"I have continually enticed my former GF that left me after IT, she is married but I ain't giving up. she should thank her heavens that her husband is strong financially that is why she has successfully escaped all my snares. I am not giving up on her though. I will continue to exhaust all ideas and wait for that time when she slips..." this part I find unnecessary. Why? Is it worth it? Perhaps you've made enough money to have time to run down after your past.

I kinda understand what the Op means and I can relate..

Although I might not go about it the way he is, but u knw what they say "man make man to be wicked". In this case "Woman make Man to be wicked" lol.

I've had girls say that I'm a nice guy, cool caring and all that. But still its never enough cos ur nigga is still single AF!!

What am I trying to say, Personality doesn't jst work alone. U need some financial back up. So am not at that point I want to be financialy in life.

So what do expect to happen when I do get there. I'll want to have fun of cos atleast become a full package.

onstelly:
Someone will just wake up and wrote nonsense
Fling my weaves and walk away

I am willing to stake a bet with just about anyone that the IMPACT of this write up can do more damage than a 'TOMAHAWK MISSILE' !!!

You go fear grammar na

Slapsticker:
Babies everywhere!

Back then in school when ever girls try loving up I also told them to go find a working class dude. why? I figured that a girl is averagely four years ahead of her male colleague.

I never had anything serious to do with them, and I always made them realise that fact. some folks ain't just realistic sometimes. they live in some fantasy world.

so OP expected the girl that got married to the working class guy to have stuck with his hustling ass. If she were your sister, what would you have advised?

my point; don't take it to heart when a lady leaves you, most of them want a secured financial future.

And maybe, you prolly dated bimbos that had nothing except a charming body.

I tell my friends, if you wanna do students, do the enterprising and ambitious ones. not just cute bimbos.

I have never had a heart break. prolly cos I have never expected much. maybe in some 8yrs I can start becoming expectant.

OP can claim to have fun all he likes, he is just battling with a crushed ego. doing every shade of girl isn't fun. it's being sick. and trying to lure a married woman shows how madly wounded he is.

Start a counseling session with a psychologist bro.

Babies everywhere.

BOOM!!!!!......

You nailed it bro!

Slapsticker:
Babies everywhere!

Back then in school when ever girls try loving up I also told them to go find a working class dude. why? I figured that a girl is averagely four years ahead of her male colleague.

I never had anything serious to do with them, and I always made them realise that fact. some folks ain't just realistic sometimes. they live in some fantasy world.

so OP expected the girl that got married to the working class guy to have stuck with his hustling ass. If she were your sister, what would you have advised?

my point; don't take it to heart when a lady leaves you, most of them want a secured financial future.

And maybe, you prolly dated bimbos that had nothing except a charming body.

I tell my friends, if you wanna do students, do the enterprising and ambitious ones. not just cute bimbos.

I have never had a heart break. prolly cos I have never expected much. maybe in some 8yrs I can start becoming expectant.

OP can claim to have fun all he likes, he is just battling with a crushed ego. doing every shade of girl isn't fun. it's being sick. and trying to lure a married woman shows how madly wounded he is.

Start a counseling session with a psychologist bro.

Babies everywhere.

@blueskyee @op this is the answer
You need a psychologist.

Senseless thread...u wanna sleep with someone else wifey...they will bleep yours too in future*long hiss*

onstelly:

Mr teacher have you ever heard of the word mistake
I guess I will employ you as my English teacher
Check the time I post that was just waking up from sleep

You woke up knowing fully well ur brain takes hours to boot (unless u are saying u just installed the brain and don't know how well it works), u didn't even bother to pray, u came straight to Nairaland to troll.

kokaneprodigy:

You woke up knowing fully well ur brain takes hours to boot (unless u are saying u just installed the brain and don't know how well it works), u didn't even bother to pray, u came straight to Nairaland to troll.

Exchanging words with you will be the last time I will do ok, look for someone else n pls don't quote me again cos I won't bother to reply ediot

vickyO:
It seems to me that you felt inferior all along. Why not use that energy for a good cause instead of trying to break a home?

