Gud day all and a happy Sunday to all my brodas and sisters.. Father's and mothers....

Pls help me out with advise concerning a friend of mine.... He lives in d compound where my sibling(younger) broda resides... We met in d compound because most times in my free periods I do go der to relax due to loneliness.. (stay in a self contain by his grace with jus a married Tennant in d compound and an introvert) we clicked and started conversing and became friends...i was to run a professional program of which I introduced him... I told him he can come over to my place since I noticed he is not comfortable with his broda whom he stays with in d compound... And due to d fact dat I will have someone to atleast sometimes chat with and share issues together.. Took him like a broda some even taught we are brodas.. Dats was 2015 fast forward to dis year2016 in started noticing changes in him January precisely when I told him we would relo cate by April don't intend renewing d rent due to increment by landlord and due to financial strains.. He stopped communication with me unlike bfor... He keeps to himself do things on his own.. Telling me he prefers d selfcon we are staying told him fine I know but one has to cut his coat according to his size for now maybe wen a better job comes one can move back to better place... Intend renting a room apartment.. Which I ve done never asked him for money even wen some advice me to ask him.. B live he doesn't have moreover I bliv it's only God dat repays good deeds... My problem now is his attitude since den sometimes he stays days without talking to me.. Wen asked he said nothing he is OK.... He has never asked me how far about d house I rented even wen going to pay d rent it too persuasion from me bfor he followed me. Which I noticed... Pls what do I do because his attitude is beginning to make me regret all I did? Pls wats ur advice.. Sorry for d long write up?

E no get money to pay house rent with u....Uncle move on without him and go and get your own place. Shikena

Nigerians and their entitlement mentality.
A beg, forget him.

Who e epp?

Tanx come to think of d fact dat he is older by a year.... By his grace I ve Done all I could do as a friend and like a broda to him... Bought a tablet gave him since I don't always use it which he uses.. Some shoes money and so many oda things which I bliv it's only God dat pays back
... Honestly thinking of telling him to. Move on.?

You are helping a free loader that has a choice right? what nonsense... I wish I was in Nigeria, I would have looked for you so you can help pay my rent and other bills.....

Bro move out if you feel you cannot pay anymore or sit him down ask him to contribute so that both of you can renew the rent since he liked the place.... This is just a simple matter... U can never be a boss and run a company if you continue to look at people's mood swing....

Sometimes being too good z a curse!i gav access to one,who had a lil boy of abt 4years old then,the father has free entranc into my home,even to serve food from my kitchen,my husband kicked against my Eppin them.long story cut short,this ungraful smelling nkpi-ish of a man startin noticin my breas.t n bumbum,how my husband z not servicin me well,how he wished my husband to giv him 4days to handle n impregnate me.choi i was livid with anger,it really pained me,and my husband blamed me for everything.....but you jex hav to be dooyin good.Op i wont advice you to chase him out o.

Tanx a lot... Ma...