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| Guys Are The Major Reason Most Ladies Are Still Single- Emusmith by Nobody: 1:09pm On Apr 15, 2016 |
Guys Are The Major Reason Most Ladies Are Still Single. Don't tell me something else because I've had my share and chances and most I blew. I'm not proud saying these but as a note of warning to all other guys who derive pleasure casting blames on the female folks. Back then in college, I knew of a Lady-friend who called me one night and said, "Smith, I'm about to say Yes to a guy"...waiting for me to say something, "life" got a solid grip on me as I sheepishly let her go. I am very sure, if you're not a "big eye" or "ojukokoro", you would have had some girls around you who also want to hear you say, Ok, to their green lights. It boils down to specs. There is nothing absurd if a girl doesn't like you. You are simply not her spec. Chin up and look elsewhere. There are some girls that you can't date too because they don't get to you. It's nature. Guys Are The Reason Most Girls Are Single? How? - Most Guys Are Greedy. Get this right, your lady can't have the complete package. She can be pretty, with big ups and back but lack culinary skills. Some men can teach her and all will return to normalcy. Don't be greedy. No lady is an angel. Atinuke who is not so pretty and not busty, but well behaved/mannered, speaks well, intelligent and Godfearing is after your signature but the lustful part of you wants Samantha who is just the opposite. She is a player. She plays you and you call girls "how". C'mon! - Most Guys Are Scared Of The Responsibility Marriage Brings. Say the truth, "you just want a girl for "dating" and not for a "serious relationship". An average normal lady wants a serious relationship by the time she is heading for Year 3. That's when most guys wants to flex and test. There are many "good girls" around who won't give in to sex from unserious guys so they've resorted to "self-servicing". "Mr Right" is still busy counting how many girls he has slept with. SMH! - Most Guys Are Insensitive By being sensitive, I mean in being there for your woman all the time, without her asking. It can also be termed, "maturity". Money and diamond is not all a lady needs. Can I tell you now? It's in one word, CARE. She may scream "money"! After giving her the money, she'll scream, "You don't even care". Place "Care" before money and Love is born. - Most Guys Are Still Broke! I would not allow my sister marry a broke man! A broke man is not the man that earns 40-70k. It's a man who lacks money sense. It's a man who lacks confidence of the future. A guy should know how to use the salary he is receiving to better his life, his investments and others around him. If you smell broke, you are broke. If you are broke, no sensible girl should marry you. Take note: a jobless guy now, might not be broke. - Most Guys Are Indecisive Nothing puts a girl off like indecision. You have to be sure it's her you want in your life, her faults notwithstanding. You can't keep saying Yes, No, Yes, No...Time is of the essence. PS: Everyone quickly blames a 30+ lady who is still single for messing up while she was younger. They wouldn't do if they had an elder sis or aunt in such predicament. GUYS ARE THE REASON LADIES ARE STILL SINGLE. You can date any girl you want to, if you know what price you are ready to pay. If you feel you can't maintain the relationship, don't go into it. You ask out a girl whose cream is half your salary and she (out of consideration) tells you No. Don't call her names. She just saved you. She's not your spec. Meanwhile, if she likes you and shows you that, then, you are confident that both of you can be responsible for the mobility of the relationship. Cut your coat according to your cloth: if you do, you will see you'll that you've been the one keeping ladies single. 104 Likes 13 Shares |
| Re: Guys Are The Major Reason Most Ladies Are Still Single- Emusmith by vizkiz: 1:10pm On Apr 15, 2016 |
Most guys are spending too much time creating silly threads on nairaland  I can't believe you are actually gonna blame me because Cynthia living opposite my compound is yet to marry due to the fact that she is busy playing "hard to get" meanwhile me no even get time to dey pursue woman. How will I be sitting down here jejely and someone will be blaming me for lady's stupidity  This thread stinks. I think op wants to get laid by winning some ladies hearts 372 Likes 19 Shares |
