My newborn is 3 weeks old, I am yet to fully recover after childbirth, my hubby wants sex, I told him I have not fully healed and he is giving me attitude. He then ask for BJ, but I can not give him BJ till he comes. I am not a fan of BJ, and after the BJ, he is left unsatisfied because he does not climax, what should I do? We already have 2 kids, he said that is okay for now. I would have gone for family planning but I can not do that, until after my 6-weeks check up for advice on family planning. Use of condom is not even a better idea because he can never climax while on condom. My question is directed to strong men who have actually watched their wives give birth, is 6 weeks too much for a husband to wait before having sex with the wife?
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We started digging it the next day after the birth of my twins

FowlYansh:
We started digging it the next day after the birth of my twins

all women ain't the same

This is what happens when one only derives pleasure from s*x ... People need to know that there are other ways of getting pleasure/satisfaction outside sex

So insensitive of your husband, still demanding even though he knows you haven't fully recovered .. if he disturbs you again, call your doctor to talk to him... mtcheeew, don't jeopardise your health because of your husband's selfishness. .

What happens when you have something to do outside the home for months

He needs to find other ways to get busy...

it depends on the couple involve

Handle d situation with care and maturity b4 ur husband starts cheating on u.

FowlYansh:
We started digging it the next day after the birth of my twins

You're obviously not a woman.

3weeks is a bit too early especially if you're still healing and feel sore down there.
You husband should try to be more patient.

Try and use a combination of your hand and mouth.That should do the trick.

I had to wait up to 2 months and 3 weeks, not after seeing my wife undergo such pain down there. She was restitched after the first one was half down. After 2 month we could romance after which she knows how to make me cum.

It is always good to allow the woman's body to fully heal. She is a woman not a wood. For me i don't think the excitement of the new baby will allow the Brain of the man to start thinking of doing something.

PresVA:
This is what happens when one only derives pleasure from s*x ... People need to know that there are other ways of getting pleasure/satisfaction outside sex

So insensitive of your husband, still demanding even though he knows you haven't fully recovered .. if he disturbs you again, call your doctor to talk to him... mtcheeew, don't jeopardise your health because of your husband's selfishness. .

What happens when you have something to do outside the home for months

He needs to find other ways to get busy...

Pls do teach us the other ways, I'm interested. Btw, what makes you think the man is not open to other means of sexual satisfaction? The woman cannot even give her man head till he climax. The selfish person here is the OP.

OP, you're married to this man and you find the thought of him erupting in your mouth repugnant? Smh

I pray God gives you the wisdom to do the right thing. All the best.

thorpido:
3weeks is a bit too early especially if you're still healing and feel sore down there.
You husband should try to be more patient.

Try and use a combination of your hand and mouth.That should do the trick.

Thanks for the advise. Where is *itstipia8* abi tilapia fish. This is what is expected of him, not opening the hole on his face he calls a mouth, to vomit nonsense.

FowlYansh:
We started digging it the next day after the birth of my twins

I don't believe this!! He swam in your lochia .

Madam if you still feel sore he has to be patient and control his urge Haba!!

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Now you know that you are truly a witch or wizard.

radicalove:

Now you know that you are truly a witch or wizard.

Madam, u are fighting with a mad woman!go through her posts,u will understand.
When i say mad, as in mad,kolo,mental.

nasha1:


Madam, u are fighting with a mad woman!go through her posts,u will understand.
When i say mad, as in mad,kolo,mental.

Are you serious about her madness?? Okay, I just have to let her know that many are mad but few are roaming. I will give her double tablet for every of her madness!

Bolade005:

Pls do teach us the other ways, I'm interested. Btw, what makes you think the man is not open to other means of sexual satisfaction? The woman cannot even give her man head till he climax. The selfish person here is the OP.

OP, you're married to this man and you find the thought of him erupting in your mouth repugnant? Smh

I pray God gives you the wisdom to do the right thing. All the best.

Have you ever licked your wife's juice?







@ radicalove,
If you have big tit then you have nothing to worry about na...let him titfuck you.
Vj penetration is a no no until 6 weeks to be on the safe side as you wouldn't like puerperal sepsis to creep in.
So ..hand job, Bjob, titfuck ..take your pick.
And I am not a fan of anal sex ..it goes against what I terms enjoyment...If you are a fan then goodluck but remember to apply lots of lubes.

radicalove:


Are you serious about her madness?? Okay, I just have to let her know that many are mad but few are roaming. I will give her double tablet for every of her madness!

Very serious.
@topic u said u have two kids already, how did he cope with the two? becoz this is not the first u are having a baby,so what is new here?

TheArchangel:
Have you ever licked your wife's juice?







@ radicalove,
If you have big tit then you have nothing to worry about na...let him titfuck you.
Vj penetration is a no no until 6 weeks to be on the safe side as you wouldn't like puerperal sepsis to creep in.
So ..hand job, Bjob, titfuck ..take your pick.
And I am not a fan of anal sex ..it goes against what I terms enjoyment...If you are a fan then goodluck but remember to apply lots of lubes.

I refuse to answer that question

sdkalu:
I had to wait up to 2 months and 3 weeks, not after seeing my wife undergo such pain down there. She was restitched after the first one was half down. After 2 month we could romance after which she knows how to make me cum.

It is always good to allow the woman's body to fully heal. She is a woman not a wood. For me i don't think the excitement of the new baby will allow the Brain of the man to start thinking of doing something.

Thumbs up. I love your advice. The excitement of the baby should at least lower his libido for a while. Good one

Bolade005:

I refuse to answer that question

Of course.
Finding the juice repugnant ?

damn, your husband is very wicked. I had to wait for 4 months cos i was bruised badly. How did he even have time to think of sex from lack of sleep of dealing with a newborn. Don't have sex until you are on a very good family planning cos you have a very high chance of getting pregnant after giving birth.