Drabeey:
Nairalanders, i need your advise ASAP.
Pls note only mature minds only. Pls do not abuse or.......
I made up my mind to put it here than killing myself thinking all by myself.pls dont mind my diction, i have big thumbs
Lpo
I met this young beautiful lady about 2 years now and ever since we've been friends and just friends.
I took it further to ask her out, but she declined but after up to a year of disturbance, she said yes and......


Fast forwarded till present. I Proposed my love to her with a ring and she was overwhelmed that day. She said yes without ado( i even shared some pics here).

Backward to that time i asked her out. Yes, she told me she is dating one white guy. She told me it isnt anything serious and now she is no more dating him, just that they are now best of friends and he render helps to her. I believed her and we started the relationship.

After i gave her that ring, she has been one very...... girl.
Its either we fight today,quarell tomorrow and.......

She's just been fruustrating my life.

One day we had a little misunderstanding over the phone, and the next thing i saw was her text, telling me she already flushed the ring. I was so mad that day, but i love her and i forgave her later.

Fastforward to last week, i saw a picture on her dp( she was wearing a guys cap and posed in a very lovely house ) . Without suspecting, i asked her where that nice place was and she answered that 'why was i asking'?
I told her jokingly that just to know if that was her new house and she told me it was the white guys house and that was his cap she wore.
My mind got heavy that day and i wasnt myself throughout.

Just of recent, what she did on her dp was so annoying. She snapped her hands and the guys hands on her dp, showing bothe hands as if telling someone "we are married".

I told her to remove it which she did and told me it was an old picture, at least more than a year. Yes i believed and we moved on.
Now to the major problem im facing now, she doesnt pick my calls again.
She will later call back and tell me she's been busy or sleeping and that was why she isnt picking calls.
Apart from that, she doesnt chat again nowadays. She's always online yet, she will never talk to me. She hasn't replied my messages since 2days now...


I need advise on what to do. I love her yet, im afraid she already moved on. Should i just break up with her or wait till........


Pls advise me.

Drabeey:
Nairalanders, i need your advise ASAP.
Pls note only mature minds only. Pls do not abuse or.......
I made up my mind to put it here than killing myself thinking all by myself.pls dont mind my diction, i have big thumbs

I met this young beautiful lady about 2 years now and ever since we've been friends and just friends.
I took it further to ask her out, but she declined but after up to a year of disturbance, she said yes and......


Fast forwarded till present. I Proposed my love to her with a ring and she was overwhelmed that day. She said yes without ado( i even shared some pics here).

Backward to that time i asked her out. Yes, she told me she is dating one white guy. She told me it isnt anything serious and now she is no more dating him, just that they are now best of friends and he render helps to her. I believed her and we started the relationship.

After i gave her that ring, she has been one very...... girl.
Its either we fight today,quarell tomorrow and.......

She's just been fruustrating my life.

One day we had a little misunderstanding over the phone, and the next thing i saw was her text, telling me she already flushed the ring. I was so mad that day, but i love her and i forgave her later.

Fastforward to last week, i saw a picture on her dp( she was wearing a guys cap and posed in a very lovely house ) . Without suspecting, i asked her where that nice place was and she answered that 'why was i asking'?
I told her jokingly that just to know if that was her new house and she told me it was the white guys house and that was his cap she wore.
My mind got heavy that day and i wasnt myself throughout.

Just of recent, what she did on her dp was so annoying. She snapped her hands and the guys hands on her dp, showing bothe hands as if telling someone "we are married".

I told her to remove it which she did and told me it was an old picture, at least more than a year. Yes i believed and we moved on.
Now to the major problem im facing now, she doesnt pick my calls again.
She will later call back and tell me she's been busy or sleeping and that was why she isnt picking calls.
Apart from that, she doesnt chat again nowadays. She's always online yet, she will never talk to me. She hasn't replied my messages since 2days now...


I need advise on what to do. I love her yet, im afraid she already moved on. Should i just break up with her or wait till........


Pls advise me.

