modath:


Thank you, imagine that Caroline Danjuma & her philandering husband situation!

I laugh when I see all the yeye opinions people leave on her SM pages castigating her for staying with an unrepentant womaniser!!
Like 99.9% of them yapping on her timeline aren't envying her lifestyle!!

She knew what she got herself into, she needed someone to take care of the bills, otherwise she wouldn't have left the millions of hunks in nollywood for her papa age mate.

Ugly faced billionaire needs a balance so his kids won't come out looking like Shrek 2.0, each person already defined their roles!

Why are people trying to help her change the goal post mid game & asking her to leave her "daddy" (despite the sentimental excuse she posts defending the serial cheat), did she marry Joe average down the street? Wetin dem expect? & na dem go fund her lifestyle?


Person see person wey dey belittle service people & wait staff & didn't have it in mind that dem whole portion dey for front? Gerrarahia mehn!

modath:


Thank you, imagine that Caroline Danjuma & her philandering husband situation!

I laugh when I see all the yeye opinions people leave on her SM pages castigating her for staying with an unrepentant womaniser!!
Like 99.9% of them yapping on her timeline aren't envying her lifestyle!!

She knew what she got herself into, she needed someone to take care of the bills, otherwise she wouldn't have left the millions of hunks in nollywood for her papa age mate.

Ugly faced billionaire needs a balance so his kids won't come out looking like Shrek 2.0, each person already defined their roles!

Why are people trying to help her change the goal post mid game & asking her to leave her "daddy" (despite the sentimental excuse she posts defending the serial cheat), did she marry Joe average down the street? Wetin dem expect? & na dem go fund her lifestyle?


Person see person wey dey belittle service people & wait staff & didn't have it in mind that dem whole portion dey for front? Gerrarahia mehn!

bukatyne:


I thought the accused baby mama was an innocent woman?

If Caroline says she wants to divorce her husband, then she is a very foolish woman.

That's why I like to ask how the couple started... Your husband used to slap you while courting and you are complaining of domestic abuse... are you a learner?

Mindfulness:


Whatever rocks their boat. If they desire a rich man, then so be it.
I wasn't looking for money when I was single.

I wanted a man who would respect and understand me, someone who respects himself, someone who tries to be the best he can be, someone who would be a caring father, someone who is smart and with whom I can have interesting and inspiring conversations, someone who is independent, someone who is honest and trustworthy, someone who values family, someone who is relaxed and enjoys life as much as I do, someone who appreciates art and literature, someone who is interested in politics, economics, traveling and foreign cultures, someone who is fun and has a good sense of humor, someone who likes to socialize but also lets me have time on my own, someone I can cook with together, someone who is open-minded, someone who loves to develop, someone who is not only into my appearance but who wants to know my soul and connect on a deeper level and OF COURSE someone who is handsome and attractive.

I didn't want a jobless and lazy man but money was not what I needed either. I have my own.




I am yet to meet a man who runs from a rich woman. I have never met such a man.



Not my business. As you make your bed ...

bukatyne:


Another example please...

I dislike Telemundo.

But again, the husband wants to watch a significant match; wifey wants a normal series that they would probably show the highlights before they start the next episode...

She should let him watch and probably join him.

[s]But again, I am not even a fan of TV generally.[/s]

Let's go with this scenario..... The woman has been following one of this zee world/Telemundo menene, it somehow clashes with an Australian open semi final match that the man too has invested time in from the qualifying rounds..... How do we proceed?

edwife:


This is not a healthy way of thinking. Just like rich guys can also dump you in a snap of his fingers because you add little or no value to him, he will get another you in a minute!
Just like an illiterate man who is financially sound trains a girl in university, sacrifice everything to make her happy and comfortable get dumped by the same girl who after attaining education and exposure realise that they are not of the same class.
Life is all about risk!

Physical appearance is no big work to anyone, you were born that way. You didn’t have to slave or spend sleepless nights trying to look beautiful. (Exclude plastic surgery here because I am talking of the average girl).

The fat Bank account took years to build, sweat, brain, sacrifice…name it. So if the fat bank account demands loyalty, control, and power it shouldn't be a problem.

Just don’t nag no one! Don’t nag a guy who wants to feel superior when you go for his fat bank account.

I don’t think people go religious on women for the fun of it. We all know women choices are limited unlike the male counterpart. It is easy for a guy to get his specs than it is easy for a woman. Women most of the time settle for the available, as long as he possesses two or three qualities in your ideal man, you can settle.

A 50 years old man can marry a beauty queen as long as he has the money and even if he doesn't he can go to his village and get a pure beautiful well trained maiden.(dabota lawson,caroline danjuma,amara kanu,adaeze yobo etc...)

A 50 years old woman has slim chances getting her dream man, it is either a toy boy or an old rich man who had his own share of life and in need of companionship. (Gloria and Elvina Ibru,Orie Kalu,Oyin Adenuga etc..)


