joanazubu:
Please is it bad to help ?cos i can be in need too. I got alot of help from ppl here
I really don't understand .please need clarification so other ppl will learn too quote author=firsttymum post=47641912] this doesn't sit down well at all.

Popri:


Pls be very careful with taking liquid body lotions that you will not be purchasing yourself from a total stranger
It's good to help but think twice before taking any action, if possible, make the purchase yourself

joanazubu:
Please is it bad to help ?cos i can be in need too. I got alot of help from ppl here
I really don't understand .please need clarification so other ppl will learn too quote author=firsttymum post=47641912] this doesn't sit down well at all.

tyosho:


Don't change the fact that you're one of the most polite people on this thread.If not the most polite sef.Im always amazed with how you respond to sometimes "annoying" questions.

Momo13:

If you really need to help this person, you should purchase the 'liquid' yourself oh.. Collect your money when you deliver or whatever. What people are saying is not far fetched. I wont even help an aged person or preggie with luggage at the airport. #bewisebecareful[/quote

Thanks Dear.

[quote author=LadyGuinivere post=47642832]
Just in case folks have forgotten, you are advised to pack all your stuff yourself and veriify the contents. 'Did you pack your bag yourself' is a routine cbp question.
Some favours (even those with a free ride attached) are just too risky and should never be embarked on. That's why there's fedex, dhl and a thousand and 1 courier companies
#dropsmic

Chrisdew:
Well I know it's inappropriate taking stuffs from strangers but I am not new to naira land over 20 preggy moms have ridden with me .. It saddens my heart if am stil regarded has a stranger in NL... I am not forcing anyone I just felt it's a platform for Nigerians both abroad and home . I am entitled to add an incentive for a favor .. If I was shady I can solicits from filtering from the houston options online ... Thanks

joanazubu:
Good morning firsttymum abeg were e sit if e no sit well cos na person wa sit for turkey now no sit well. please clarify quote author=firsttymum post=47641912] this doesn't sit down well at all.

LadyGuinivere:

Thanks dear for that.
However polite or not, I don't o pms an I dont support indolence. People have been given the gift of a child/ren and the opportunity to give them a Life better than the one we had and they want you to do the research for them.
For example, if you are going from jibowu to sapele and ask for directions,There are 2 kinds of people you will meet.
The ist will tell you drive for 10 minutes, turn left at he tree and right when you see some okada park.
The second type will teach you how to read signs and sign posts. I am this type of person. Because if u depend on the ist type ul end up stopping again and again to ask for help.
I believe in teaching to fish and not to hand out fish. Snapping a page to send is handing out fish and the person wil come back at different stages of her journey. I wake up middle of the night to research things I need, because I WANT it badly.

Finally, I am a human being and if you meet me on my low day and give me attiude on top say I De answer ya kweshun, I doubt that the pool of politeness no go dry up.
Have a blest week,! Make I go hustle for my garri and groundnut

mom2015:


LadyG I sent u a pm, didn't see any response. Pls respond its personal to u and I can't post it here. I beg u in Gods name it's very important. My email is ade22_hassan@yahoo.co.uk Thanks

LadyGuinivere:


Ok mommy. If its not a visa issue. I sha pm u pronto!

mom2015:



No ma'am I really need to talk to u. Cheers

LadyGuinivere:

Shek ur PM email

firsttymum:
So today I was thinking... If u go through the ttc thread and ivf especially ivf thread Hmmm.... You'll melt...

So I felt if u can freely and willingly donate eggs especially if u know one who's in need pls do.
I wanted to discuss surrogacy but that'll take personal conviction.
These people are spending alot... OMG a whole lot. So pls I indulge us to visit and pray and do what you can as d spirit leads (like donate eggs, surrogacy) . During ur devotion pray for them or even if it's only one person.. Pick a name and pray.

God bless us all.

Pamperme:


I have thought about this issue of surrogacy over and over again. A friend needed similar help but my partner is so old fashioned, he doesn't think it's a good idea. Our society ehn! he was asking questions o, plenty questions, will i be the one to impregnate you and you will give out the child? so you will carry a child who was fertilised by another couple? Will you be in this house for the nine months? How about your job? What will you tell people when they ask for the baby after nine months? The questions were too much so i aborted the idea.
Unfortunately, some of us want to help but we have non-supportive partners/society...

i read through the TTC thread once in a while and say a prayer for them everytime...

isysleek:
No longer accepting int'l patients? Na wa o. .. wats their reason? They want to close the road to elpaso like mihs did. Smh

debby516:
Hello House, Lady G, 1sttymmum, feddy, justwise and all other mothers, well done.

