falconey:
Please how much is a carton of CD?

queenceline:
school life is scary, you see alot of things that you'll begin to wonder how you got there in the first place. raw sex is the devils food, its enticing and alluring till you end up in hot soup.

Ladrang:
I saw a girl I know about a month ago in school with a bump on her stomach. Obviously, she's pregnant! I was like,' so this girl has been doing it raw all these while.' I was actully disappointed, but wasn't surprised. I'm disappointed because this is a young and beautiful girl with her whole life before her, but she has chosen to foolishly throw it away. I wasn't surprised because she was living the fast life. So it was only a matter of time before something happened. On a lighter note, I'm a bit happy for her because it was pregnancy afterall, and not that she got HIV. Had it been she got infected with HIV, her life and dreams would have been effectively ended.

Like this girl, many people today, especially youths in school, are living the fast life.I am not surprised, but what baffles me is that at this age, people still have the courage to have sex without protection. It beats my imagination that unmarried people seldom use condom these days. Seriously, this is the height of recklessness.

I would love to preach abstinence, but I want to be as realistic as possible. So I will outline the the following imperative points.

1. Students should not have sex. School life is crazy, and students do a lot of crazy things. You can't afford to put your life in someone else's hand just in the name of dating or boyfriend/girlfriend relationship. If you must have sex, please use protection; if you won't use protection, don't have sex. Never do raw.

2. Those in a long distance relationship, especially when there is nothing concrete on ground, should not have sex without protection. Don't be so eager to go down without condom just because you are getting to see each other after a long while. Bleep love; your life matters more. Don't do raw.

3. For one-night standers, brothel customers, and guys that go down with random girls or the so-called side chicks, always use protection. Don't do raw.

4. The mentality that doing it raw or having flesh to flesh sex is the best or the sweetest must be stopped. Trust me, you don't want to exchange one minute or fifteen minutes pleasure with HIV. You don't! If you know the wonders that HIV/AIDS can do, you won't be able to summon the erection to do raw.

5. You may think that having HIV is no longer the death sentence it used to be because the HIV drugs are effective. The antiretrovirals are doing a great job, but they have their drawbacks too. You don't want to find out these drawbacks personally.

6. Doing raw is not a sign of bravery or the height of enjoyment. It is the height of foolishness!

7. Do raw, get HIV and you can kiss your life and dreams good-bye.

Please it is time you assume responsibility for your life and lead a responsible life.

*For the record, I'm -ve, but I've seen the wonders of HIV/AIDS and I can testify to its brutality. The shit is scary, and it is still the greatest fucker of humanity... Graver than Bubonic Plague, Spanish Influenza, Ebola, etc*

stupidity:
What the fvck is you saying? How can HIV be graver than Ebola that kills within a month??


Anyways your message is clear, from today onward, am zipping up. No more sex.


Am serious.

Very serious.

bardella1:
it took d lady every ounce in her to keep dat baby
It's easy to abort but it's harder to keep a baby
She could av easily aborted the baby and move on wt her life
But she chose to keep d baby
I tink she deserves dome respect for dat
Nt backbiting

bardella1:
it took d lady every ounce in her to keep dat baby
It's easy to abort but it's harder to keep a baby
She could av easily aborted the baby and move on wt her life
But she chose to keep d baby
I tink she deserves dome respect for dat
Nt backbiting

Ladrang:


I'll likexto point out somethings.

In relating her case, I tried not to be judgemental. I tried to conceal her identity as best as I could. I'm not sentimentally attached to; just someone I her happen to know. Hundreds of girls might have their stomach bumping up now for all I know; so it could be any of them. Lastly, her story, although an inspiration, was secondary to the point; it was meant as an anecdote.

I seriously don't think I snitched!

pinceprinz:
I think I love this thread but I'm not totally agreeable to this school of thought.

1. Potent pre and post sex pills abound in the market now to guard against pregnancy.

2. With the pill invivo, what happened to withdrawal method?

3. Why not preach about faithfulness also? We all know condoms can break ... HIV can 'enter' as a result ... That will be guarded against when faithfulness is the slogan of d rel.

-It's not every time you'll have the condom. So far yo mutually faithful nathing to fear ma nigga . Raw sex + pills + faithfulness + withdrawal method is the code to the door into the room of unprotected sexual venture...

I'm just saying tho, I'm always No -No to premarital copulation. It's bad habit to fukc another man's wife.

falconey:
Say no to raw

firstking01:
but yes to smackdown

falconey:

Laugh wan tear my belle

folamog:
A lack of testing: You hear a lot of people brag about getting an HIV test, but how many people mention that they’ve gotten a full STD screening? You do realize that there are other diseases out there besides HIV right? In fact, many of these diseases, such as HPV, can kill both men and women. So, you meet that really handsome guy that every other girl wants, and he makes it clear that he’s not committed to you (which translates to the fact that he can do whatever he wants). You responsibly ask him his HIV status. He impresses you by showing up with a clean bill of health from his doctor, disclosing his latest negative HIV test results (assuming you wait to see the results before having s*x, which many people do not), and you take the condom off (for either oral, vaginal or a**l intercourse – a condom is supposed to be worn for all three, right?). Do you think you’re completely safe? Think again. The bottom line? There are other diseases out there besides HIV and people are catching a lot of them. Also, if you like that man, chances are that other women like him too. Finally, if he’s not a man that is careful about his s****l health or buys into the BS notion that black men are supposed to sleep around, chances are that he’s got a disease that even he doesn’t know anything about. When my friend (a strong black man who is not part of the “CDC conspiracy”) went to a barbershop and tested 20 black men for Chlamydia, he found that over half of them were infected and had no idea. Why? Because people don’t get regularly tested for that disease until they start showing serious and painful symptoms.

chigoizie7:
Please who are all these people to detect what is good or what is bad for our lives?

Must everyone go to skul?


Must all of use be like dangote?


See, if she is comfortable fvcking all types of prick and enjoying it, so be it.


If she saw nothing wrong in being a mother @ a tender age, so be it( @least she is an adult)


Why does society detect for us what happens in our lives? A society full of corrupt people? A society full of hypocrites? A society that will do exam malpractice to pass exams and den come here to detect who is wrong and who is right?

D society that will give high table chairs for men/women who do all sorts of bad things to be elites ot the society and den come back to tell us what is morally right and what is morally wrong?





Education is good, protection from std's are good. Let it be an advice to all, and not a cup to measure who is bad, good, wrong or right in d society.