I live and work in one of the cities in Southwest Nigeria. I'm single, male with a female working class neighbour who is also single.
For some months now, we've been seeing each other and it's now driving me nuts. It's clear than we can't date talk more of getting married. Our romance started sometimes mid last year after we spent some time gisting in my apartment and has continued since then.
I have tried to keep away from her but after a month at most, we come back together.
She has started to fall in love with me and I've got to stop this as soon as possible.
I need advice please.

AVRS:
I live and work in one of the cities in Southwest Nigeria. I'm single, male with a female working class neighbour who is also single.
For some months now, we've been seeing each other and it's now driving me nuts. It's clear than we can't date talk more of getting married. Our romance started sometimes mid last year after we spent some time gisting in my apartment and has continued since then.
I have tried to keep away from her but after a month at most, we come back together.
She has started to fall in love with me and I've got to stop this as soon as possible.
I need advice please.

Excuse me Mr Op...why can't you date?

Ethnicity or Religion

If u are a Christian or muslem the Bible or holy koran still preaches prayer in such a situation check proverb 6 vs 32 to 33 dz d best I can offer may God help u in Ur decision

why u go start waitin u no fit finish??


U better finish waiting u start jor

You ar single yet u don't wanna date ur crush?

Weytin u think say we fit do?

ipledge10:
Excuse me Mr Op...why can't you date....?

Ethnicity or Religion....... or maybe she does not meet your specs

AVRS

Op no one as giving u advice .....(comment. Above), get a broom and .... Away)

AVRS:
I live and work in one of the cities in Southwest Nigeria. I'm single, male with a female working class neighbour who is also single.
For some months now, we've been seeing each other and it's now driving me nuts. It's clear than we can't date talk more of getting married. Our romance started sometimes mid last year after we spent some time gisting in my apartment and has continued since then.
I have tried to keep away from her but after a month at most, we come back together.
She has started to fall in love with me and I've got to stop this as soon as possible.
I need advice please.

explain more on the bold statement if u want a reasonable advice here

jamesversion:


AVRS

but you have been fvcking her?that's how guys marry what we don't like

ipledge10:
Excuse me Mr Op...why can't you date?

Ethnicity or Religion

Actually neither. She's not physically and intellectually my kind of person (I don't mean to sound arrogant).

AVRS:

Actually neither. She's not physically and intellectually my kind of person (I don't mean to sound arrogant).

You are.

To me, this story looks half baked...con tell us the complete episode jare

Why you go bite meat wey you no go fit swallow

AVRS:

Actually neither. She's not physically and intellectually my kind of person (I don't mean to sound arrogant).

but her pvssy is yur type of pvssy?

AVRS:
I live and work in one of the cities in Southwest Nigeria. I'm single, male with a female working class neighbour who is also single.
For some months now, we've been seeing each other and it's now driving me nuts. It's clear than we can't date talk more of getting married. Our romance started sometimes mid last year after we spent some time gisting in my apartment and has continued since then.
I have tried to keep away from her but after a month at most, we come back together.
She has started to fall in love with me and I've got to stop this as soon as possible.
I need advice please.

from your post, the following can be deduced:

1) she isnt really your type of girl but one thing lead to the other, and you guys had it and trust nija babes, emotions must always be attached after having it.

2) you never asked her out, you tot you could just releive some tension cheaply with this super abundant availability, she tot both of you are single and marriage is a prospect. two tots off at a tangent

3) u realized yourself after the first deed, though u hated d idea of rolling on hay with her( she aint your spec), the other part that like forbidden fruits wudnt let you reason straight, and before u knew it, she was in ur arms again and again and again......

4) u tried to put things in perspective with yourself; that it's just a game but recently, she's started to call up them female demands/drama and make you commit for the long haul because your body language and behaviors is telling her u are just using her. this is getting you all worked up. you didnt plan this boo thingy.

specs is finally outa ya eyes and you are like, but i never really liked her in the first place and you wano get rid of her before this escalates.
everytime you try, she always comes back and blows ur minds with horizontal tangling and u dip again. then the drama rares and u just grow off.


SOLUTION?
none from me. because u are still very much njoying the tangling. when u are ready to quit for real, u wud. itz in ur mind.

but what ever you do, after the break up, it wud be better you move out of the said apartment.... trust me on this

6fit:

but her pvssy is yur type of pvssy?

oh dear heavens!

now u make me laugh hysterically !

First of all, frequent interaction creates bond then bond leads to intimacy that's socialization circle.

If you gone pass interaction to forming bond, there is likelihood for intimacy but with conscious self control and mind reprogramming and discipline, you would respect each others space and not over step bound. But after intimacy she has the key as you cannot regulate your territory no more but to relocate completely from that area or she's like gonna be you girlfriend or friend with benefit.

Start bringing a new hot chick to the house...

She has to see you both together...

Or

Change accommodation

Bro, it's too late to avoid heartbreak. You have already cracked her heart. Better to shatter it now than later, when she go nakèd herself swear for you.

Tick tock says the clock,
What you have to do, DO QUICK!

Avoid her as much as you can and don't renew your rent when it's due

u better no break that girl heart before she go swear for your head

U must b 1 hell of a chop and clean mouth nigga. Abeg pass her giv me afta u don taya na we 2 dey 1 lane

It's too late Op,she's pregnant already.

thorpido:
It's too late Op,she's pregnant already.

Hehehe yes o



Fuckgratulations my guy

AVRS:

Actually neither. She's not physically and intellectually my kind of person (I don't mean to sound arrogant).

Yeah and so u justs wanna fork her wait her future husband abi?

Let me get dis right, so u wan take am take follow up and clear konji mattaz..hmmm?

Am waiting for answer's

Befor any advice

AfroKnight:
Bro, it's too late to avoid heartbreak. You have already cracked her heart. Better to shatter it now than later, when she go nakèd herself swear for you.

Tick tock says the clock,
What you have to do, DO QUICK!

it was the 'quick quickie' that got him in the situation to start with!

Just do it

pack out of the area

It's obvious you are enjoying the free s*x too. Else, what is the big deal in breaking off a relationship? What you are having is not even a relationship. Ordinary S*X ROMP!!!


If you can't stop it with determination, then it means you like it......