Though keeping a long distance relationship is very hard but I'm into it for going to 3 years now and it has been going on fine ... These are d little tips dt has helped me ( as a guy)..
1. As a lady, have it in mind dt HE IS LIKELY TO CHEAT ON U, so don't keep asking him whether he's faithful or not ... Focus on ur relationship and forget other things dt surrounds....


2. Communication is very important .... Though -i'm always busy but at least we do have nothing less than 45min call per day when I'm back at night.. Though we share d calling anyway...

3. Keep everything dt gets u angry till u see each other ... If u get angry at anything, it's somehow hard to solve issues on phone bt when u are together , u can solve any issue no matter how hard it is... Most of d most she pisses me off but instead of quarelling with her, I keep silent and wait till we see each other...
4. Don't play saint to him... Tell him how great his d*ck is in u, tell him u really miss him... Have romance chat with him to keep him alive with u ... Don't be so boring ...
5. NEVER GIVE HIM D REASON TO DOUBT U....
It has bn helping me since 2013 dt we've bn dating and our relationship has been going well.. In fact we can't just do without hearing from each other a day ....

layla129:
It can be really frustrating and boring at a point i tell you but a distant relationship that survives only grows stronger. I'll share some of my personal tips from experience with you which has helped and is still keeping us going.
1. Visit each other; if you're lucky to be in the same country, visit each other. And if in different countries, still visit. Spend time and money on travels.

2. Video calls/ chats; being able to see each other regularly and talking about EVERYTHING develops intimacy. Send photos, take shots specifically for him.

3. Make an effort and be determined to make things work; if he's a very busy dude like mine, my sister you have to really try. U jst have to pin him down to get things sorted. The longer issues linger, the gap becomes wider.

4. Keep yourself busy; focus on your life too, develop yourself... apart from the personal benefits you gain from this, it tends to take your mind off the thoughts of him for a while. And i'm sure he'll even respect u more for that.

5. Set some rules; in my case, i made it a standard that we should never sleep over a disagreement. We must settle it before it before we both go to bed...i've gone to bed 3am on an occassion because we just had to straighten out things.
We know each other's schedule for the whole day

6.talk dirty to each other and be very romantic; you know what to do
Plus, tell him when you're angry or unhappy about anything because he is not with you physically to see your expressions.

These are the ones i remember for now, i hope they were helpful? Hang in there sis

Y u kan get sense like this. Hummmm datz nyc

layla129:


Thank you dear

UWC layla

Enifloxy:


Y u kan get sense like this. Hummmm datz nyc

Lol

Fulaman198:


Wow seriously? She's asking for advice and you come up with this dumb question only f00ls come up with? Is your head working?

If you are tired of life and choose to display your frustration in response to a comment that was obviously meant to be a joke, then you have a serious problem with yourself.

Frustrated herdsman.

Alani86:



"Mind u its on her desk, d lady must do all that it takes to maintain and sustain her relationship."; even if it'll take her to hell? Should we displease God while trying to please men? I don't think so!

Y u multiplying words, your thinking is always far out of point

sundayslim:


If you are tired of life and choose to display your frustration in response to a comment that was obviously meant to be a joke, then you have a serious problem with yourself.

Frustrated herdsman.

No it was not a joke, it was a bigoted comment. If it was reciprocated towards you, you would have gotten upset. It violates rule #2. Think before you speak if you possess a brain.

fartkay:




Y u multiplying words, your thinking is always far out of point

Funny you! "Far out of point" or too deep for your brain to catch? Well, you also spoke and we read your comment; it shows you have been noticed already. Congratulations!

Alani86:



Funny you! "Far out of point" or too deep for your brain to catch? Well, you also spoke and we read your comment; it shows you have been noticed already. Congratulations!

Y go deep when all I mean is not far fetch. Wen I need u to think deep I know wat to type. Thanks dou, ur point us clear to me. I understand wat u mean, (not to throw caution into d air) 1stly put God first.


Good platform to know u.

fartkay:



Y go deep when all I mean is not far fetch. Wen I need u to think deep I know wat to type. Thanks dou, ur point us clear to me. I understand wat u mean, (not to throw caution into d air) 1stly put God first.


Good platform to know u.

Oh my God! I'm so sorry my brother. Honestly, I never knew it was the same person I've been chatting up. I thought someone somewhere just intruded with that comment. Please, disregard that response bro, it wasn't intended for you. I like your personality, I must say. You sound very matured and wise. I salute you bro!

Fulaman198:


No it was not a joke, it was a bigoted comment. If it was reciprocated towards you, you would have gotten upset. It violates rule #2. Think before you speak if you possess a brain.

It's obvious you have family issues. Carry your wahala somewhere else. I have the right to speak as I see fit.
Herdsman.

sundayslim:


It's obvious you have family issues. Carry your wahala somewhere else. I have the right to speak as I see fit.
Herdsman.

Yeah you have the right to be a bigot you loser. Stay losing

sundayslim:


It's obvious you have family issues. Carry your wahala somewhere else. I have the right to speak as I see fit.
Herdsman.

Sunny I didn't expect this from you.

Amoto94:
Sunny I didn't expect this from you.

I never started by insulting anyone. Kindly stay out of this. Thank you.

Fulaman198:


Yeah you have the right to be a bigot you loser. Stay losing

Your cross. Carry it.

layla129:

Did you try on your part? If you did, there's a chance she would have reciprocated

I did, I think her mind was already made up

Bhella5:
MTN don stop free nightcall?

Who still does nite calls these days,as for me and my bae we gat dis special glo sim,that lets us talk round the clock like we glo ambassadors...don't ask me how i garrit.