tombravo:
how u dey? i read say u wan learn pidgin. how lectures? p.s dnt mind the op. . she's delusional.

Lol...I shud change my personal text soon, I think I had enough of learning pidgin ...besides,nobody is talking pidgin in my area.

kinginvalhala4:

If you think you re among the 99.9% i mentioned, then good for you. Abi nor be Asotime or front of Motel Benin Plaza them they see una at night? And the upgraded ones re found at Royal Marble or Uyi Grand. Or una get another work?

.WHAT YOU DONT UNDERSTAND NOW IS DAH I DONT BASE BENIN....I NO EVEN DEY STAY.....





M NOT GOING TO XCHANG WORDS WIFF YOU...



I VOICED OUT MY OPINION LIKE ERRBODY..NOT D ONLY GIRL DAH SUPPORTED VHIZ THREAD...I DINT INSULT ANYBODY(BUH U DID WITH ME)..its kul..



BUH DONT GET ALL EXCITED... U DONT GET LUCKY EVERYDAY...

osedvgirl:

and the rich girls becomes worst in school, go and do research

There's no research to do. Poverty is in the mind. You and the OP have a poverty mentality.
My roommate married his school babe, I know people who are married but started dating in secondary school ( JSS 2).
All those issues ( hair, buy clothes, e.t.c) that you and OP talked about is caused by poverty.

Thanks for this write up...Very true.

KashyBaby:




Lol...I shud change my personal text soon, I think I had enough of learning pidgin ...besides,nobody is talking pidgin in my area.

lol. . . . so, how good are you nw at pidgin.

FlawlessRebirth2:
.WHAT YOU DONT UNDERSTAND NOW IS DAH I DONT BASE BENIN....I NO EVEN DEY STAY.....





M NOT GOING TO XCHANG WORDS WIFF YOU...



I VOICED OUT MY OPINION LIKE ERRBODY..NOT D ONLY GIRL DAH SUPPORTED VHIZ THREAD...I DINT INSULT ANYBODY(BUH U DID WITH ME)..its kul..



BUH DONT GET ALL EXCITED... U DONT GET LUCKY EVERYDAY...

Is the emboldened a threat?

Anyway, you can FVCK OFF and go suck a mad's man dick all for money. I DO NOT CARE!

IamJose:

perfect pic for d op.

You are 90% right. I wouldn't say 100. As an undergraduate the first thing I told myself from when I stepped inside the University in 2002 was relationship, a no no. I just knew I wasn't ready. I had lots of females wanting a relationship. I stuck my ground that I wasn't ready. Not really because I came from a poor home but mentally I just knew I wasn't ready. The truth is a girl at 18+ is ready for it but it will take most men say mid 20's to early 30 to actually come to grasp with manhood or maleness. Having a phallus doesn't make you a man. Nice write up.
Lastly in individuals there could be variations. So my 90%.

OP should have put the title as "Relationships in Nigeria are not for students"

If you are talking about Nigerian girls and/or students... Yes you are right to some extent cuz Nigerian girls have this mentality of dating for the benefits of what they gonna get from the guy.... No naija babe (atleast 95%) get time for true love anymore... Everyone wanna date/marry a rich guy hence they date people that re far ahead of them in age, career, class and lifestyle.

Don't ask me how I know.... I'm talking from real life experience

vizkiz:
this is one of the dumbest thread I have come across on nairaland

Still waiting to meet that person that started the idea that guys are the only one to do the spending in a relationship.

It is suppose to be a relationship not a meal ticket or a source of income... Nigerian women makes me sick sometimes

*modified*
Nigeria has a very long way to go if we keep think as shallow as this...you saying students shouldn't fall in love, but you have been opening your legs for men ever since you were in ss1

Abeg Who is fooling who





It is obvious this thread was channelled to insult male undergraduates...by hoes who run after sugar daddies... Any mod that delete my post go fall inside well before 8pm

ahhhh! This thread yaff pain u toooooooo much. How u know say op has been opening her legs since ss1? U dey stalk am? Shes talking about relatonships not prostitution. What has "run girlism" got to do with what was said.? Op clearly stated her opinion that male undergraduates who are hardly coping should leave girls alone and face studies. But instead of commenting reasonably U just entered here barking like a wounded dog and ur fellow kongi crazed partners in crime(all males,probably still in schl) bamboozled u with likes and shares and in ur mind ur feeling ur sef. Stay dia.

tombravo:
lol. . . . so, how good are you nw at pidgin.

If u rate from 0 to 10? My answer is 0...but let it be tat way..I'm happy with what ive picked & learned..

[quote author=NewSheriff post=43552601]Very myopic BS!

