I was havin a discussion wth my elder sis on dis subject of l8t.. Which lead to a terrible argument.. She was with an Opinion that the House Cores should be distributed equally between the husband nd the wife......

1. Cooking Of Meal should be done by the both Parties on Rotation
2.Bathing and Washin of Clothes For The Kids and ordas.

dis sound kinda Derogatory 2 me..

PLzz i wl realli need d Men of d haus 2 post dier Opinion on dis..
Can u Do all Dis 4 Ur Wife...?.
After all d stress u ve gone thru tryin 2 Engage nd Marry Her..

Look let's not be preaching up and down upon things dat do not matter



God said, Adam, I will send you a helper.

ok

there should be 'h' in between the "cores"

I believe a man's job in the home is to
1) provide for the family
2) help with clothes especially if they have a washing machine
3) clean the bathroom
4) change gas, and other appliances
5) take you boys to the barber
Etc.
Anything else for the woman.

falconey:
ok
there should be 'h' in between the "cores"

kkk

Fetching of water if u don't av a pumping machine... Don't deceive ur self no be everybody get am for house.. So she can sit back nd continue getting fat

Inspectahdeck:
I believe a man's job in the home is to
1) provide for the family
2) help with clothes especially if they have a washing machine
3) clean the bathroom
4) change gas, and other appliances
5) take you boys to the barber
Etc.
Anything else for the woman.

I Tire oo.... Na 2 Much of Hollywood Movies Dey affect Most of Our 9ja Gurls..

Many of you wouldn't mind sharing bills with your wife, but when it comes to chores, it becomes derogatory. . Issorait. ..


Op, nothing you do in your own house is derogatory!! Don't allow anyone deceive you. . Help the best way you can... Marriage is partnership not 'his' or 'her' thing....

Is that your sister high on lacasera? BUT if the wife is contributing equally to finance then he has to do the same to the chores

I wonder why a weak man who cannot provide for his family even with the wife helping him will say no to chores

Derogatory No wonder some men dies before their time.
Having learnt from my big brother that your happiness depends solely on you, I do everything to satisfy and keep myself happy in my home. I don't have time to be miserable over common house chores...facking house chores that won't take you time to finish except you are a lazy grown ass m'fucker.
My elder brother was our mum and Dad while those parents of ours will be out there hustling. It made my brother a jack of all trade and master of all....he cooks, clean, wash etc which invariably made his wife nothing short of our incubator, and she had to buckle up as she felt worthless in the home.
A female cousin of mine no sabi cook or have flair for anythng that has to do with a home but she is a hustler, her husband started a business for and jejely withdraw to their home to take care of the kids and home. It is working out for them ...guy is happy, my cousin is happy.
The problems we face is the stereotypes and roles attached to the genders which we pull out when it suits us and neglects wen it work against us.
What's more unfair in this world than someone taking a greater role at home and is also being expected to contribute equal while another person does little at home and still contributes the other equal. No wonder we have less happy marriages in the world today because at any point in time someone is cheating or scamming someone else irrespective of who .

Una no dey tire with all these threads?