| Re: Guys Are The Major Reason Most Ladies Are Still Single- Emusmith by dollyjoy(f): 1:12pm On Apr 15, 2016 |
So on point. I know most guys wouldn't like this. 14 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Guys Are The Major Reason Most Ladies Are Still Single- Emusmith by Maxi112: 1:13pm On Apr 15, 2016 |
receive it right now! 6 Likes |
| Re: Guys Are The Major Reason Most Ladies Are Still Single- Emusmith by Nobody: 1:15pm On Apr 15, 2016 |
All true OP... but plz add more most men are stubborn like kids, think like kids and act like kids...  15 Likes |
| Re: Guys Are The Major Reason Most Ladies Are Still Single- Emusmith by juniorportland(m): 1:15pm On Apr 15, 2016 |
most guys are broke... simple secondly.... the babes no dey help mata, long throat too dey worry them juniorportland no light, no fuel,no water,no money 23 Likes |
| Re: Guys Are The Major Reason Most Ladies Are Still Single- Emusmith by dollyjoy(f): 1:16pm On Apr 15, 2016 |
vizkiz:most guys spend too much time chasing ftc on nairaland instead of waking up to responsiblities e.g vizkiz  45 Likes |
| Re: Guys Are The Major Reason Most Ladies Are Still Single- Emusmith by donbenedict(m): 1:18pm On Apr 15, 2016 |
Hmmm, quite the hard truth I must say... 1 Like 3 Shares |
| Re: Guys Are The Major Reason Most Ladies Are Still Single- Emusmith by vizkiz: 1:19pm On Apr 15, 2016 |
dollyjoy: if I slap you ehn you go vomit fuel  What responsibilities are you talking about? "Wifing" a liability right? Believe me, isn't gonna work 105 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: Guys Are The Major Reason Most Ladies Are Still Single- Emusmith by Nobody: 1:20pm On Apr 15, 2016 |
juniorportland: Long throat, you say? There are some that are ready to spend on you or not bother you for money but you don't want them...  7 Likes |
| Re: Guys Are The Major Reason Most Ladies Are Still Single- Emusmith by donbenedict(m): 1:21pm On Apr 15, 2016 |
KashyBaby:oh please, don't be biased! In as much as the made sense, u should do so in your comment.. Emusmith made sure he struck a balance in his post... in as much as he wrote against guys, he went further to ascertain that not all guys are the same 3 Likes |
| Re: Guys Are The Major Reason Most Ladies Are Still Single- Emusmith by Nobody: 1:21pm On Apr 15, 2016 |
donbenedict:I like your sincerity. Besides, most of us real guys resonate with these points. 3 Likes |
| Re: Guys Are The Major Reason Most Ladies Are Still Single- Emusmith by donbenedict(m): 1:22pm On Apr 15, 2016 |
This is the very reason i'm always impressed with emusmith's posts... he is just the best.. 2 Likes |
| Re: Guys Are The Major Reason Most Ladies Are Still Single- Emusmith by dollyjoy(f): 1:24pm On Apr 15, 2016 |
vizkiz:no one is gonna "husband" a man that chase ftc like fuel 19 Likes |
| Re: Guys Are The Major Reason Most Ladies Are Still Single- Emusmith by Nobody: 1:24pm On Apr 15, 2016 |
donbenedict: Boo, I didn't said ALL MEN...I said "most" ... Its the truth regardless of race & status... 2 Likes |
| Re: Guys Are The Major Reason Most Ladies Are Still Single- Emusmith by Nobody: 1:24pm On Apr 15, 2016 |
donbenedict:Thanks bro! |
| Re: Guys Are The Major Reason Most Ladies Are Still Single- Emusmith by donbenedict(m): 1:25pm On Apr 15, 2016 |
emusmith:being real is what i'm passionate about, even though i'm wrong, i'm not ashamed to admit the truth.. All what you wrote up there is 100 percent true. From experience, I can relate to that. 2 Likes |
| Re: Guys Are The Major Reason Most Ladies Are Still Single- Emusmith by vizkiz: 1:25pm On Apr 15, 2016 |
dollyjoy: do you want me to marry you? Just say it 15 Likes |
| Re: Guys Are The Major Reason Most Ladies Are Still Single- Emusmith by peeparty(m): 1:28pm On Apr 15, 2016 |
So on point emus my neighbor, but not totally true to some extent.Because na some of this gehs they do themselves. for instance when a girl seems to" have it all mentality" The following statement may be controversial, but it's also true . . . guys are NOT idiots. When a guy meets this "hot but single" that has her sh*t so together, he knows she is wife material. He can't find a laundry list of reasons to give her the fade away after two weeks. She has beauty, brains and a glowing personality to boot. Dating what could be a future wife can scare the living crap out of a guy. It forces the issue of whether he wants commitment anytime soon, or at all. So, unfortunately for this hot single girl, most of the guys she's dating aren't ready for this, so they feel forced to call it quits before it begins. They see the situation for what it is and bail wishing they could cross her path in fiveish years. 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Guys Are The Major Reason Most Ladies Are Still Single- Emusmith by donbenedict(m): 1:28pm On Apr 15, 2016 |