Pls ask him

Slapsticker:
Babies everywhere!

Back then in school when ever girls try loving up I also told them to go find a working class dude. why? I figured that a girl is averagely four years ahead of her male colleague.

I never had anything serious to do with them, and I always made them realise that fact. some folks ain't just realistic sometimes. they live in some fantasy world.

so OP expected the girl that got married to the working class guy to have stuck with his hustling ass. If she were your sister, what would you have advised?

my point; don't take it to heart when a lady leaves you, most of them want a secured financial future.

And maybe, you prolly dated bimbos that had nothing except a charming body.

I tell my friends, if you wanna do students, do the enterprising and ambitious ones. not just cute bimbos.

I have never had a heart break. prolly cos I have never expected much. maybe in some 8yrs I can start becoming expectant.

OP can claim to have fun all he likes, he is just battling with a crushed ego. doing every shade of girl isn't fun. it's being sick. and trying to lure a married woman shows how madly wounded he is.

Start a counseling session with a psychologist bro.

Babies everywhere.

Thumbs up! Op take this advice. You really need it. *babies everywhere*

vickyO:
It seems to me that you felt inferior all along. Why not use that energy for a good cause instead of trying to break a home?

It has nothing to do with feeling inferior. Every guy I know have experience that shit. I had almost slip back into the good guy and something happen again, reminding me of how I was treated and I had avert/prevent myself from being the loving, caring or romantic dude that exist in romance books or movies. Nigerian women don't deserve that and I don't see myself ever letting my emotions into any relationship I had with a Nigerian girl. It's gonna remain that way even in marriage. I would rather pass that emotions on my kids.

I feel the op mahn.....I've been in his shoes.
The honest truth is that "the best revenge is massive success".
Become so successful that those babes/biitches (even the married ones) would call you out of the blue to tell you that they regret their lives without you. Trust me this would give you closure.

vickyO:
It seems to me that you felt inferior all along. Why not use that energy for a good cause instead of trying to break a home?

Nonsense... The dude is a real disgrace to Manhood in Nigeria....

Clap for yourself dude but remember AIDS is real

ebamma:
aunty no waka yet,
abeg come explain this English were you write, for us were never go school

Yours is damn cool

mizzkweenbee:

Continue (in patience's voice). Till you catch hiv too, or dash out ur destiny to one karashika all in the name of fun

really? What are condoms used for?

MzPecs:
OP, you need Jesus!

Do you have him?

MilesLamar:
Nigga just dey praise himself.. Smh

Dude if no praise myself na who go praise me?

pennytration:
Op but wots ur point

Simple...cheating is normal and you should not get "Matured" too soon

sofadj:
Really, you are that petty?

You're going to allow these ladies whom you tagged "rickety looking" and 'chicken legged" to influence how you live your life henceforth?

If their actions is powerful enough to influence your behaviour henceforth then you're probably just "immature" as they said.

If they did influence me I trust I will be that "Matured" guy they are always striving to talk you into. Don't get "Matured" too soon dude...explore

Blackfire:
In your flexing galore, may u not bang your destined wife to be ,and dump her in your flexing galore, thinking u are flexing flexing..

*take if from the baddest-god forsaken-angel trying to repent*

am i advising u, no ! I am blackfire.

dude there is no lady destined for anyone. If there was we will all get married to virgins!....

onstelly:
Someone will just wake up and wrote nonsense
Fling my weaves and walk away

**write** not wrote...you should walk away cos I won't comprehend even if you try!

ebamma:
aunty no waka yet,
abeg come explain this English were you write, for us were never go school

Let her go before she type the one wey go send am go kirikiri

covbrand:
I wouldn't say I understand how you feel, but I do know what it is like to be hurt emotionally because you don't meet certain "exciting" criteria that excite women. but based on your story most of this ladies you dated where students and naturally were in the phase of thier lives where anything exciting would have appealed to them.

