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I think it's awful for a 45y old to date a 25y boy. According to Cleveland on Family Guy. . ."oh that's just nasty". The guy should be older than the girl, it's the best way

Nothing spoil as long as they are happy together and the feeling is real and not adulterous. It must be open and done right to get my support.

African or un african, I will skin him alive oh, Is that he didnt see the sweet succulent angels around who are his mates to date or what? Or is it my 45 old enough friend to mess up with, ?

As for my friend, it will be a personal matter between my family and hers, Dats the highest point of betrayal of friendship, if its my hubby she set her sights on, i will understand but my son? incredible, maybe she's doing it to get to me or what, Or is she jealous of my family & wants to disrupt my peace? I will definitely come after her with a rusty rake,

Young adults should be allowed to face peer pressures, have fun with their age mates & live life to the fullest without the overbearing attitude of over sexed adults,

Divab:

African or un african, I will skin him alive oh, Is that he didnt see the sweet succulent angels around who are his mates to date or what? Or is it my 45 old enough friend to mess up with, ?

As for my friend, it will be a personal matter between my family and hers, Dats the highest point of betrayal of friendship, if its my hubby she set her sights on, i will understand but my son? incredible, maybe she's doing it to get to me or what, Or is she jealous of my family & wants to disrupt my peace? I will definitely come after her with a rusty rake,
Young adults should be allowed to face peer pressures, have fun with their age mates & live life to the fullest without the overbearing attitude of over sexed adults,

are you saying that if your 45yr old friend goes after your man, it would be better in your eyes than your kid?
and also if the 45yr old happen to be NOT over sexed ("virgin" and never married) would it make it better?

@nwa-uwa

this sort of stuff happens constantly in naija. People only speak of the ones they know of.
our young boys are busy looking for sugar mummies( check nairalist, skype, and other websites)
our young girls arent different and easily get the sugar daddies they seek.

@poster, if the 45year old lady wasnt your friend, would it make any difference?

What would you do if your son was shagging the wife of a minister who spoils him with money and everything he wants??

I know a 26year old Nigerian boy who lives in Bludenz, Austria and lives with his 67year old wealthy lover. The boy sends money and cars home to his parents and they are all smiles that their son is doing well abroad

"are you saying that if your 45yr old friend goes after your man, it would be better in your eyes than your kid?
and also if the 45yr old happen to be NOT over sexed ("virgin" and never married) would it make it better?"

All i meant I can understand her jealousy and envy tendencies but dating my son is completely out of the way,

Whether over sexed, virgin or never married, is way out of line, 45yrs is 45yrs,