I don’t lie to myself or walk around in denial, I say things the way they are not because I am against my gender but someone needs to say it like it is. Who am I fooling?

I love strong,resilient,hard working,passionate and feminine women. I live in a society who has rules and if i want a change,i will make it happen myself and not wait for the society to make it for me or change what the society thinks it is the norm.There are many accomplished women making it without blaming anyone.I don’t have to be loud just to appear strong. Just like my mum usually says, empty barrels make the loudest noise.

Kimoni:


you want to know before you strike??

Bolade005:
The only two women on this thread not living in denial are Modath and edwife. The rest are obviously living in denial. They're are just making disjointed arguments for argument sake thereby unnecessarily lengthening the number of pages of this thread.

The OP is very right.

SirShymexx:


You can obviously see through...nice observation. That's basically why I left the thread and I did put a PSA on the first page. Most of them are just bitter overgrown kids who love creating a bubble for themselves just to mask how bitter they're.

No sane person takes them seriously lol.

crackhaus:

Lol..

Have you noticed that you have this thing you do on NL where you talk about yourself, your achievements, your happiness, your life basically..., especially when responding to a topic or quote where no one actually asked you a question that should naturally elicit such a response?

Just an honest question sweet pea...I don't mean to fight

Bolade005:

They're just selling wolf tickets bro cause I am very certain they can't be all blind to the realities around them.

I had better take them with a pinch of a salt then.

SirShymexx:


Lol. You'll surely become acquainted with brigand of bitter overgrown kids on these sides soon. Take them seriously at ya own peril lol.

How do you expect folks who lack the concentration level required to grasp the smallest things, to discern the realities around them? You're giving them too much credit and the only reality they know is to wake up every morning and look for guys to antagonise, hence I troll them whenever I'm bored with topics that will make cry and pull out their hair, while laughing like a mad man lol.

I think the fundamental problem with most of them is that they were not raised right and they ended up getting in the mix without enough prep, hence they mostly depend on fairytales and things they read to guide them in navigating life. That's why it is always important for parents to teach their kids about the harsh realities of life and make them observe how mum and dad relate, so as to enable them learn from their mistakes and apply the lessons learnt to their lives/reality when they grow up.

Bolade005:

Yh I noticed most of your topics are directed towards a certain group of people and trust me, I'm already acquainted with the bitter overgrown kids. I know them like a kid knows his alphabets.

Let them keep bringing it on, we will continue to put them in their place. You know their place na shey?

SirShymexx:


Loool.

I'm sure you saw my topic about how women are terrible drivers and the question I asked about banning them lol. Obviously, every road users know how terrible women are when it comes to driving (most of them can't even reverse and park properly) and despite the fact the over 70-80% of road users are men and men also drive more miles daily than women - the number of car accidents per mile by women motorists is almost 3-4x those of men. However, the society gives the advantage to women and when it comes to insurance policy, they pay the same premium as men. The unfair society or a society that treats people based on the normal requirements would treat women like young drivers cos the two groups are the biggest hazards on the road.

Now back to why I created that thread. I know women can never be banned from driving and I'll never campaign for such. However, I just wanted to see if any of the females can raise salient points that show some of the perks women enjoy in a world they believe is unfair to them and discriminates against them, while making the crazy ones go nuts lol.

As for this one: even a mad man knows that females marry up and males marry down. That is just how both sexes are wired. The exceptions are isolated cases mostly due to desperation. Most of the women that marry down do so cos they're desperate for a guy and won't mind any decent guy. While guys who do so do it certain benefits. As soon as you get to ya late teens, it isn't rocket science when you start seeing chics ya age go for guys older than you. Then early years in uni can become a leveller for everyone due to boredom. Then from age 21, chics move up again and leave their age mates behind. That is just how it works.

Mindfulness:


Of course, I did. Just an honest answer.

crackhaus:

Ohh good, you did notice.

That settles that then.

crackhaus:

I'm a little confused as to what your dislike for Telemundo or TV had to do with how well you could have dealt with the scenario modath described.




Please try this again Buka.
I sincerely want to read a response you put some serious thought into before typing.

SirShymexx:


Loool.

I'm sure you saw my topic about how women are terrible drivers and the question I asked about banning them lol. Obviously, every road users know how terrible women are when it comes to driving (most of them can't even reverse and park properly) and despite the fact the over 70-80% of road users are men and men also drive more miles daily than women - the number of car accidents per mile by women motorists is almost 3-4x those of men. However, the society gives the advantage to women and when it comes to insurance policy, they pay the same premium as men. The unfair society or a society that treats people based on the normal requirements would treat women like young drivers cos the two groups are the biggest hazards on the road.

Now back to why I created that thread. I know women can never be banned from driving and I'll never campaign for such. However, I just wanted to see if any of the females can raise salient points that show some of the perks women enjoy in a world they believe is unfair to them and discriminates against them, while making the crazy ones go nuts lol.

