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Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by bethyz(m): 8:11pm On May 05, 2016
Mingle with the kind of people you want. If you mingle with a broke guy like you said he will come up with stories. Mingle with the right one. Be careful too how you put them off so they don't have a plan B. Fix yourself with the type or social status as yours. That will solve it. Don't see it because of your age you go less because you think those ones will love better. No . look simple and smile alot
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by uchennaq(m): 8:15pm On May 05, 2016
YEYE DEY SMELL HERE...SO YOU THINK WRITING THIS ON NAIRALAND WILL SOLVE YOUR PROBLEM?

WAIT FOR DENZEL NAHHH

AFTER ALL WHO YOU SELF ACCLAIMED SO CALLED INDEPENDENT LADY EPP?

Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by ohil: 8:16pm On May 05, 2016
PoliticalThuG:
Silly thread angry

when did it become a crime for women to do the spending in a relationship or marriage?

Abeg dnt bother us with ur fake story.. We have had enough of ur complains angry
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by damzy88: 8:22pm On May 05, 2016
mizlolar:
Please i need ur help. Am having challenges in area of relationship. I have the problem of ending up with men who are nothing but gold diggers. They seem good from the start but before a few months, they will turn into pests.

I dont know what is responsible for this. I just need a man who ll love me on the basis of who i am not what i have. I am from a well to do family, I am the only daughter of my parents and my dad is late, I actually inherited quite a lot and initially it seemed like a blessing until I got older.

All the Guys i ve met so far re fake displaying fake love just to get hold of what is in my possession. I will give you a little insight so you can understand what I am going tru. Around 2013, my then fiance kidnapped himself and because i already knew he was too needy and then their was a lot of inconsistencies in the story so i ignored the kidnappers who were demanding for 700k ransom. The guys showed up 2 weeks later fuming without any injuries or even shedding any weight


He was ranting and saying all sorts like how wicked i was and how i abandoned him to die. I had to break it off immediately because he was beginning to sound like i was his mother and father joined together. The next relationship went quite the same way.


The guy sold my car and came up with stories of how he was robbed at onipanu by palm-grove. unfortunately for him, i had a tracker which had its own inbuilt battery, so when they disconnected the car battery thinking they have disabled the tracker, they gaffed. the car was subsequently tracked down to shagamu at a hotel managed by his cousin. these are just the few recent ones.

There are many more experiences that i wouldn’t bother you with but I am tired. the worst is that some will even want to move in with me because of the comfort of my place. Its really frustrating. My mum said i should stop driving but its nearly impossible for me to get around lagos without a car.


I simply stopped using the big cars and got a Toyota matrix and i even had to drive myself so it dosnt look like i am the one attracting the wrong men and scaring away the good ones yet i haven’t been lucky.


I am not looking for a millionaire, I just want a man with a little dignity and value not the ones who will start demanding for loans or come up with stories within months of how their visa was stuck or how their mother was diabetic and needed money for blood transfusion. I have heard a lot of such stories and i am tired.


I dont know if my mum is right that i am scaring away the right ones with my lifestyle. Honestly, i dont even live flamboyantly neither do I club. I am in my early 30’s and i really need to settle down.


Plz help me with ideas on how to stop attracting gold digging shameless men. As at now, 4 guys re on my neck including head of admin in my firm but they are all my subordinates and I don’t want a scandal. Thank u.

Please advice. I don't need abuse from you guys... Thanks
Hi, are you sure this story is true.The person on your dp looks like someone I know that graduated in Lautech in 2014.The girl lives in Ife and not Lagos. Dont lie ooooooo
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by Nobody: 8:22pm On May 05, 2016
this op is a bloody liar... she was 23 in her other thread and searching for job now she is a rich 30yr old babe.. mtchewww...

