jay bee:

and why do u wanna hold a guy down? don't you think it should be the other way round?
your mentality will most probably lead you to appearing like a desperado and in turn him or potentials treating you like shyte.
love yourself and the right man will do the holding the down babes.

I just wondered if there is something other girls do that I am not doing. I want to find out how some girls can date a guy for years. I am not bad looking, I am a graduate with a good job but I can't seem to hold on to any guy for long.
But from various contributions above I can see that I have been too eager to please. I am a very nice person but maybe I am too nice.

CyberG:

@Poster. . .this post ^^^^^ is BS. . . the sure way to failure. . .she is propagating the "the loser theorem".

Gabry's suggestion is right on the money. . .but it's your choice.

You want it too cheap

07031001670 is my no. just want to love. maybe we can hook up. i'm i lagos. beep me sometime. all the best hbabe.

jay bee:

and why do u wanna hold a guy down? don't you think it should be the other way round?
your mentality will most probably lead you to appearing like a desperado and in turn him or potentials treating you like shyte.
love yourself and the right man will do the holding the down babes.

True talk!

@Hbabe
Contact me b4 choosing from among the finalists.Make sure u do oooooo, VERY IMPORTANT Stuff 4u. michael.philips@rocketmail.com

@hbabe

I have just a few words for you: "Men reason logically; women reason emotionally. Men think; women feel." That's the key to any "secret key(s) you may desire to know (or maybe, learn from me? That is if you beg hard enough!)

I don't really expect you to get it, but if you did; you're SMART!

Hope we get to chat sometime. Don't forget to remind me about this issue. I'll gladly answer you (with an OPEN heart!  )

hbabe,

I think he dumped you because you show some dyslexia or metal dysfuntion. Erratic women like you with too many mode switching will kill a man.

You online the first time and said you can only come thru sucking or?/// The second time you appeared to say you were a virgin and will stay same till married.

Here again you come saying you were dumped and you want to hold a man down. All this shows u have a problem with wht you want. May be you are selfish, the type that wants to recieve without giving.

All men want in a woman is sex by nature, if you starve them for a good purpose, then have a way to make it up. If a man spends his hard money on u 4 nothing then he has got to seek ansrs.

Pls check your decisions out and be a bit more stable

@h-babe,
Absurd as it might sound,the simplest trick u need to know bout keepin' a guy is by being nice to him.U know,meeting his needs,respecting his feelings and being nice to his friends & families!

sweetie u cnt hold a guy down,he'll stay if he wants to.

divagold:

sweetie u cnt hold a guy down,he'll stay if he wants to.

I was goin' to disagree wif u,but then i considered it n u may be just right. But still,it doesn't hurt bein' nice cos d chances he'll stay is better than wen u're not nice,don't u think?

sm guys just cnt be pleased,ur being nice dosent make his stickin wit u certain.

divagold:

sm guys just cnt be pleased,your being nice dosent make his stickin wit u certain.

Some guy right?My point exactly! Bottom line is: It is better to be nice!

hbabe:

Thanks.

@ Topup
I will note your points in my next r/s

@Opuro
No way! I am not spending my hard earned money any guy.

@Hbabe: U can't spend ur hard earned money on a guy BUT u expect a guy to spend his hard earned money on u?....

I would never try to keep a man that don't want to be kept.

MoneyRule:
Get pregnant 4 him, dat ought to hold him down.

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xqwysyte:
@ Poster

Swallow his cum

Damn girl.

Princess1982:
I would never try to keep a man that don't want to be kept.

Princess I want to be kept, come keep me close to you even if na inside your handbag I go stay.

MoneyRule:
Get pregnant 4 him, dat ought to hold him down.

if she likes let her have twins for him.it won't hold him down