DeadWrong:
Damn! I hate to read stories about weaklings. It freaks me out!
Op has very deep inferiority complex. Why would sane guy chase after a lady for a year in the first place? The same energy that could have been invested into something productive.
Jeez...Why do we have sissies in this world?
I don't ask her a lady out twice talk more of chasing after her like she's some achievements. Mtxheew.
Op, slap yourself and wake up from ur foolishness

Michellla:
When a girl is no longer interested in a relationship she doesn't want to
be the one to end it. But even when she is
already made the decision to break it up, she will take some time to give you some signs to prepare you, before she tells you. This is time to take a look at your relationship.
1. This is probably the most subtle
sign of all_her life has become too hectic. She hasn't picked up the phone for a few days and when she does, she is busy and pretending that she doesn't have time to met you.
2.she's snapping at his house and wearing his cap.
3.she uploaded a picture of both their hands together.
Doesnt take a prophet to tell you she has moved on

Drabeey:


Thanks, but you should.have just moved on without typing anything, but still. Thnks

Stanleyafam:
How old are u biko.. pls go and read prov 31 vs 10 to d end so u'll know the kind of woman to propose to...it worked for me..

Michellla:
ouchh... sorry about that.sure you're quite okay now.

Tallesty1:
I now believe that the tngly feeling you get when you meet your gf/bf is common sense leaving your body, else I don't see the reason the op has failed to see what's going on.

Someone is proudly cheating on you and rubbing it on your face like a foreign cream and you're here talking love? Who love don help?

Ok here's what happened. She refused to date you initially because she has a man but they had a little misunderstanding in the long run, that was when she accepted to date you(temporarily).

They're back together now and your contract/tenure has expired so shovel your ass into your boxers and move on.



Investing emotionally in a relationship with some people is a waste.

19naia:
Its easy for a girl who wants things to simply accept things even if it comes with someone's deep feelings and expectations attached.
If she is in it for the things, the attached feelings and expectations will be disregarded and the things will be emphasized. The other guy is another opportunity for her and probably just another symbol of "things" to be gained rather than a real person to person love relationship.

I beg, marriage would be a long term sentence to this hard labor of usury. Your pain will pay dividends in true love elsewhere with another person because: the kind of problem she has ,does not cure over night nor after a year or two of marriage.

Her lacking is in an area you do not know lackng in. Move on and stay true. Embrace the pain and lesson because its all part of a real life being lived. Your own love & wisdom is on a better track than hers.
She is that metaphoric girl in class convincing everybody she is the school icon while you are well on your way to graduating with honors where she will have tattered papers to show and an ultimatum to stay behind and repeat the class or else drop out and try for success at subservience to people she does not care for.
Your life is well and don't doubt it. Some people are yet to pay the debts they owe and they are still spending other people's substance with nothing of their own to show.

FlawlessRebirth2:
JESUUUUUUUUUUUUUU
ABEG MK UNA HELP ME ASK OP WHICH KIND ADVICE HIM NEED AGAIN??
SHE DON GIVE U TOUCH AND FOLLOW NI?
ahhh ahhhh....THIS ONE IS BLIND

Abdulazeez70:
and u truly luv d best u are going to do is to leave her 4 sometime u will see calling u bak

Jadeite:



Or even baby shower photos

falconey:


Do you need sledgehammer to break up with her?


she is preying on you man.

Michellla:
When a girl is no longer interested in a relationship she doesn't want to
be the one to end it. But even when she is
already made the decision to break it up, she will take some time to give you some signs to prepare you, before she tells you. This is time to take a look at your relationship.
1. This is probably the most subtle
sign of all_her life has become too hectic. She hasn't picked up the phone for a few days and when she does, she is busy and pretending that she doesn't have time to met you.
Doesnt take a prophet to tell you she has moved on

johnsonjosbles:
that's is it, ppl think that yeye girl has broken up with Op, u'l be suprice when she'l come back begging, my worries. I don't want Op to chop fiarly used! By that time? Op go swim in river Benue not even in borehole.

kowema:
Hmmmmmm....That girl is greedy and mean!!.

OP, it's cus u are giving her attention. Ignore her completely for One month and watch her emaciate.

Eaa247:



sory to offend u wit d harsh words! Yea, I knw there r those ladies dat struggle to earn a living in a decent manner. Bad ones dat can die because of money seem to ve overshadowed the decent ones. Mayb u r nt among the gluttons!