Please i need you candid opinion/answers to a few questions.

During visa interview, when i am asked why am i travelling? Can my answer be for childbirth only and not with vacation, cos i applied for a B2 visa and truthfully, i am going alone leaving my husband and toddler behind and my only purpose is childbirth, not with vacation anyways. I have seen quite alot of transcript that reads childbirth and vacation.

2ndly, when asked about previous travel history, i dont have one and i intend to answer that i have had no cogent reason to travel, schooled, trained and work here in Nigeria.

3rdly, wen asked why Houston/this doc/hosp, can my answer be squarely on friend review coupled with my research and reviews i have read about the doctor/hospital. In addition to the fees which is within our means to pay.

Thank you.

LadyGuinivere:

1. Yes. Childbirth alone should be your reason. Shows candid-ness (oyibo ) and sets the tone for the interview. Note: You can lead the interview to how you want it if you give the right answers.
2. Travel history abi the lack therof only is not a barrier to visa issuance. Your reason is ok. But be sure not to sound defensive.
3. All of the above mnus the cost part. That may tick the vo off wrongly that you are working on a budget and likely to resort to medicaid once any extra expense exceeds your budget.
#myopinion o

jossy404:
For the papa s in the house wey dey go do omoguo after the LO don arrive .......it is best you carry all your payment receipt followbody ooo. It bolster confidence at POE. #talkingfrompersonalhoustonexperience#

My 2cent

LadyGuinivere:

1. Yes. Childbirth alone should be your reason. Shows candid-ness (oyibo ) and sets the tone for the interview. Note: You can lead the interview to how you want it if you give the right answers.
2. Travel history abi the lack therof only is not a barrier to visa issuance. Your reason is ok. But be sure not to sound defensive.
3. All of the above mnus the cost part. That may tick the vo off wrongly that you are working on a budget and likely to resort to medicaid once any extra expense exceeds your budget.
#myopinion o

firsttymum:
Do u know that A guy sent me 500 airtime and he was promoted at work?
The next day, a lady sent me 1000 and got engaged to a very rich man.
The next day, another guy sent 2000 and he was granted a visa to d U.S.A.
Don't b left out! Why not send yours now and give your testimony.
The higher the amount you send, the bigger your miracle.
Don't be left out! Hurry now b4 I stop collecting...#etisalat only.

ccemordi:
debby516:
Hello House, Lady G, 1sttymmum, feddy, justwise and all other mothers, well done.

Please i need you candid opinion/answers to a few questions.

During visa interview, when i am asked why am i travelling? Can my answer be for childbirth only and not with vacation, cos i applied for a B2 visa and truthfully, i am going alone leaving my husband and toddler behind and my only purpose is childbirth, not with vacation anyways. I have seen quite alot of transcript that reads childbirth and vacation.

2ndly, when asked about previous travel history, i dont have one and i intend to answer that i have had no cogent reason to travel, schooled, trained and work here in Nigeria.

3rdly, wen asked why Houston/this doc/hosp, can my answer be squarely on friend review coupled with my research and reviews i have read about the doctor/hospital. In addition to the fees which is within our means to pay.

Thank you.





I concour .. This LadyG too sabi Abeg!! NUMBER 1

solistic:

@herrik066, thanks for your response. Return date for me is 19th August while for Madam is October 14th. Many thanks for your help.

Nogen:
Firstymum, thanks for your love and support towards people who are trying to conceive. It is indeed a difficult journey.

I have also thought of being a surrogate for someone in need. May God please bless every mom waiting. Amen.

nefertitiram:


Surrogacy... hummnn...

Pregnancy doesn't treat me too well. I'm fighting an inner battle on when and how to try for baby number 2.

I can support with prayers and funds, bt surrogacy, it should be $100,000

Nogen:
Firstymum, thanks for your love and support towards people who are trying to conceive. It is indeed a difficult journey.

I have also thought of being a surrogate for someone in need. May God please bless every mom waiting. Amen.