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Re: Ronke Shonde’s Sister Denies Lekan Shonde’s Claims by MzOnajin1(f): 4:11pm On May 11, 2016
Hmmmm, I can't stand physical abuse from any man. dt is d only thing I can't take in marriage. If deres no money sef I can manage but beating is a NO for me

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Re: Ronke Shonde’s Sister Denies Lekan Shonde’s Claims by xynerise(m): 4:12pm On May 11, 2016
Pastors begging the victims to go back to their abusive spouse should also be blamed

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Re: Ronke Shonde’s Sister Denies Lekan Shonde’s Claims by prinsam30(m): 4:12pm On May 11, 2016
queenoflafia:
Na by force to stay married
Have a child or two and enjoy your life
To hell with who ever has problem with that

woman, you mean Contract Marriage
Re: Ronke Shonde’s Sister Denies Lekan Shonde’s Claims by myfantasies(f): 4:13pm On May 11, 2016
If only d dead could talk cry cry

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Re: Ronke Shonde’s Sister Denies Lekan Shonde’s Claims by repogirl(f): 4:14pm On May 11, 2016
Gosh.....it's hard for a woman to just up and leave her children for such an irresponsible husband.

I have a feeling she stayed because of the kids, but in the end, is it worth it?

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Re: Ronke Shonde’s Sister Denies Lekan Shonde’s Claims by HarkymTheOracle(m): 4:15pm On May 11, 2016
Keneking:
10 points undecided is it premier league?
Na La liga o bros grin
Re: Ronke Shonde’s Sister Denies Lekan Shonde’s Claims by bejeria101(m): 4:15pm On May 11, 2016
Let me ask you noise makers a question,if it were the other way round *if she killed her husband* will there be dis much noise? What is wrong is wrong,domestic violence is a no no,it scars everybody,man,woman,kids. Say no to domestic violence nt paying lipservice to it.
Re: Ronke Shonde’s Sister Denies Lekan Shonde’s Claims by Alyna: 4:16pm On May 11, 2016
Lord have mercy!
Re: Ronke Shonde’s Sister Denies Lekan Shonde’s Claims by free2ryhme: 4:17pm On May 11, 2016
queenoflafia:
Na by force to stay married

Have a child or two and enjoy your life

To hell with who ever has problem with that

No-one has problem with your opinion but your mentality
Re: Ronke Shonde’s Sister Denies Lekan Shonde’s Claims by justiz5(m): 4:17pm On May 11, 2016
vorigan:


Fresh revelations from the Bewajis, Lekan Shonde’s in-laws, have rubbished the accounts of the alleged killer of always providing for the family, leaving his two cars for Ronke and catching her philandering with a manager in the packaging company she worked.

Lekan Shonde, 51, was described as an intensely jealous and insecure husband. The Ogun state indegene who surrendered on Monday, May 9, four days after his wife was discovered lifeless in their Egbeda-Idimu apartment on Friday, May 6, is said to be a recklessly violent man.

From the account of Bolatito, the only surviving sibling of Ronke, Lekan’s explanations are far from the truth.

Here are 10 shockers from Bolatito’s interview with Punch…



1. Lekan’s first physical abuse was in 2012. And the most recent was in December 2015, which almost led Ronke packing out of the house. She had agreed to leave, but changed her mind later. The case was even reported to the police.


2.Ronke, whose brother just passed on, was crying while Bolatito, on instructions of their mum, was begging her to leave him, that December 2015.


3. A pastor and landlady on their street begged on behalf of Lekan Shonde. And she stayed, in spite of the warning.


4. The recent source of rancour was a love child brought by his baby mama. The discovery shattered Ronke. And Lekan was pleading and begging, even volunteering to do a DNA test, which he never did.


5. The love child expose turned Ronke into a quieter woman who stopped talking to her husband.


6. Bolatito claimed Ronke never had a relationship outside wedlock. That it was Lekan’s jealousy and insecurity that fueled his suspicion. That the manager mentioned had a professional relationship with Ronke.


7. On many occasions, three other colleagues of Ronke had been accused of dating her. That even male Facebook friends have been embarrsssed by useless accusations.


8. Lekan kept vigil in front of their house to see who would drop his wife. And accuse her of adultery.


9. The children school fees were sometimes paid by the Bewajis, contrary to Lekan’s account of providing for the family. And sometimes rent. That before she died, she was struggling to raise N70,000 to replace the gear box of her car.


10. Lekan constantly went through Ronke’s phones to see if she was cheating. And constantly trailed her to check if she had lovers.

http://encomium.ng/10-fresh-facts-discolour-lekan-shondes-defense-ronkes-sister-debunks-his-claims/
This man is very wicked and a disgrace to manhood, if all these allegations are true.

