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Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by Nixiepie(f): 8:42am On Mar 30, 2016
Had this argument with my dad,and he said is a taboo for him to live in a house built by his wife,so I really want to find out why this decision of a woman to build a house is a crime against humanity............ Plz I need more opinions thanks kiss
Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by spill(m): 8:46am On Mar 30, 2016
For me I don't see anything wrong living in a house built by your humble, respectful and well cultured wife.

But for the selfish wife without manners please don't live in a house built by her, because she will always frustrate your life with this phrase "this house is my hard earned money", forgetting that wives are helpmates to their husbands.

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Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by Braaad: 8:55am On Mar 30, 2016
I can't live in a house built exclusively by my wife except I have contribution I also made to it (no matter how small).


It reduces the man.


I'll be back to explain.

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Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by Nobody: 9:03am On Mar 30, 2016
That's for man weh no know woman. Well its a taboo for me. Dem dey live house weh we men build sef, dem wan use wahala kill person. A man's relative no go get peace for him brother house bcus of wife let alone living in a woman's house

Its a wrong formation to me. God has made a man higher in brain than a woman. They may be richer though, but there's just this thing about men they'll never seem to understand.

No matter how nice they are, they're still women and they can't stop acting funny. Their best position is to have a man to look up to especially on shelter issue. They can change anytime and their use of power pass man own. Even if dem no change suddenly, they'll gradually manipulate u to always see wrong in urself and family and u won't be conscious of it

I've seen a family where the woman packed everything in d house including car and dog bcus of quarrel with her husband. Thank God say na d man build the house; the embarassment was all over town. It was later discovered she had a richer lover; a business partner or so. Women are always women. I prefer her support as wife living in my house and not me living in her house.

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Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by ShakurM(m): 9:21am On Mar 30, 2016
Yes I can, if it's in my name grin

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Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by menix(m): 9:27am On Mar 30, 2016
Abeg I get 1 queshion..

Will her name be inscribed on the building for public to see

If NO, who gives a fork about the builder..

Once had a female colleague, who has 3 building in lagos nd she lives with his husband peacefully in one of the house she built....

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Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by Nixiepie(f): 9:52am On Mar 30, 2016
menix:
Abeg I get 1 queshion..

Will her name be inscribed on the building for public to see

If NO, who gives a fork about the builder..

Once had a female colleague, who has 3 building in lagos nd she lives with his husband peacefully in one of the house she built....
lolz.. And don't u think that will make the wife the head?the dictator and controller of the house ,no matter how submissive she is?

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Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by Nixiepie(f): 9:54am On Mar 30, 2016
ShakurM:
Yes I can, if it's in my name grin
and will that changes the fact that she is still the builder?

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Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by menix(m): 9:59am On Mar 30, 2016
Nixiepie:
lolz.. And don't u think that will make the wife the head?the dictator and controller of the house ,no matter how submissive she is?

The only time she will turn a dictator is if the man ain't providing basic need with exemption to the housing..

If after providing, she still flaunts her Ego, for fork sake marriage ain't a do or die affair..

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Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by ShakurM(m): 10:01am On Mar 30, 2016
Nixiepie:
and will that changes the fact that she is still the builder?
Who cares about the builder if it's in your name sad

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Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by Nixiepie(f): 11:02am On Mar 30, 2016
cheesy
Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by Memejem: 11:17am On Mar 30, 2016
Nigerian men and thier wahala. If a woman doesn't build house she must hear him say "under my roof" "in my house" "I built this with my hard earned money" "you didn't contribute to this"

The woman goes and builds house, some will now say she is an enemy of progress against tradition. If she built it why must the house be in his name? Una never happy. If your wife builds a house it's "our house". But if man builds house its "his" house abi?

Marriage includes both parities. I don't see it as a bad thing. But only a cultured and educated Nigerian man will accept it. If a wife builds a house it's "thier" house. If husband builds a house it's "thier" house. Simple.

House building doesn't take away respect, or submission. That character. Nothing to do with structure.

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Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by Nobody: 12:38pm On Mar 30, 2016
Ok

-without source of earning, its a NO
-without any other man in her life, its YES

Listening to Chief Stephen Osita Osadebe - Ndi ochongonoko (Amazing song)

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Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by niggi4life(m): 12:38pm On Mar 30, 2016
I don't know if I can but I think it will be so uncomfortable and an underachievement if I can't provide the roof for my family's head and allowed my wife to do that.
Let's be realistic and take away the African mentality stuff... Even amongst the whites, once they have some issues the woman throws the man's luggages into the street.
Just like I said earlier, I don't know if I can but I pray not to cos I so desire to build my own house(and live there with my family)

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Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by Nobody: 12:39pm On Mar 30, 2016
this is serious matter. husband can live in such house if only the house was built in his name and he is aware of it (house )right from the foundation up to the finishing point. but there will always be guilty conscience anytime matter arising about the house in the heart of the husband.

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Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by franciskaine(m): 12:39pm On Mar 30, 2016
Funny question. Is my wife not my helpmate? What belongs to me belongs to my wife and vice versa. Only poor men reason like this, the question should be.. Wud Dangote live in a house built by his wife? Try answer this question and see how funny the initial question is.

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Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by skylowlow: 12:39pm On Mar 30, 2016
undecided
Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by DeKen: 12:39pm On Mar 30, 2016
I will just be uncomfortable with it.

In the society we live it's an abnormally. But if she did have before we got married and I don't have a house of my own we can live there (hoping that she is a very humble type) but the situation will put me on my toes and make me strive harder to build a better house for us to move into and rent out the other.

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Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by rezzy: 12:40pm On Mar 30, 2016
Yes

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Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by MadCow1: 12:40pm On Mar 30, 2016
Ofcourse

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Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by tpiah01: 12:40pm On Mar 30, 2016
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Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by adioolayi(m): 12:40pm On Mar 30, 2016
Can you eat food prepared by your wife

Silly question!


If you are truly happily married...I meant you married your best friend, confidant, helpmeet ....You will gladly do anything together....You won't see the house built either by any of you as individual property but OUR PROPERTY

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Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by Nobody: 12:41pm On Mar 30, 2016
so many things were a taboo for no reason during old days, things has changed now so there's nothing wrong with that. so far the wife still has all the respect for her hubby.

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Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by squarelead(m): 12:42pm On Mar 30, 2016
It depends, but the best thing is for the husband to provide shelter.

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Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by ShitHead(m): 12:42pm On Mar 30, 2016
If I paid her bride price and fvck her well. She belongs to me; I can live in the house and her "inner house."

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Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by LeFreakSoChic(f): 12:42pm On Mar 30, 2016
Inferiority complex is a serious issue.
Your father should be happy he isnt married to an 'alabodo'.
The type that would have Shirley on her face all day, bathe in the evening and wait for you to bring home money for feeding.
This is not a topic for debate.

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Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by tpiah01: 12:42pm On Mar 30, 2016
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Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by CUM4WHAT(m): 12:42pm On Mar 30, 2016
y not.... waiting for succyblinks comment
Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by 9jatatafo(m): 12:42pm On Mar 30, 2016
Was I sleeping when she was building her house? Mehn I can't do that because the wife and her relatives can be something else ooo. I would rather live in a rented apartment.

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Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by henrydadon(m): 12:42pm On Mar 30, 2016
yes i can

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Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by CUM4WHAT(m): 12:43pm On Mar 30, 2016
adioolayi:
Can you eat food prepared by your wife Silly question
tell them louder

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Re: Can You Live In A House Built By Your Wife? by donbugy(m): 12:43pm On Mar 30, 2016
No try that mistake, You go be house boy for that house.

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