Most behaviour is learned.

Unlearn what is cointerproductive, learn what is productive.

People who incite you against your family will not listen to you if you try to incite them against theirs.

Try it and see how they react to you.

A whisperer's intention is not to give you more power, but to undermine what you have, as part of the larger picture.


A word is enough for the wise.

Practically impossible to incite me against my family. No hypnosis, no mesmerism or any other form of mind control can even do it. I value my family above everyone and everything, except the relationship with God.

Usually, anyone who engages in such (whispering campaign among members of a family), is simply showing his or her low opinion of that family.

Yes. You should also then recognise such person as an enemy.

I think you are right.

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