I therefore withdraw my harsh conclusions and unnecessary venting of anger in the other thread.
cc; fpeter

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Re: Ronke Shonde’s Sister Denies Lekan Shonde’s Claims by Mamatee07: 4:18pm On May 11, 2016
bejeria101:
Let me ask you noise makers a question,if it were the other way round *if she killed her husband* will there be dis much noise? What is wrong is wrong,domestic violence is a no no,it scars everybody,man,woman,kids. Say no to domestic violence nt paying lipservice to it.

Yes there would be, there was a lot o noise when. The female banker.kille her husband. It was all over people's Facebook an social media for wee

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Re: Ronke Shonde’s Sister Denies Lekan Shonde’s Claims by frisky2good(m): 4:19pm On May 11, 2016
Make una allow police work na abi which kind Naija be dis?
Re: Ronke Shonde’s Sister Denies Lekan Shonde’s Claims by haywire07(m): 4:22pm On May 11, 2016
Let's here the man's defense too. I won't side anyone on this (asides the man is a murderer ). Women are really fund of cheating and this can be soooooo painful to any man no matter how stubborn or non-challant you are .

1.The lady dropping the 10points against the man is a relation to the deceased and most definitely has to take sides with d deceased.
Why can't we hear the views of a neutral witness?

2. She doesn't live in the same house with them , so wat makes her think the deceased has been fair in the marriage. Obviously, shes covering up an issue she never witnessed .

Here is my fair pronouncement:: cool cool

Oga, u are a murderer ..You took things too personal though a cheating lady can make u do bad things.

And madam, ur 10points claim is hereby nullified as its obvious u re a false witness and bias in ur accusations.


We hereby await a neutral witness b4 I make the final judgment

cool cool cool cool

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Re: Ronke Shonde’s Sister Denies Lekan Shonde’s Claims by chubbygal(f): 4:22pm On May 11, 2016
SAY NO TO DOMESTIC VIOLENCE.!! Only the kids suffer the most sad

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Re: Ronke Shonde’s Sister Denies Lekan Shonde’s Claims by Vomm: 4:22pm On May 11, 2016
"Gbogbo ohun to sokunkun si eda laye, kedere ni niwaju Olorun"

God understands Everything that seems like mystery to man in lifen even technology can still help us to unravel the. Cause of her death.

Let the police. Conduct an autopsy on her na
Re: Ronke Shonde’s Sister Denies Lekan Shonde’s Claims by HaneefahRN(f): 4:23pm On May 11, 2016
Mamatee07:
So the bastard making noise about his wife supposedly cheating was even cheating on his wife and impregnated another woman angry

Cheats are always the first to rant about cheating sad they always think everyone is like them angry

Amazing how he left out the fact the he committed adultery and impregnated another woman



I knew it. I told one slowpoke, the man is most likely a serial cheat. Most men that cheat anyhow usually project that feeling their wife is also cheating as a defence mechanism for their evil even if it's very clear the woman isn't.

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Re: Ronke Shonde’s Sister Denies Lekan Shonde’s Claims by sindan: 4:24pm On May 11, 2016
queenoflafia:
Na by force to stay married

Have a child or two and enjoy your life

To hell with who ever has problem with that

God bless you dear, I believe the main reason our women remains in abusive marriage is because economy doesn't favor them, Bleep all the abusive men and Bleep culture angry angry

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Re: Ronke Shonde’s Sister Denies Lekan Shonde’s Claims by sweetcocoa(f): 4:24pm On May 11, 2016
I don't know why these so called pastors won't mind their business, a woman is being pummelled and you say she should stay, I don't even know what to say about the women besides that they don't love themselves and children as much as they thought they did, cos if you do, you'd get out and stay alive for them.
Re: Ronke Shonde’s Sister Denies Lekan Shonde’s Claims by cococandy(f): 4:25pm On May 11, 2016
I'm not surprised.
Mamatee07:
So the bastard making noise about his wife supposedly cheating was even cheating on his wife and impregnated another woman angry

Cheats are always the first to rant about cheating sad they always think everyone is like them angry

Amazing how he left out the fact the he committed adultery and impregnated another woman

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Re: Ronke Shonde’s Sister Denies Lekan Shonde’s Claims by titiakins: 4:26pm On May 11, 2016
Of course he killed her
No doubt about that
Cos he keeps contradicting himself

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Re: Ronke Shonde’s Sister Denies Lekan Shonde’s Claims by playtheblues(f): 4:26pm On May 11, 2016
Are we gonna check names or not?

