What do you think about your guy/girl turning up at your house without prior notification?
For some people its no big deal, for others its a No-No.
For me, i think courtesy demands you say you are going to show up at so so and so time cos you are not going to bust me like some P.I.
Some girls are very fond of this "Bad" habit or what do you think?

If Im not married to you, why the heck would you show up to my house unannounced. THATS A BIG NO-NO! BIG ONE.

I'd take someone checking my text messages, than a lunatic who shows up to my house unannounced. Thats just darn creepy.

It smacks of suspicion and distrust.

I dont see anything wrong in it. If you both trust each other then why not. You're welcome anyday so its not unannounced.

Trust is associated to a serious relationship, except in such cases why would a gf turn up unannounced??

Just pray it aint raining cos u'll surely get a good soaking - that door will remain shut!

~Borat~:

What do you think about your guy/girl turning up at your house without prior notification?
For some people its no big deal, for others its a No-No.
For me, i think courtesy demands you say you are going to show up at so so and so time cos you are not going to bust me like some P.I.
Some girls are very fond of this "Bad" habit or what do you think?

binhozie:

I dont see anything wrong in it. If you both trust each other then why not. You're welcome anyday so its not unannounced.

binhozie you are correct! except guy/babe has some underground secrets.

It depends on the level of the relationship.

Ben20001:

It depends on the level of the relationship.

i would ve to agree with Ben, it does ve to do with the level of relationship, if the relationship is a serious one by that i'm assuming both parents are involved that kinda thingy there's nothing wrong in popping in unannounced but if otherwise which a lot of ladies like to do(wonder y) its best to call before showing up not because of anything but i think its the appropriate thing to do!

whitelexi:

Trust is associated to a serious relationship, except in such cases why would a gf turn up unannounced??

Just pray it aint raining cos u'll surely get a good soaking - that door will remain shut!

lol, that wld be mean o!!!!

we have to be serious to have u come unannounced.
funny i was aske this same qst by my girl recently, and i told her she shud just demand for my key instead.

i think it all depends on the level of relationship you have with the person, if its a serious relationship, dont think i will have a problem with that, but if its somone i only started dating, i will be slightly suspicious of her actions, i will let her in the first time, but if it happens again, the door will remain shut, and the same might be said about the relationship

I want to believe its wrong.

But realy what if she pops in unannounced . . . what really are the men scared of? Is there something there to hide?

This has nothing to do with trust, its common courtesy that you inform someone you would be visiting, except of course it's an emergency even then at least call and let the fellow know you are on the way. People who really do that are paranoid, dont trust their friend or are just damn rude!

;d ;d ;d ;d ;d, oyo

@debest1 wat happened to the picture, still waiting!

Only if she is my fiancee and she will surely have the key, so she can come to my house unannounced but if she is just one of them then she better get an appointment or she go grow bear bear for there

yjay:

@debest1 wat happened to the picture, still waiting!

Did you not see it? I posted it as promised, had to take it down afterwards as i wanted it to be "FOR YOUR EYES ONLY"

Why is it "ok" if a guys pops in unannounced but questioned if the lady does?

This has happened wit me & i'm fyn wit it, but i don't do it . . . i wouldn't, i prefer to be invited no matter the closeness.

But the issue when this topic comes up guys are quick to say "No, No No"

its not a big deal,

Junee:

Why is it "ok" if a guys pops in unannounced but questioned if the lady does?

This has happened wit me & i'm fyn wit it, but i don't do it . . . i wouldn't, i prefer to be invited no matter the closeness.

But the issue when this topic comes up guys are quick to say "No, No No"

the no no applies to both gender in my books. If the guy is visiting he should out of courtesy alert her afterall its her house and he is a guest ,

It not a big issue. But it is polite to call first or let your host know before you arrive, so you do not rudely distrupt their personal plans.

If my Girl friend does that I'll simply think she's suspicious!!!

na only those waka waka boys go support this post. as ona no want trouble

what if something happens and she needed to get to you immidiately, and maybe ur phone was not going thru and she knew u will be in the house.

if u support this post, it means u cant even give your fiancee the key to your room. make she no come catch u where u dey do kerewa with another woman.

wat else will you be keeping away from her?

joyblinks:

na only those waka waka boys go support this post. as ona no want trouble

what if something happens and she needed to get to you immidiately, and maybe ur phone was not going thru and she knew u will be in the house.

if u support this post, it means u cant even give your fiancee the key to your room. make she no come catch u where u dey do kerewa with another woman.

wat else will you be keeping away from her?

Stop bulls**ting, no matter the situation, emergency or not she has to let me know b4 invading my privacy

now check this out, what if am sleeping or simply aint in the mood to entertain any visitor, any guy that allows

such disrespect simply does not value his own privacy and aint keeping it real neither, only my fiancee has the right

to barge in on me unannounced but then again . . . . . . . a little courtesy still goes a long way

Joy blinks your excuses are what ifs are too much abeg. Kai!

debest1:

Did you not see it? I posted it as promised, had to take it down afterwards as i wanted it to be "FOR YOUR EYES ONLY"

i ddnt see it o!!!!! so now that im here think u shld put it up ASAP!!!!!

yjay:

i ddnt see it o!!!!! so now that im here think u shld put it up ASAP!!!!!

haaa u slack oooo i had it up 4 u and u alone, how come u missed that wonderful sight? ok will only put it up if u r nice to me , u know how to behave wen a gal wants something from a guy,

debest1:

haaa u slack oooo i had it up 4 u and u alone, how come u missed that wonderful sight? ok will only put it up if u r nice to me , u know how to behave wen a gal wants something from a guy,

big time!!!! wondering how i cld ve missed that!lol how to behave wat do u ve in mind?

I feel peeps who do stuff like that have got issues. , like we are not married. . .so why should you just show up at my place unannounced?

~Borat~:

What do you think about your guy/girl turning up at your house without prior notification?
For some people its no big deal, for others its a No-No.
For me, i think courtesy demands you say you are going to show up at so so and so time cos you are not going to bust me like some P.I.
Some girls are very fond of this "Bad" habit or what do you think?

In a serious relationship? Kini big deal?

Non seriuos sh*t?, no Fu*king way am gonna allow that

Why not, if it is somebody you profess that u love, u gat to live up to ur own end of the bargain. xcept if u've gotten skeletons in ur wardrobe

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