Great wise people of NL, I need you to weigh in on this on-going discussion. We were deadlocked yesterday on this topic and I need your input and info.

1. Will you marry a 40yr old virgin who never had a boyfriend before if she's a good woman and has a job?

2. What will be your worries about her (if any), the advantages and disadvantages of marrying such a person.?

even the dullest from the city of the dullards will know there is something behind it.
haba,40 yrs and not even a boyfriend before ? tufiakwa

She has hiv...

Cutehector:
She has hiv...

No she doesn't ....the said girl that triggered the discussion was born in a very religious family and that affected and influenced her.

bigheart2013:


No she doesn't ....the said girl that triggered the discussion was born in a very religious family and that affected and influenced her.

her problem... not mine. It's a personal decision to stay a virgin or nad.. not minding if the father or mother is the general overseer of a church.. so na ha problem... if she ready to do, make she get sugarboy

I will ask her certain and several questions, before making a lifetime decision.
I will pray over it and I must do the Koko before going ahead with the marriage. Doing that is part of certain things I have to know.

IF YOU CAN DEAL WITH her emotional BS....not just virginity.... punkyv what say you?

Without a doubt, if I'm 60 or 70 years old.

There is no such thing. Find out if she attended an all girls school. In my experience they are mostly lesbians who after many years of sucking other womens pussys now want to settle down due to societal pressures. I strongly advice against marrying such.

If I were 50 and above why not?