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Re: Ronke Shonde’s Sister Denies Lekan Shonde’s Claims by link2ok(m): 4:27pm On May 11, 2016
Who am I to judge.
Re: Ronke Shonde’s Sister Denies Lekan Shonde’s Claims by leelong(m): 4:27pm On May 11, 2016
LikeJesus:
Age differences probably led to the man's insecurity. Not all men can handle and marry a much younger woman without issues...JEALOUSY. Ladies and gentlemen this should be a lesson to all.
Gbam! Thank u very very much. I thought i was d only one seeing d age gap. That's why i dont advise women to marry men more than . 10 Years older..

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Re: Ronke Shonde’s Sister Denies Lekan Shonde’s Claims by 3rdlegxxx(m): 4:27pm On May 11, 2016
queenoflafia:
Na by force to stay married

Have a child or two and enjoy your life

To hell with who ever has problem with that

babe this one you are reasoning like me, i hope we are not related in a crazy way ooo grin grin grin cool cos i seriously have this thing in my head that Nigerian family, society, media and more put so much pressure on getting married, being married, how long you've been married, check nairaland as a case study, not one day passes without you reading lots of comments from people saying, won't she marry, are mates are married, genevieve is old let her go and marry, marry here, marry there, no one is saying it is wrong but so much emphasis is placed on getting and being married and less is placed on being happy or happily married, i'm sure a lot of people here use to insult Tiwa when she wasn't married that she won't go and marry, all her mates are married, see what she is wearing make she go marry and all that silly dumb comments, when people should be chasing happiness in Nigeria, a lot are chasing marriage and worst still is when women are violated, abused in their marriage, they can't cry out, they can't seek divorce, parents and family would come at them, the society would look down on them, i can imagine how hard it can be for for Nigerian women..... embarassed

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Re: Ronke Shonde’s Sister Denies Lekan Shonde’s Claims by Wesely01(m): 4:28pm On May 11, 2016
queenoflafia:
Na by force to stay married

Have a child or two and enjoy your life

To hell with who ever has problem with that

I'm so happy you a lady, please tell them leave that house if you are not happy don't allow our people (Nigeians) to worry you about what would they say? Now Ronke is dead where is everybody wa come beg

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Re: Ronke Shonde’s Sister Denies Lekan Shonde’s Claims by Stanleywaxy(m): 4:29pm On May 11, 2016
queenoflafia:
Na by force to stay married

Have a child or two and enjoy your life

To hell with who ever has problem with that
And you think the kids won't ask for their Dad someday undecided ...
Think before you comment !
Re: Ronke Shonde’s Sister Denies Lekan Shonde’s Claims by link2ok(m): 4:30pm On May 11, 2016
May the soul of the deceased rest in peace

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Re: Ronke Shonde’s Sister Denies Lekan Shonde’s Claims by Peacetemi: 4:31pm On May 11, 2016
queenoflafia:
Na by force to stay married

Have a child or two and enjoy your life

To hell with who ever has problem with that
They'll never listen, I hope all the 'go and marry' crew are reading. Never stay in an abusive relationship. Please if you're in one GET OUT. Violent people dont change, dont risk your life.

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Re: Ronke Shonde’s Sister Denies Lekan Shonde’s Claims by 3rdlegxxx(m): 4:32pm On May 11, 2016
chubbygal:
SAY NO TO DOMESTIC VIOLENCE.!! Only the kids suffer the most sad

can't believe i stayed close to a minute looking at this picture, even tho i am a guy, i am really really against beating and being abusive, they are better ways to deal with a woman if she really angers a man, babe that picture is so sad jur, with the little also crying, shiit touched me.. embarassed angry

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Re: Ronke Shonde’s Sister Denies Lekan Shonde’s Claims by Mamatee07: 4:32pm On May 11, 2016
justiz5:

This man is very wicked and a disgrace to manhood, if all these allegations are true.

I therefore withdraw my harsh conclusions and unnecessary venting of anger in the other thread.
cc; fpeter

That is why it's always best to listen to the other side first. You don't expect him to come out and say he killed his wife Even if he was caught right in the act he would still deny it.

He played the slut shaming card because he knows t typical Nigerian will say she deserved it if he says she was cheating an they would pity him angry

You lot never ask if the man himself was cheating angry

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Re: Ronke Shonde’s Sister Denies Lekan Shonde’s Claims by Mikylopez(f): 4:37pm On May 11, 2016
lord knows i can't fake a smile if am nt happy with were i am or who am with i'll jes walk away....dz reminds me of a woman in ma area everyday she comes out with scars all over if shez nt wearing glasses shez wearin turtle neck with long sleeve..lord save me from beasts who cakl demselves men

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Re: Ronke Shonde’s Sister Denies Lekan Shonde’s Claims by JustCurious: 4:53pm On May 11, 2016
So unfortunate that the dead have no second chance.

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