MrCork:



....seee yor tiny headlike SOmali made portmanto....4real......so u want us to help u find rich man on nairaland?...abi?...wot is wrong wit startin up wit poor guy, help him walk his way through strugles, become comfortable then become rich together (step by step)...huh?.....Sweeery ...my profesionnal opinnnoon...Your Grankolobolakulatt head need battery relacpemment!!(no oofeinse) angry
you almost sound sane today.. cool
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by CosmeticChemist(m): 8:25pm On May 05, 2016
mizlolar:
Please i need ur help. Am having challenges in area of relationship. I have the problem of ending up with men who are nothing but gold diggers. They seem good from the start but before a few months, they will turn into pests.

I dont know what is responsible for this. I just need a man who ll love me on the basis of who i am not what i have. I am from a well to do family, I am the only daughter of my parents and my dad is late, I actually inherited quite a lot and initially it seemed like a blessing until I got older.

All the Guys i ve met so far re fake displaying fake love just to get hold of what is in my possession. I will give you a little insight so you can understand what I am going tru. Around 2013, my then fiance kidnapped himself and because i already knew he was too needy and then their was a lot of inconsistencies in the story so i ignored the kidnappers who were demanding for 700k ransom. The guys showed up 2 weeks later fuming without any injuries or even shedding any weight


He was ranting and saying all sorts like how wicked i was and how i abandoned him to die. I had to break it off immediately because he was beginning to sound like i was his mother and father joined together. The next relationship went quite the same way.


The guy sold my car and came up with stories of how he was robbed at onipanu by palm-grove. unfortunately for him, i had a tracker which had its own inbuilt battery, so when they disconnected the car battery thinking they have disabled the tracker, they gaffed. the car was subsequently tracked down to shagamu at a hotel managed by his cousin. these are just the few recent ones.

There are many more experiences that i wouldn’t bother you with but I am tired. the worst is that some will even want to move in with me because of the comfort of my place. Its really frustrating. My mum said i should stop driving but its nearly impossible for me to get around lagos without a car.


I simply stopped using the big cars and got a Toyota matrix and i even had to drive myself so it dosnt look like i am the one attracting the wrong men and scaring away the good ones yet i haven’t been lucky.


I am not looking for a millionaire, I just want a man with a little dignity and value not the ones who will start demanding for loans or come up with stories within months of how their visa was stuck or how their mother was diabetic and needed money for blood transfusion. I have heard a lot of such stories and i am tired.


I dont know if my mum is right that i am scaring away the right ones with my lifestyle. Honestly, i dont even live flamboyantly neither do I club. I am in my early 30’s and i really need to settle down.


Plz help me with ideas on how to stop attracting gold digging shameless men. As at now, 4 guys re on my neck including head of admin in my firm but they are all my subordinates and I don’t want a scandal. Thank u.

Please advice. I don't need abuse from you guys... Thanks

I want to ask you a question ma. Its abt the car tracker
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by shophut(m): 8:29pm On May 05, 2016
U hv 2 change ur life style, attitude and character. Though u are rich, for the mean time u should bring urself down to the lowest. Men generally perceive rich women as a threat, and u fall into that category. Also another place to be is a good Christian church because u cant really find men with such qualities u r looking for in the world. It would be in the church. And while at the church maintain ur low profile and humility. Thats all i can advice u.
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by misspicy(f): 8:29pm On May 05, 2016
DragonReborn:
Abeg tell me where dem dey make I go mount table dey sell tomatoes. Maybe one of them fit pity me, make me deputy boyfriend grin
Prayer of a poor man tongue
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by Toks2008(m): 8:32pm On May 05, 2016
Ishilove:
FBI
lol
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by holarmy10(m): 8:33pm On May 05, 2016
The problem is with you
You ladies set unrealistic standards when choosing a spouse..
That is why all of them look broke to you
Learn from your mum..
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by reachycul(m): 8:34pm On May 05, 2016
if dis write-up is tru den d situations u ar in nw hapins everywer, i can tell u dat am diff from dose guys everybody luv n want gud tins...........all u av 2do is jus pray 2 ur God n b ursef sister
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by popcykaylah(m): 8:34pm On May 05, 2016
I smell lies ..
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by Nobody: 8:36pm On May 05, 2016
misspicy:

Prayer of a poor man tongue
Answer of a rich woman. How far, anything for your boy? tongue
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by chimoskyg(m): 8:37pm On May 05, 2016
Lol…

#I just want to serve in Akwa Ibom state
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by unwanaabasi(m): 8:38pm On May 05, 2016
Call wit dis no. 08020974078
mizlolar:
Please i need ur help. Am having challenges in area of relationship. I have the problem of ending up with men who are nothing but gold diggers. They seem good from the start but before a few months, they will turn into pests.

