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Help :my Relationship On The Verge Of Collapse by Frontier2: 9:50am On Mar 28, 2016
Okay, so basically I'm dating a Nigerian girl that lives in the United States. I've known her for two years now before she left Nigeria because she left Nigeria last year September, even before she left my phone was bad because of her i had to change my phone to camon c8 for good communication, she promised she won't forget me but... Things seems to be going worst everyday because we've not talked since January this year
I chat her up on BBM she won't reply. Am really scared and worried, does it seem like she's having another affair or she's busy?
I really care about her and i think she cares about me too because she said that she she left.
I just feel like she is hiding something. Please guys what do you think
Re: Help :my Relationship On The Verge Of Collapse by emeraldknytt(m): 9:52am On Mar 28, 2016
dude, you are thinking fastidiously and this might really affect your relationship on a long run. She may be preoccupied with some bothering ish and dragging you into it would be the most evil activity in her list. Morealso, chat ought to be a secondary mean of communication, phone calls are more direct and endearing. Try placing a call and the dilemma you've put yourself through will be over
Re: Help :my Relationship On The Verge Of Collapse by Oche211(m): 9:53am On Mar 28, 2016
Two people in different continents nd countries. Bros, dat relationship get comma

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Re: Help :my Relationship On The Verge Of Collapse by cruzita(f): 9:55am On Mar 28, 2016
I think those in long distance relationship will answer better
Re: Help :my Relationship On The Verge Of Collapse by halfricanadian(f): 9:57am On Mar 28, 2016
Aint no girl in naija ni?
Re: Help :my Relationship On The Verge Of Collapse by Destined2win: 10:10am On Mar 28, 2016
Ogbeni move on with your life. Do you really think that there are no guys over there that will make her think less of you.

Someone said, you can only call a woman yours where is present with you at any moment. You don't know if she is going to the next guy's house once she steps out of your door.

Live your life jare
Re: Help :my Relationship On The Verge Of Collapse by TeeFeh(f): 10:14am On Mar 28, 2016
Op please forget about her because am sure she's into something else already, she's dating someone else already... Please there some many girls here in Nigeria ooooooo don't waste your time?
Re: Help :my Relationship On The Verge Of Collapse by Royle2014(m): 1:49pm On Mar 28, 2016
ur relationship with this girl ended the very day she left the shores of Nigeria. MOVE ON nd LET HER BE

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Re: Help :my Relationship On The Verge Of Collapse by Frontier2: 4:00pm On Mar 28, 2016
But I love her, even because of i stay away from do many girls .
Re: Help :my Relationship On The Verge Of Collapse by Glory12345(f): 4:02pm On Mar 28, 2016
I will advise you to forget about her because she has started a new life dere i have a sister it happened to so just forget about her else you are seriously jonzing..
Re: Help :my Relationship On The Verge Of Collapse by Anuoluwapo23(f): 4:06pm On Mar 28, 2016
Op please for God's sake forget about it, am a good example of what you are saying, I have the same experience.. So just forget oolong brother..
Re: Help :my Relationship On The Verge Of Collapse by Frontier2: 8:27pm On Mar 28, 2016
Anuoluwapo23:
Op please for God's sake forget about it, am a good example of what you are saying, I have the same experience.. So just forget oolong brother..
wow , thanks
Re: Help :my Relationship On The Verge Of Collapse by kullozone(m): 8:35pm On Mar 28, 2016
Frontier2:
But I love her, even because of i stay away from do many girls
.
oya sidan there dey wait na..people dey teh you sontin naw,you no wan listen.The earlier the better..
Re: Help :my Relationship On The Verge Of Collapse by Tommfrench(m): 8:59pm On Mar 28, 2016
She probably found herself in an environment, where people school and work 10 hours a day


so,no time for idle chats


stop lamenting, keep yourself busy Nigga !

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Re: Help :my Relationship On The Verge Of Collapse by Nobody: 9:16pm On Mar 28, 2016
Congrats its collapsing this early before you seal it off. Do something about the foundation sha. That's WHR d problem usually lies
Re: Help :my Relationship On The Verge Of Collapse by ayamAgenius: 10:49pm On Mar 28, 2016
Frontier2:
Okay, so basically I'm dating a Nigerian girl that lives in the United States. I've known her for two years now before she left Nigeria because she left Nigeria last year September, even before she left my phone was bad because of her i had to change my phone to camon c8 for good communication, she promised she won't forget me but... Things seems to be going worst everyday because we've not talked since January this year
I chat her up on BBM she won't reply. Am really scared and worried, does it seem like she's having another affair or she's busy?
I really care about her and i think she cares about me too because she said that she she left.
I just feel like she is hiding something. Please guys what do you think