KashyBaby:there is nothing like most, currently there are over 6billion people in the planet earth. Of which men cover at least 40percent of the population... so saying most is more like an exaggeration.. 2 Likes |
| Re: Guys Are The Major Reason Most Ladies Are Still Single- Emusmith by Nobody: 1:29pm On Apr 15, 2016 |
donbenedict:You are right. I love being real too. Too many lies about the ladies. Let's look inwards. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Guys Are The Major Reason Most Ladies Are Still Single- Emusmith by falconey(m): 1:31pm On Apr 15, 2016 |
 it is my fault what have I done?1 Like |
| Re: Guys Are The Major Reason Most Ladies Are Still Single- Emusmith by peeparty(m): 1:31pm On Apr 15, 2016 |
dollyjoy: Hehehehehhe this cracked me up... seconded... 5 Likes |
| Re: Guys Are The Major Reason Most Ladies Are Still Single- Emusmith by Nobody: 1:31pm On Apr 15, 2016 |
peeparty: That's why I tenaciously hold the belief: Date a girl when you're ready for marriage. 4 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Guys Are The Major Reason Most Ladies Are Still Single- Emusmith by Nobody: 1:31pm On Apr 15, 2016 |
donbenedict: Oohh yeah? What about u sit down Coz u don't get me...? Fallacy my foot |
| Re: Guys Are The Major Reason Most Ladies Are Still Single- Emusmith by ireneony(f): 1:31pm On Apr 15, 2016 |
No.1 is so correct; thrse are one of the reason some ladies catfish on social media (instagram, facebook, Twitter ..) men are blind/lust with what they see. Most men say ladies lie alot, the truth is they enjoy being lied to. Check instagram for example a lady who show cases her assets have more followers and likes than the normal average. 5 Likes |
| Re: Guys Are The Major Reason Most Ladies Are Still Single- Emusmith by peeparty(m): 1:34pm On Apr 15, 2016 |
vizkiz: I can't believe you call this silly common bro which way na. 1 Like |
| Re: Guys Are The Major Reason Most Ladies Are Still Single- Emusmith by dollyjoy(f): 1:36pm On Apr 15, 2016 |
peeparty:what surprises most is,a guy will know deep in his heart,that he is not ready for marriage due to financial probs or maybe not ready for commitment yet will keep leading a lady on,just to over stretch her body and dump her later. What prevented the young men in the scenerio you gave above from dating at all since they are not ready for commitment. Wicked species 2 Likes |
| Re: Guys Are The Major Reason Most Ladies Are Still Single- Emusmith by juniorportland(m): 1:36pm On Apr 15, 2016 |
emusmith:thank God u said some....that some should be like 3% 4 Likes |
| Re: Guys Are The Major Reason Most Ladies Are Still Single- Emusmith by Nobody: 1:37pm On Apr 15, 2016 |
vizkiz:FTC in a stinking thread: I hail you! She is playing hard to get, you are too busy to ask her out. It's a fair game. 1 Like 1 Share |
| Re: Guys Are The Major Reason Most Ladies Are Still Single- Emusmith by dollyjoy(f): 1:38pm On Apr 15, 2016 |
vizkiz:why should i marry a liability?or are you an assest?  11 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: Guys Are The Major Reason Most Ladies Are Still Single- Emusmith by donbenedict(m): 1:38pm On Apr 15, 2016 |
emusmith:I think the younger generation needs a re-orientation about marriage... because a good percentage of the youths think every factor they portray in the opposite sex must be met before they sign a life time commitment. I shall take an example of myself. No doubt and honestly I want a lady who is drop dead gorgeous, who is financially stable and who is respectful and has got great culinary skills My projection of her is almost near perfect. While 1. I find it hard to cook a simple soup 2. I no get six packs 3. I'm not entirely the kind of guy she projects too, dats if she has her list. So having written abt that, inorder to solve that problem, we all need to re-order our way of thinking.. when handling matters with the opposite sex. 5 Likes 1 Share |
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