I dont know what is responsible for this. I just need a man who ll love me on the basis of who i am not what i have. I am from a well to do family, I am the only daughter of my parents and my dad is late, I actually inherited quite a lot and initially it seemed like a blessing until I got older.

All the Guys i ve met so far re fake displaying fake love just to get hold of what is in my possession. I will give you a little insight so you can understand what I am going tru. Around 2013, my then fiance kidnapped himself and because i already knew he was too needy and then their was a lot of inconsistencies in the story so i ignored the kidnappers who were demanding for 700k ransom. The guys showed up 2 weeks later fuming without any injuries or even shedding any weight


He was ranting and saying all sorts like how wicked i was and how i abandoned him to die. I had to break it off immediately because he was beginning to sound like i was his mother and father joined together. The next relationship went quite the same way.


The guy sold my car and came up with stories of how he was robbed at onipanu by palm-grove. unfortunately for him, i had a tracker which had its own inbuilt battery, so when they disconnected the car battery thinking they have disabled the tracker, they gaffed. the car was subsequently tracked down to shagamu at a hotel managed by his cousin. these are just the few recent ones.

There are many more experiences that i wouldn’t bother you with but I am tired. the worst is that some will even want to move in with me because of the comfort of my place. Its really frustrating. My mum said i should stop driving but its nearly impossible for me to get around lagos without a car.


I simply stopped using the big cars and got a Toyota matrix and i even had to drive myself so it dosnt look like i am the one attracting the wrong men and scaring away the good ones yet i haven’t been lucky.


I am not looking for a millionaire, I just want a man with a little dignity and value not the ones who will start demanding for loans or come up with stories within months of how their visa was stuck or how their mother was diabetic and needed money for blood transfusion. I have heard a lot of such stories and i am tired.


I dont know if my mum is right that i am scaring away the right ones with my lifestyle. Honestly, i dont even live flamboyantly neither do I club. I am in my early 30’s and i really need to settle down.


Plz help me with ideas on how to stop attracting gold digging shameless men. As at now, 4 guys re on my neck including head of admin in my firm but they are all my subordinates and I don’t want a scandal. Thank u.

Please advice. I don't need abuse from you guys... Thanks
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by WebSurfer(m): 8:38pm On May 05, 2016
mizlolar:
.. Thanks
please let me know if you found the best solution, this is almost exactly my case but im a guy.. Gooddiggers everywhere sad sad sad
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by WebSurfer(m): 8:40pm On May 05, 2016
unwanaabasi:
Call wit dis no. 08020974078
are you not ashamed of yourself?

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Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by Rottentooth: 8:58pm On May 05, 2016
Watch that movie: Coming to America. You'll see how a prince left the opulence of the palace to become a cleaner in another country before he found a wife.
I think you should do the following:
1. Take a vacation.
2. Leave the posh life for a while(you may rent a 3-bedroom flat)
3. Mix with members of middle social class
4. Be cheerful, don't be arrogant and don't flaunt your wealth around.
5. Be prayerful and fast to ask God the type if man you need.
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by johnsonsegxy: 8:58pm On May 05, 2016
NikitaNike:
More of my son picture but bring ribenna for him

Chaii! This your son go like faaji oo? omo see stomach full of ribena. grin
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by misspicy(f): 9:00pm On May 05, 2016
DragonReborn:
Answer of a rich woman. How far, anything for your boy? tongue
My friend go and get drinkable water undecided
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by DICKtator: 9:03pm On May 05, 2016
mizlolar:
Please i need ur help. Am having challenges in area of relationship. I have the problem of ending up with men who are nothing but gold diggers. They seem good from the start but before a few months, they will turn into pests.