The relationship ended Dec '15...
It's easy to guess her New Year Resolution...
Expunge the thoughts of you being in a relationship and move on!
Re: Help :my Relationship On The Verge Of Collapse by oribi(m): 10:52pm On Mar 28, 2016
MOVE ON...LOOK FOR ONE CORRECT GIRL IMMEDIATELY IF NOT U GO JUST GET BP...SINCE JAN NO COMMUNICATION
Re: Help :my Relationship On The Verge Of Collapse by Richiy(f): 11:22pm On Mar 28, 2016
Hahaha grin grin

Team foreign girls grin grin grin
Re: Help :my Relationship On The Verge Of Collapse by Anuoluwapo23(f): 8:03am On Mar 29, 2016
oribi:
MOVE ON...LOOK FOR ONE CORRECT GIRL IMMEDIATELY IF NOT U GO JUST GET BP...SINCE JAN NO COMMUNICATION
iz it not possible to wait for her?
Re: Help :my Relationship On The Verge Of Collapse by Anuoluwapo23(f): 8:04am On Mar 29, 2016
Richiy:
Hahaha grin grin
Team foreign girls grin grin grin
guy give your own advice.
Re: Help :my Relationship On The Verge Of Collapse by oribi(m): 8:09am On Mar 29, 2016
Anuoluwapo23:
iz it not possible to wait for her?

wait for a heart-break?
Re: Help :my Relationship On The Verge Of Collapse by Glory12345(f): 8:24am On Mar 29, 2016
Hmmmm! This is a serious issue ooo but I will have to come back to give you my own view or rather lemme just say leave and forget the lady please..
Re: Help :my Relationship On The Verge Of Collapse by Richiy(f): 8:32am On Mar 29, 2016
Anuoluwapo23:
guy give your own advice.

What other advice is needed undecided undecided That ship has sailed long ago and have even reached Antarctica by now. grin
Re: Help :my Relationship On The Verge Of Collapse by Frontier2: 6:21pm On Mar 29, 2016
Hmmmmmmm
Re: Help :my Relationship On The Verge Of Collapse by Frontier2: 2:28pm On Mar 30, 2016
Richiy:


What other advice is needed undecided undecided That ship has sailed long ago and have even reached Antarctica by now. grin
please what du u suggest?
Re: Help :my Relationship On The Verge Of Collapse by Frontier2: 2:29pm On Mar 30, 2016
Oche211:
Two people in different continents nd countries.
Bros, dat relationship get comma
but she promised me.
Re: Help :my Relationship On The Verge Of Collapse by Frontier2: 2:30pm On Mar 30, 2016
emeraldknytt:
dude, you are thinking fastidiously and this might really affect your relationship on a long run. She may be preoccupied with some bothering ish and dragging you into it would be the most evil activity in her list. Morealso, chat ought to be a secondary mean of communication, phone calls are more direct and endearing. Try placing a call and the dilemma you've put yourself through will be over
yes that's y I need best solution don't wantu just forget her..
Re: Help :my Relationship On The Verge Of Collapse by Frontier2: 2:31pm On Mar 30, 2016
halfricanadian:
Aint no girl in naija ni?
there is but haven't seen the girl I like her.
Re: Help :my Relationship On The Verge Of Collapse by halfricanadian(f): 2:32pm On Mar 30, 2016
Frontier2:
there is but lhaven't seen the girl I like her.


Really shocked na wa o
Re: Help :my Relationship On The Verge Of Collapse by Maximum83: 2:33pm On Mar 30, 2016
Destined2win:
Ogbeni move on with your life. Do you really think that there are no guys over there that will make her think less of you.

Someone said, you can only call a woman yours where is present with you at any moment. You don't know if she is going to the next guy's house once she steps out of your door.

Live your life jare
how can you give such advice?? She may come back.
Re: Help :my Relationship On The Verge Of Collapse by Maximum83: 2:34pm On Mar 30, 2016
TeeFeh:
Op please forget about her because am sure she's into something else already, she's dating someone else already... Please there some many girls here in Nigeria ooooooo don't waste your time?
and you are a lady? If it's you that what you wish for Abi..
Re: Help :my Relationship On The Verge Of Collapse by Maximum83: 2:35pm On Mar 30, 2016
ayamAgenius:


The relationship ended Dec '15...
It's easy to guess her New Year Resolution...
Expunge the thoughts of you being in a relationship and move on!
how are you so sure about that?

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