Though there is a little truth contained in the write up. Your premise as to why students shouldn't engage in romantic relationships is very myopic and lopsided. It might interest you to know that the amount of money some students receive for upkeep is more than the salary of an assistant lecturer. What about those sponsoring themselves and have enough to 'spend on bae' like you call it?






U ar sayin ds because u ar a guy and u re one sided. Except 4 students that ve their own jobs, d rest. Its females that do fall victims. U talkd abt the stdnts alowances that are more than lecturers, if such a lady get pregnat, who wil responsible? The student or his parent? at the end u wil see ladies abort for guy, 4 or more tym b4 graduation. After graduation, the guy wl go his way while the lady wl be wanderin in d wildernes of life looking 4 fruit of womb. (Eni ti ko ba ready kin re idi). Is it nt in sch whr male studts change relatnshp evry semester?

vizkiz:
this is one of the dumbest thread I have come across on nairaland

Still waiting to meet that person that started the idea that guys are the only one to do the spending in a relationship.

It is suppose to be a relationship not a meal ticket or a source of income... Nigerian women makes me sick sometimes

*modified*
Nigeria has a very long way to go if we keep think as shallow as this...you saying students shouldn't fall in love, but you have been opening your legs for men ever since you were in ss1

Abeg Who is fooling who





It is obvious this thread was channelled to insult male undergraduates...by hoes who run after sugar daddies... Any mod that delete my post go fall inside well before 8pm

U got 81 likes. She got 29 likes.
There are still reasonable people in Nigeria.

Lived in many countries, and the ladies in these countries simply tell u they have bfs.

They rnt poverty striken like naija girls.

I don't agree with this, not everyone goes into a relationship simply because of what one party has got to offer.


Its a shrewd mentality if you ask me. Besides not every student depends solely on their parents to survive.

People like OP na him men go give 10k, then fvck 100k commot from her nose.

Please note: that someone is poor does not mean he will remain like that forever. No condition is permanent.

i c frustrated niggas commenting,truth b told Jade is tru wt ha writeup

Nice thread, u are so on point darling. That one would even tell me how he wants me to look whereas he has neva bought me a single top...but ready to show me off on campus especially on days when I look more beautiful. Awon oniranu

osedvgirl:

most relationship while schooling is always lies, cheat, the babe must sneak out for other men to take care of her needs where the student lover fails to provide for her

Is that all relationship entails...... Childish really childish

Lol,looking back,jade isn't far from d truth,but wait ooo,ar u giving us reasons y female students turn to official olosho while in sch?

Jadekitana:


Naaah it's the truth bro, don't sweat it by looking for cheap likes. I noticed that's what you do!

I agree with him. The problem is how ladies define relationship here. Is he your dad or Bf? Why must it always be about money with u ladies. You even mentioned YAHOO boys, so those boys have right to relationship, but a studious student should not have a gf? Speaks volumes about you.

Threads like this sadden me. I know I'm always chiding Naija babes for being cheap, but I didn't think you were this cheap. It seems parents these days are wasting tuition fees on their daughters. I know how I'd feel if I sent my daughter to school, only to find out she's been whoring herself for peanuts. Reality is, even young working-class guys are hardly wealthy, unless they work in multi-billion Naira companies or come from wealthy homes. Its men that have been in the system for a while that have large savings and they're often married at that age. This means you sleep with married men. Then you get married and expect your husband to be faithful. Instead of stressing your parents and yourselves by going to school and getting jobs, why not have your parents buy you beauty products instead, so you can attract men easily? Its cheaper and faster. I know there are still a few girls out there in school that don't sleep around for money and some sustain themselves through hard work. I just pray I never have a female child, because it seems the average Naija girl is a cheap, money-hungry, shameless gold digger

iceberylin:
Is it ya Garri the girls are drinking with their student BFs?

don't mind her. She is nothing but a LovePeddler. Imagine even counting yahoo boys as one of the groups that are entitled to relationship. Many whores everywhere, love is nothing but money to them

Oh Lawd! Not again, kids bashing each other. Just wasted my time (5 minutes). Smh for these indomie generation kids and their thought/reasoning. Where ma old dogz @?

Jadekitana:
I know some people would come out and say Jade has smoked her morning weed but like it or not a serious relationship isn't meant for students.

Imagine an average student who still depends on his parents for pocket money to buy handout talking about love, what do you understand by love? This generation has birthed people who now prefer actions to shakespare tales.