I dont know what is responsible for this. I just need a man who ll love me on the basis of who i am not what i have. I am from a well to do family, I am the only daughter of my parents and my dad is late, I actually inherited quite a lot and initially it seemed like a blessing until I got older.

All the Guys i ve met so far re fake displaying fake love just to get hold of what is in my possession. I will give you a little insight so you can understand what I am going tru. Around 2013, my then fiance kidnapped himself and because i already knew he was too needy and then their was a lot of inconsistencies in the story so i ignored the kidnappers who were demanding for 700k ransom. The guys showed up 2 weeks later fuming without any injuries or even shedding any weight


He was ranting and saying all sorts like how wicked i was and how i abandoned him to die. I had to break it off immediately because he was beginning to sound like i was his mother and father joined together. The next relationship went quite the same way.


The guy sold my car and came up with stories of how he was robbed at onipanu by palm-grove. unfortunately for him, i had a tracker which had its own inbuilt battery, so when they disconnected the car battery thinking they have disabled the tracker, they gaffed. the car was subsequently tracked down to shagamu at a hotel managed by his cousin. these are just the few recent ones.

There are many more experiences that i wouldn’t bother you with but I am tired. the worst is that some will even want to move in with me because of the comfort of my place. Its really frustrating. My mum said i should stop driving but its nearly impossible for me to get around lagos without a car.


I simply stopped using the big cars and got a Toyota matrix and i even had to drive myself so it dosnt look like i am the one attracting the wrong men and scaring away the good ones yet i haven’t been lucky.


I am not looking for a millionaire, I just want a man with a little dignity and value not the ones who will start demanding for loans or come up with stories within months of how their visa was stuck or how their mother was diabetic and needed money for blood transfusion. I have heard a lot of such stories and i am tired.


I dont know if my mum is right that i am scaring away the right ones with my lifestyle. Honestly, i dont even live flamboyantly neither do I club. I am in my early 30’s and i really need to settle down.


Plz help me with ideas on how to stop attracting gold digging shameless men. As at now, 4 guys re on my neck including head of admin in my firm but they are all my subordinates and I don’t want a scandal. Thank u.

Please advice. I don't need abuse from you guys... Thanks


Reach out to TeeBillz


You should be his next victim.

He would perfectly fit your description of the type of person you need!!!
Thank me later!!!

grin grin grin grin

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Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by pannyman(m): 9:05pm On May 05, 2016
It's been proven to be a fake story yet people are still giving advice. Smh

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Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by kentblues(m): 9:09pm On May 05, 2016
present this case before GOD, if u really lov any of those guys u quited, u wont tek action immidiately as u did by dropping them. i dont think d guy dat kidnapped himself has a job. and u have a firm, u pay people salary, u wud hav employed him, from there he can be saving and taking care of himself and you as well even if ur level pass him own. u wud have continue to show him love despite his multiple demands. ofcourse not everything he ask dat u wil give him. somtyms u hav b blunt, allow him to b, continue to let him know dat condition is hard. even as u become blunt on him by not responding to his request, hold on to dat for some tym, he start knowin dat u can manage ur wealth, during dt period u ar blunt on him , u will use dat oppotunity to kno what he lacks, then u giv him a job.. before u kno it he wil start gettin use to u.. love become strong. nature takes its place..
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by Dantedasz(m): 9:10pm On May 05, 2016
I pity anyone who posts their email or phone number.
This thread is a scam.
Be warned!

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Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by teebillz: 9:14pm On May 05, 2016
DICKtator:



Reach out to TeeBillz


You should be his next victim.

He would perfectly fit your description of the type of person you need!!!
Thank me later!!!

grin grin grin grin
Just leave me out of this, okay.
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by Nobody: 9:17pm On May 05, 2016
teebillz:
Just leave me out of this, okay.

