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12 Reasons Wives Get Upset With Their Husbands by DBossNG(m): 4:42pm On Apr 04, 2016
1. When She Realises That Your Love and Attention for Her Has Been Divided

There are several issues that can make a man’s love and attention to be divided. For instance, job related issues, financial pressure with respect to the sustainability of the family, undue friendship with a strange woman etc. Women are very sensitive beings. They can sense any shift in your attention as a husband. When you give your wife the required love and attention, your family will experience peace.

2.When You Fail to Provide for Your House

Anyone who does not provide for their relatives, and especially for their own household, has denied the faith and is worse than an unbeliever says the Holy Bible in 1 Timothy 5:8. A man cannot win the honour of a woman if he is not capable to provide for his house. In fact, he is not fit to be a husband. Situations such as loss of job could arise which can make a man financially handicap. However, a man should not sit down at home and be waiting for the wife to put food on the table. He should brace up even if his wife is going to assist him in setting up a business.

3.When You Delegate Her Roles to Another Woman

When a man does not see anything bad in giving her roles to another woman such as her friend, her maid, her sister in laws. This happens at times when the husband sees that a close friend or relative is good at a task that her wife should perform and she gives it to such a person without his wife’s consent. Such an action can spark an emotional fire that the husband might not be able to quench.

4.When The Communication Bridge Has Been Broken

A woman will naturally misbehave when there is no effective communication between her and her husband. Women like to share their thoughts, visions, aspirations and problems with their man, but when the man is not ready for such discussion, he can never have the best of his woman. The communication line between couples must be kept open at all times.

5.When She Is Not Satisfied Sexually

Most men are at fault when it comes to satisfying their wife sexually. This is because a man reaches orgasm anytime he has sex with his wife but this is not always the case with a woman. pre-intimacy is germane if a woman is to reach orgasm. Don’t just reach for her pants the moment you are ready for sexual intercourse, engage her in fore play. Let her tell you where she loves to be touched. Don’t be selfish, sex should be mutually enjoyed. Plan for an exciting sexual experience and when she is satisfied sexually, you will see her glowing in beauty.

6.When The Woman Is Not Secured
The primary responsibility of a man is to provide adequate security for his family in all ramifications. However, it is only God that secures. No modern technology can secure ones’ family than God. The Holy Bible in Psalms 20:7 says “Unless the LORD builds the house, the builders labour in vain. Unless the LORD watches over the city, the guards stand watch in vain.” When a man puts in trust in God and carries his wife along, then he has no problem.

8.When She Is Being Maltreated in The Presence of Her Brother or Sister in Law
Some men treat their wives as a piece of trash in the presence of family members. Men should not see their wives as acquired properties that can be treated anyhow. The way you treat your wife in the presence of your brothers and sisters in law is the way they will treat her when you are not there

9.When She Is Disgraced Publicly
Women could be funny sometimes in the way they behave. When corrections are to be made, it should be made in love. Do not disgrace her publicly all in the name of correction. Try and cover her up in public. Do not make her feel worthless.

10.If You Are Stingy
No man can enjoy his marriage if he his stingy. A woman will always be angry with a stingy man. As far as saving money is good, husbands should be open to their wives on financial issues. Let her know when you are financially buoyant and also when your bank account balances go south. This will do you a lot of good when she knows your financial capacity, she will be able to help you manage your resources adequately.

10.When The Man Compares Her Wife with Another Woman
If you really love your wife, you will not compare her with another woman. If there is something someone else’s wife is doing and you like it, you can stylishly tell your wife that you would love if she can do it for you. Do not compare your wife with another woman because no one is perfect except the Almighty God and what your wife is capable of doing, some women might be able to do it. Remember that she is fearfully and wonderfully created. Accept her with her faults and imperfections.

11.When She Is Uncertain of the Future and She Discovers You Have No Plans for The Future
A man should be able to see farther into the future and must be able to plan adequately for his wife and the children.

The head literally is the part of the body that contains the brain which basically controls the body. The head also contains the eyes, the nose and the ears. As the head of your family, your eyes must be sharp spiritually to see in to the future for adequate planning, your nose must be able to smell danger and protect your family from it. Your ears must be connected to God’s divine antenna to be able to pick God’s instruction for your family which will definitely lead you the right way.

When you are connected to God as the father of the house and the husband of your wife, there is nothing that can shake you because with God the future of your family is secured

12.When You Refuse to Eat the Food Prepared by Your Wife

This action usually makes a woman to misbehave because when you begin to miss meals at home, then you are calling for trouble. There is no wife that will be happy with her husband when the man refuses to eat the food she had laboured to prepare. A woman begins to assume that you have a woman outside that prepares a better food for you.

Re: 12 Reasons Wives Get Upset With Their Husbands by Damadios: 4:43pm On Apr 04, 2016
Re: 12 Reasons Wives Get Upset With Their Husbands by Nobody: 4:44pm On Apr 04, 2016
@op, your head dey there grin

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Re: 12 Reasons Wives Get Upset With Their Husbands by DaVinci24(m): 4:48pm On Apr 04, 2016
Oh boy!
Re: 12 Reasons Wives Get Upset With Their Husbands by DBossNG(m): 4:55pm On Apr 04, 2016
@op, your head dey there grin

Thanks Ma'am
Re: 12 Reasons Wives Get Upset With Their Husbands by SweetieConstie(f): 5:00pm On Apr 04, 2016
True talk... Thumbs up Op!
Re: 12 Reasons Wives Get Upset With Their Husbands by DBossNG(m): 5:11pm On Apr 04, 2016
True talk... Thumbs up Op!

Yeah, thanks.
Re: 12 Reasons Wives Get Upset With Their Husbands by Nobody: 5:18pm On Apr 04, 2016
Na wa o!

Some many self acclaimed relationship councillors.

Ya'll should get an office and start charging a stipend for all these free infoz already. grin

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