As for this one: even a mad man knows that females marry up and males marry down. That is just how both sexes are wired. The exceptions are isolated cases mostly due to desperation. Most of the women that marry down do so cos they're desperate for a guy and won't mind any decent guy. While guys who do so do it certain benefits. As soon as you get to ya late teens, it isn't rocket science when you start seeing chics ya age go for guys older than you. Then early years in uni can become a leveller for everyone due to boredom. Then from age 21, chics move up again and leave their age mates behind. That is just how it works.

sukkot:
Bruv wagwan. TGIF. where the ali tribute thread tho ? and while you are at it open a stephen keshi tribute thread lolzzz

jadelyn007:
Shymexx tell me if you had a choice between a pretty low born ijebu girl and dangote's daughter, which would you choose?
Everyone wants to marry up, because it affords you better opportunities in life and it puts you on a higher pedestal.
Another thing you should consider is that men usually go for younger girls who are yet to establish themselves financially.
A 35yr old spinster or bachelor will most likely marry down.
I had men coming for me since I was 19. Financially established men, would you have expected me to have anything apart from my educational certificate then?

When men start going for their mates age wise then people are more likely to marry within their ranks

jadelyn007:
when I was 19, marriage was the last thing on my mind. Trust me all those requirements you listed don't mean nothing to me, I just want to be with someone who loves me and loves God, we'll maybe a little richer too (we could use some extra dough around here . But I don't really care about those stuff. I pay my bills and I do my things my self,maybe I'm not wired like the average female then. Girls at 19 brag that they can't date their mates because their mates at that age are very immature, not because of finances. nobody wants to babysit nobody. I have never seen a 30yr old lady who would not want to be with a fellow 30yr old man

jadelyn007:
you should understand that being older, taller, richer, stronger or better educated doesn't make you a better man. Trust me, anyone can be all of that and even more, so?
It's not always about the package, The content is more important.
You should be able to love me more than anyone else, that's one of the 2 things I consider paramount.

SirShymexx:


I don't know that nyggah and he never impacted my life.

If I were to pay tribute to everyone that dies daily, I would've to pay tributes to millions of people.

Ali impacted my life directly cos his autobiography's one of the books that helped me in transforming my life from a dark place - to a better place. And he was an inspiration.

Not speaking ill of the dead but I don't do bandwagon stuff. Regardless, God bless his soul and protect his family.

jadelyn007:
We should please stop judging women for making choices and reminding them how they will be single at 41.
Men say they want a light skinned chic, big boobs, big ass, slim, cook, clean, classy and all that shit requirements and we hail them and applaud them. When they find a girl who can't cook or clean we advice them to dump her, what use is she. We do not remind them how they are going to turn 45 single and lonely.

But when a lady says she wants to be Married to someone with a fat bank account, with 6 packs, tall dark and handsome. We become very religious, reminding them of why they shouldn't aim so high and why the average Joe is good enough.

Why is that, I just don't get it
Someone please explain this to me

cococandy:
It's only online that men are sole providers and women don't marry struggling guys.

But in real life, poor people are married. And more are getting married every single day. Even if it means coming online to beg for money to help feed their new triplets that the wife just dropped.

In real life wives hustle and husbands hustle and even then the money is still not enough. I wonder where these sole providers are.

In real life men don't want to marry financial leeches. They almost always go after someone who can contribute .

Are we talking about Nigeria or another country?

People should try to be honest for once and stop parroting things they have no proof of.

Just as there are those who will marry for money, there are also those who will marry poor as long as the other person has the potential of being a good spouse.

Such a thinly veiled woman-hating thread. Nairaland would have shut down by now if a lady created this thread to say unnice things about men. They would be evil feminists going on man-hating spree.

SirShymexx:
Celestial PSA (Courtesy sukkot):

This is a message to all the uncouth, bitter, insolent, and illiterate overgrown village kids with daddy issues in this section (you know yourselves, even under ya alternate handles): you can rant all you want, abuse ya mums, cry as much tears as you can, and throw all kinds of hissy fit on the thread – but please don’t quote me. I’m not responsible for ya bitterness and daddy issues and, I’m not ready to baby-sit overgrown kids. I’m not ya dad. If you’ve any issues, go look for ya dad and straighten things out with him. Quote me and you won’t get a reply.

As for the sensible ones – you can shoot. I’m here to have fun and read interesting inputs for comic relief.

Barryton:

life issues are discussed and treated in terms of majority...
every president of a country get's into power on account of majority. but it doent mean everyone voted the president.
when people say Nigeria is corrupt, it doesn't mean there are no honest people in nigeria.
when people say nigeria is hard, it doesn't mean we dont have people living comfortably.
the number of women marrying older and more wealthy men largely outweighs that of men. since we all know that majority have the day, makes the op right.

it is natural thing... most women aren't even the same age as their man...fact.

sukkot:
yeah well another nigerian coach died yesterday. whatchu mean keshi didnt impact your life ? nigga that man won the african cup of nations for nigeria. i recall you being on nairaland gloating like a virgin who just bagged his first poonani