vizkiz:


your thinking ability portrays you as a broke and dependant girl who seizes every relationship as a source of income ...BTW if my likes on nairaland can make me rich, I will still be a broke Morafurcker

cc: naijaboiy

osedvgirl:

sorry, i do not take small

Estharfabian:
See Your big head!


When A girl tells You she's A feminist now...You'd spite her Ass!

Jadekitana:


Boo she wouldn't drink garri forever o, erase that mentality.

vizkiz:
[s]this is one of the dumbest thread I have come across on nairaland

Still waiting to meet that person that started the idea that guys are the only one to do the spending in a relationship.

[b]It is suppose to be a relationship not a meal ticket or a source of income... Nigerian women makes me sick sometimes [/s][/b]

KashyBaby:
Well, u can't blame anyone whose in relationship while schooling.. .we're all humans, we have feelings..some students excelled coz they have this inspirations in their life to go on coz someone is pushing them to do better..relationships are meant to grow maturely together as a partner & not full of dramas...

I agree with you in a way but trust me, it's better to set your priorities because when that motivator leaves, if the persons isn't strong enough to handle the breakup that dream may be shattered. It's usually best to attach lil feelings

Jadekitana:


Or so you are Naijabo the Uniben student? Naaah I don't bash guys from my school, if not you for hear am lol.

osedvgirl:

as in really? wake up bro

KashyBaby:
Well, u can't blame anyone whose in relationship while schooling.. .we're all humans, we have feelings..some students excelled coz they have this inspirations in their life to go on coz someone is pushing them to do better..relationships are meant to grow maturely together as a partner & not full of dramas...

vizkiz:


bullshiit

NewSheriff:
Very myopic BS!

Though there is a little truth contained in the write up. Your premise as to why students shouldn't engage in romantic relationships is very myopic and lopsided. It might interest you to know that the amount of money some students receive for upkeep is more than the salary of an assistant lecturer. What about those sponsoring themselves and have enough to 'spend on bae' like you call it? Even some who receive little from their parents know how to manage themselves.

Another bias observation in your writeup is that, you're presenting spendings in relationships as a one sided game. You talked about why guys who don't have enough money to 'spend on bae' shouldn't go into relationships. What about girls who also don't have enough to 'spend on bae'??

I was expecting to see stipulations like managing your time, money, academics & relationship (with everything that comes with it).

Cutehector:
lmao! I no dey sell market na

osedvgirl:

most relationship while schooling is always lies, cheat, the babe must sneak out for other men to take care of her needs where the student lover fails to provide for her

vizkiz:


Esther, I don't know why you keep thinking I am a misogynist

No baby!

You're only a misogynist online.
You love girls...


I'm just saying...If You're so bent on girls helping out in A relationship, financially ofcourse...

Then,,why You against feminism?
the reason is beyond me!

Jadekitana:
I know some people would come out and say Jade has smoked her morning weed but like it or not a serious relationship isn't meant for students.

Imagine an average student who still depends on his parents for pocket money to buy handout talking about love, what do you understand by love? This generation has birthed people who now prefer actions to shakespare tales.

Your folks send you 5k to buy handouts,that money also includes pocket money to buy beans and t-fair, now tell me where does expenses for your so called babe come in? Oh u didn't think she would ask for recharge card right? She's always looking pretty and yours is to compliment not knowing those weekends she sneaks out is to go see her real boyfriend while you claiming love. After deceiving you, you rush here to create threads "the b.itch asked for recharge card,am I her father"

You think the scholars don't know what they are doing by not having relationships until after landing that chevron job? Girls are not smiling these days,its the hard truth. She would stick to you when she isn't yet exposed but once that exposure comes due to friends or peer pressure forget it! Love is a game don't be deceived,the highest bidder gets it all,while you are cursing and swearing she's having fun.

Cut your coat according to your size! Your wives are still in secondary school not the babes you are parading presently. If u ain't from affluent homes, not a yahoo boy, not into any business while schooling, you have no business having a serious relationship! You can have friends with benefits or flings as far as you play your game well.

80percent of relationships don't work after graduation, your so called bae may see a better bae and flee because time isn't on her side,stop wasting your emotions on fruitless relationships that would end at the gate. Read very well, f.uck that bff and come out with excellent grades, thank me later! I'm tired of seeing heartbroken childish threads from broke guys complaining about cheating girlfriends when you ain't worthy of having one the first place.

PS: the smart ones would see some truth here, the dumb ones would come here defending their naivety.

Fraih:

This is pointless!

Jadekitana:
I know some people would come out and say Jade has smoked her morning weed but like it or not a serious relationship isn't meant for students.

Imagine an average student who still depends on his parents for pocket money to buy handout talking about love, what do you understand by love? This generation has birthed people who now prefer actions to shakespare tales.

Your folks send you 5k to buy handouts,that money also includes pocket money to buy beans and t-fair, now tell me where does expenses for your so called babe come in? Oh u didn't think she would ask for recharge card right? She's always looking pretty and yours is to compliment not knowing those weekends she sneaks out is to go see her real boyfriend while you claiming love. After deceiving you, you rush here to create threads "the b.itch asked for recharge card,am I her father"

You think the scholars don't know what they are doing by not having relationships until after landing that chevron job? Girls are not smiling these days,its the hard truth. She would stick to you when she isn't yet exposed but once that exposure comes due to friends or peer pressure forget it! Love is a game don't be deceived,the highest bidder gets it all,while you are cursing and swearing she's having fun.

Cut your coat according to your size! Your wives are still in secondary school not the babes you are parading presently. If u ain't from affluent homes, not a yahoo boy, not into any business while schooling, you have no business having a serious relationship! You can have friends with benefits or flings as far as you play your game well.

80percent of relationships don't work after graduation, your so called bae may see a better bae and flee because time isn't on her side,stop wasting your emotions on fruitless relationships that would end at the gate. Read very well, f.uck that bff and come out with excellent grades, thank me later! I'm tired of seeing heartbroken childish threads from broke guys complaining about cheating girlfriends when you ain't worthy of having one the first place.

PS: the smart ones would see some truth here, the dumb ones would come here defending their naivety.

iceberylin:

You suppose understand....

vizkiz:
[size=. Nigerian women makes me sick sometimes [/size]

blueseacats:
She might be talking from experience , you better listen.

Oma307:
Ladies and money, am not surprised that ladies are used for ritual nowadays

osedvgirl:

most relationship while schooling is always lies, cheat, the babe must sneak out for other men to take care of her needs where the student lover fails to provide for her

Zelex9:


Although a generalisation (which I guess needs to be made when an overall point) this is unfortunately the truth of today's society. I believe that energy would be better spent on finding ways to build and further ones career. Everything else will fall into place. I would like to say that all this is part of the learning experience of life. I don't fault those that decide to get into relationships while schooling etc.

Estharfabian:
No baby!

You're only a misogynist online.
You love girls...


I'm just saying...If You're so bent on girls helping out in A relationship, financially ofcourse...

Then,,why You against feminism?
the reason is beyond me!

Jadekitana:


Hmmmm those are the comfortable students, what about the struggling ones? What should they do? Tell us

Jadekitana:


No leave her, I pray she doesn't learn in a hard way.

FlawlessRebirth2:
.TAKE PANADOL

FlawlessRebirth2:
.TAKE PANADOL