Your folks send you 5k to buy handouts,that money also includes pocket money to buy beans and t-fair, now tell me where does expenses for your so called babe come in? Oh u didn't think she would ask for recharge card right? She's always looking pretty and yours is to compliment not knowing those weekends she sneaks out is to go see her real boyfriend while you claiming love. After deceiving you, you rush here to create threads "the b.itch asked for recharge card,am I her father"

You think the scholars don't know what they are doing by not having relationships until after landing that chevron job? Girls are not smiling these days,its the hard truth. She would stick to you when she isn't yet exposed but once that exposure comes due to friends or peer pressure forget it! Love is a game don't be deceived,the highest bidder gets it all,while you are cursing and swearing she's having fun.

Cut your coat according to your size! Your wives are still in secondary school not the babes you are parading presently. If u ain't from affluent homes, not a yahoo boy, not into any business while schooling, you have no business having a serious relationship! You can have friends with benefits or flings as far as you play your game well.

80percent of relationships don't work after graduation, your so called bae may see a better bae and flee because time isn't on her side,stop wasting your emotions on fruitless relationships that would end at the gate. Read very well, f.uck that bff and come out with excellent grades, thank me later! I'm tired of seeing heartbroken childish threads from broke guys complaining about cheating girlfriends when you ain't worthy of having one the first place.

PS: the smart ones would see some truth here, the dumb ones would come here defending their naivety.

ur likes will surely hail u for this trash u said here...So cuz an innocent dude asks u out,he now automatically turns t ur atm machine abi? or does it automatically makes u an orphan? mtcheww, whatever happens to mutual consent. and oh pls, so every good looking lady on campus is sneaking out in the night abi? Chai, I pity ur reasoning. Let me tel u sometin bae, some ladies can take care of themselves.

Fraih:

This is pointless!

You are one of the few sensible ladies we still have in our society.
Some people are so myopic, they think relationship is all about money and sex.
What is annoying me the most with this thread is her supporting yahoo boys being in relationship over an average honest student. Shows the angle she is coming from. Hungry Girls from broke homes without value

Errm op, I can bet u are still a student. Its obvious from ur writing because in the real world its not always about a guy providing for you, You have an obligation too, also ur post seems one sided, it kind of justifies school girls to be in a relationship but doesn't justify for guys, why is this?

In as much as I don't support guys lavishing on their school gf, I still think there is nothing wrong in a student dating a lady, especially when the lady is not poor/ or doesn't have the same mindset that u have.. I had like two girls that really wanted to date me back in the university. They obviously didnt need my money because they were very comfortable, so are u saying dating them would have been wrong simply because I was a student and wasn't so rich? Did u even bother to know that majority of university students in Nigeria are fully grown adults? If u knew all this, then u wouldn't be saying a student shouldn't date..

Your post has a very huge shortcoming painted in the following scenerio.

"A student aged 18 that is very rich should go ahead to date, while a 32 year old fully grown adult who isn't that rich should not be in a relationship"

Now re-read the scenerio above and see how myopic ur post is..

vizkiz:


your thinking ability portrays you as a broke and dependant girl who seizes every relationship as a source of income ...BTW if my likes on nairaland can make me rich, I will still be a broke Morafurcker

cc: naijaboiy

I have the appropriate words for this silly op, but let me just keep it.
By the way I am not a student, but truth I have discovered, most nigerian girls are whores. They belong to the highest bidder. You can abuse them as long as you have money. They have no value

just passing

KashyBaby:



If u rate from 0 to 10? My answer is 0...but let it be tat way..I'm happy with what ive picked & learned..

well. what else can i say? amma stop quoting nw so as nt to derail this one-sided stupid post.

osedvgirl:
as in really? wake up bro

Olosho

OP i see your point here.
But may i ask something? if a male undergraduate depends solely on so called 'pocket money' from his parents, why do the female ones feel obliged to have an alternate source of income besides what she got from her own parents?
Or females are the only one who aren't content with what they get?

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You know i found this logic by most Nigeria females warped and ludicrous. And i have come to notice this state of mind is somehow common with you Nigerian girls alone. for pete sake its young people dating why does it have to be always centered around money? why should yall be so slutty? you guys are mostly teenagers/early 20s for pete sake.
I believe a relationship shouldn't be a source of income, it should be some mutual emotional development centered around mutual goals and set out future plans.
If Nigerian female undergraduates believe a mere relationship makes them qualify to receive salaries from their partners, isn't it safe to call those with that mindset prostitutes?



I was once an undergraduate and i was in different relationships, not in Nigeria obviously and none of them were this way; i got them gifts on special occasions, take them out on other special occasions, but its never about money, it was never a prerequisite, never took care of bills or get vouchers, it was off the table, they all have their parents, and they seem to be content.
Its like all that matters to you all is money, money, money, and that's pathetic.