Secondly, the time line of a woman and a man isn't the same thing, most of this ladies probably felt you wouldn't be ready in time to wife them which led to the decisions they made.

don't make permanent life decisions based on something that is the normal metamorphosis of life.

What an interesting way to justify greed and cheating!...You should also know that right know I am (same with other dudes) at that phase to want something exciting too. We want to experiment too. We shouldn't grow up now

dinachi:

Funny but true. Most ladies are hypocrites.

kullozone:
ma niggur! we play in the same club..

lol ..That's how we roll...when we are done smashing and retired, we go back to pick the young students for marriage; that's how we cruise

onstelly:

Mr teacher have you ever heard of the word mistake
I guess I will employ you as my English teacher
Check the time I post that was just waking up from sleep

Lady your english is Dammn bad. If I can still spot errors in your write up while tipsy, I guess you need to present your waec certificate....before writing further jargons

Slapsticker:
Babies everywhere!

Back then in school when ever girls try loving up I also told them to go find a working class dude. why? I figured that a girl is averagely four years ahead of her male colleague.

I never had anything serious to do with them, and I always made them realise that fact. some folks ain't just realistic sometimes. they live in some fantasy world.

so OP expected the girl that got married to the working class guy to have stuck with his hustling ass. If she were your sister, what would you have advised?

my point; don't take it to heart when a lady leaves you, most of them want a secured financial future.

And maybe, you prolly dated bimbos that had nothing except a charming body.

I tell my friends, if you wanna do students, do the enterprising and ambitious ones. not just cute bimbos.

I have never had a heart break. prolly cos I have never expected much. maybe in some 8yrs I can start becoming expectant.

OP can claim to have fun all he likes, he is just battling with a crushed ego. doing every shade of girl isn't fun. it's being sick. and trying to lure a married woman shows how madly wounded he is.

Start a counseling session with a psychologist bro.

Babies everywhere.

Clown!!! Who propounded such theory? I have seen sincere relationships that started from college. Obama, Carson et al married from where? You couldn't afford to keep a girlfriend or you were just not man enough dude!....go get a life!

Spicylate:
"I have continually enticed my former GF that left me after IT, she is married but I ain't giving up. she should thank her heavens that her husband is strong financially that is why she has successfully escaped all my snares. I am not giving up on her though. I will continue to exhaust all ideas and wait for that time when she slips..." this part I find unnecessary. Why? Is it worth it? Perhaps you've made enough money to have time to run down after your past.

Is worth it! I don't have to make all the money in the world to get what I want

Naughtysite:
Faithfulness is still the best.

You safe keep your health and your heart..

So many people get into relationships when they are not ready. Ready for what? You are a guy and you dont have job, you jump into a relationship just for sex. Why wont the ladies dump you ? ( Poster's problem ). Even cars need servicing and lubrication. You think sex is enough without money.

You are a lady, you are not ready to start having sex, you jump into a relationship just for money, when the guy now demands sex, you ask him to wait. Wait for what when you are living off him like he is your husband ?

Finally, you are not ready for marriage and you want to start dating because of its benefits, do you know the purpose of dating ?

Misplaced priorities.

Let me enlighten you...I was never broke while in school. I had enough money to maintain all the relationships I engaged in...Moreover the ladies I dated where not paupers so it was a mind thing...I don't know if you get that

mrkay101:
I kinda understand what the Op means and I can relate..

Although I might not go about it the way he is, but u knw what they say "man make man to be wicked". In this case "Woman make Man to be wicked" lol.

I've had girls say that I'm a nice guy, cool caring and all that. But still its never enough cos ur nigga is still single AF!!

What am I trying to say, Personality doesn't jst work alone. U need some financial back up. So am not at that point I want to be financialy in life.

So what do expect to happen when I do get there. I'll want to have fun of cos atleast become a full package.

I am not being wicked. It is just catching fun and passing through a phase. Yes get balanced financially but I was never broke back in school...Dont get "Matured" when the money start rolling in...Explore