Teebillz?. Nairalanders never cease to amaze me sha. grin
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by UIA04(f): 9:25pm On May 05, 2016
Stelvin101:
If only broke men approach you for marriage then get rich, marry a broke man and make him rich. Period! I don't want to hear one more complain from you, not when you are not Dangote's daughter or that of Mike Adenuga. Next plz
Read the Story before commenting
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by AdebisiAdeyinka(m): 9:35pm On May 05, 2016
mizlolar:
Please i need ur help. Am having challenges in area of relationship. I have the problem of ending up with men who are nothing but gold diggers. They seem good from the start but before a few months, they will turn into pests.

I dont know what is responsible for this. I just need a man who ll love me on the basis of who i am not what i have. I am from a well to do family, I am the only daughter of my parents and my dad is late, I actually inherited quite a lot and initially it seemed like a blessing until I got older.

All the Guys i ve met so far re fake displaying fake love just to get hold of what is in my possession. I will give you a little insight so you can understand what I am going tru. Around 2013, my then fiance kidnapped himself and because i already knew he was too needy and then their was a lot of inconsistencies in the story so i ignored the kidnappers who were demanding for 700k ransom. The guys showed up 2 weeks later fuming without any injuries or even shedding any weight


He was ranting and saying all sorts like how wicked i was and how i abandoned him to die. I had to break it off immediately because he was beginning to sound like i was his mother and father joined together. The next relationship went quite the same way.


The guy sold my car and came up with stories of how he was robbed at onipanu by palm-grove. unfortunately for him, i had a tracker which had its own inbuilt battery, so when they disconnected the car battery thinking they have disabled the tracker, they gaffed. the car was subsequently tracked down to shagamu at a hotel managed by his cousin. these are just the few recent ones.

There are many more experiences that i wouldn’t bother you with but I am tired. the worst is that some will even want to move in with me because of the comfort of my place. Its really frustrating. My mum said i should stop driving but its nearly impossible for me to get around lagos without a car.


I simply stopped using the big cars and got a Toyota matrix and i even had to drive myself so it dosnt look like i am the one attracting the wrong men and scaring away the good ones yet i haven’t been lucky.


I am not looking for a millionaire, I just want a man with a little dignity and value not the ones who will start demanding for loans or come up with stories within months of how their visa was stuck or how their mother was diabetic and needed money for blood transfusion. I have heard a lot of such stories and i am tired.


I dont know if my mum is right that i am scaring away the right ones with my lifestyle. Honestly, i dont even live flamboyantly neither do I club. I am in my early 30’s and i really need to settle down.


Plz help me with ideas on how to stop attracting gold digging shameless men. As at now, 4 guys re on my neck including head of admin in my firm but they are all my subordinates and I don’t want a scandal. Thank u.

Please advice. I don't need abuse from you guys... Thanks
just be prayerful and pls is there vacancy in ur firm for a sec school leaver like me?
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by Nobody: 9:37pm On May 05, 2016
oglalasioux:


Your advice is great but consider the human psychology of shifting responsibilities to the person who provides. This girl should find her class. Even the guys that are looking for the 'person' in her in the beginning will be worse in marriage when they find out the girl is loaded. They won't want to work again because there's free money. She should stick to her class. Poor guys have absolutely nothing to offer to a rich girl in marriage.
U are so on point
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by dublaino(m): 9:37pm On May 05, 2016
Good evening maam, The only solution I can give is for you to be prayerful.. Embark on fasting. And try to wake up very early to pray to God. He will answer your prayers. Amen.

And pls ma'am I am really in need of a job. If you can help I would really appreciate ma'am. Thanks and av a wonderful night rest
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by Nobody: 9:37pm On May 05, 2016
misspicy:

My friend go and get drinkable water undecided
Don't be an ass cool
Re: Why Do Only Broke Men Approach Me For Marriage? by Nobody: 9:40pm On May 05, 2016
olac21:
Well,from my point of view..you flaunt those riches which you inherited from your late dad..I think it will do you every good if you start re -planning and reassessing your suitors and make sure they don't know how rich you're!btw,how old are you if I care to ask?
How are u longest time. How's school

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