back to da hwz bt not in gud terms


we no longer greet,she hardly talks to me,she cook when she wants to.once she did not cook,i had to buy fud for da kids


most of all,she now started acting wield nd free.she picks suspicious calls right under my nose.laugh anyhow when charting.


When it first started,i thought it's just a plot to get me jealous so i dance to da tone.i use my body language to atleast show her am jealous and want her badly.


Bt it got worse,she now comes home late and even brought a guy home.and when i saw dis guy in da sitting rum,he introduce me as her cousing.sadsad


i was mad,but i myself i guilty.how do i show her dat am in charge when i myself was caught cheatingshould i send her out?on what ground

should i continue to make peace reign?bt i have tried my best.i need ur help my fellow landers.help a brother to make da right decision.


lalasticala do da needful.
Tanks[/b]
OP my candid advice..beg ur wife like tomoro no dey..dont divorce her..u will end up single nd lonely nd it wuld all be ur fault
1.u cheated
2.u filed for divorec
Help ursef..dont let single romancelander confuse u..nd anoda tin..ask married pple for advice nt pple wt perverted minds ere

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Re: My Wife Misbehaves Because I Cheated On Her. by bebe2(f): 9:44pm On Mar 01, 2016
U need to nip this in the bud before it spirals out of control.

Two wrongs don't make a right.

R u scared of her? How can she be making silly calls and inviting strangers to the house?

U better sit her down and sort things out.

Call her tell her u messed up, and u sorry and it will never happen again, tell her u love her and want things back to how it used to be? She shud tell u Wat she wants you to do to fix it.

If dat doesn't work, tell her to move out. End of story.

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