A 44-year-old businesswoman, Adenike Rodoye,
has lost her 20-year-old marriage to her
husband, Durojaiye, because she was always
tearing his boxers so as to rape him.
“My wife has turned my boxers into rags as she
always tears them to rape me,” he told an
Igando customary court in Lagos State during
the week.
President of the court, Mr Adegboyega Omilola,
after he had listened to the couple, said that he
was convinced that they could no longer live
together as husband and wife.
Omilola said that he had to dissolve the union
after the petitioner had insisted on the divorce.
The president added that several interventions
made by him to reconcile them were futile.
“This court has no choice but to dissolve the
union in spite of the fact that the wife still claims
she loves her husband.
“Both parties are no longer husband and wife, as
the marriage has broken down totally, they are
free to go their separate ways,” Omilola ruled
Earlier, the 56-year-old-petitioner, Durojaiye,
alleged that his wife was always threatening his
life through beating and that he was afraid she
might kill him one day.
“I had to run away from my 22-flat building to
rent an apartment elsewhere just to avoid her
frequent beatings, but she trailed me to my new
apartment to fight me.
“I had reported her in the past to different police
stations, but it did not yield any positive result,”
he said.
Durojaiye, a pensioner, also alleged that his wife
poured hot water on the new wife his family
married for him from the village.
He begged the court to end their 20-year-old
marriage, saying he was no longer in love with
his wife, whose actions had continued to
endanger his life.
“Please, separate us before my wife kills me, my
life is not safe with her, I am a pensioner, I need
to enjoy the fruits of my labour,” he said.
However, the wife, Mrs Adenike Rodoye, 44, a
businesswoman, denied all the allegations
levelled against her by her husband.
She alleged that her husband was a womaniser.
“My husband runs after anything in skirt; he
always sends me packing from the house
whenever he wants to bring in another woman.
“He once sent me out with the children for three
years.
“After sending me out, he had married six
different women, but none stayed long with him.
He was always begging me to return to my
matrimonial home later,” she said.
The mother of five said she never raped her
husband, adding that it was normal for husband
and wife to make love.
The respondent also denied ever beating up her
husband but alleged that her husband was
always beating her.
Adenike said that her husband removed the
plasma television set, the air conditioner and
disconnected the electricity supply from her flat,
leaving her and the children in darkness.
She said that Durojaiye also fought with her
pastor on several occasions and even arrested
him with police.
Adenike said that the development led the
church’s leadership to ban her from worshipping
there.
http://tribuneonlineng.com/she-used-to-tear-my-boxers-before-raping-me-—husband

wow .....woman rape man?na wa oo

This is the wild wild world

I believe the woman side of the story..

Blackfire:
I believe the woman side of the story..

All these our judges need to excersice restrain;disolving a marriage of 20 years is like destroying a ten story building to its foundation.Homes are cracking and children are the most had hit and many women

So mr judge dissolve the marriage so that the man wil look 4 fresh skin while the other kids wil be in a broken home

marriage no be by force! bet y tear hin boxer na

Marriage;marriage.The wedding day is always full of excitement but then after is always another story .Lalasticlala ,ishilove and Dominigue

iwaeda:


All these our judges need to excersice restrain;disolving a marriage of 20 years is like destroying a ten story building to its foundation.Homes are cracking and children are the most had hit and many women

most of us are confused, we ve used our wife as f-uc'k mate vice versa.

Marriage is not for mummy's boy or chewing gum girl.

Blackfire:



most of us are confused, we ve used our wife as f-uc'k mate vice versa.

Marriage is not for mummy's boy or chewing gum girl.

Many of us dont really understand what marriage is all about.

Eleyi gidi gan o. The man may be telling the truth. Men also suffers from domestic violence.

montezz:
Eleyi gidi gan o. The man may be telling the truth. Men also suffers from domestic violence.

Very possible,I have seen men molested in marriages too,beaten,abused and even tied to bedstakes

iwaeda:


Many of us dont really understand what marriage is all about.

we allow people who hate that institution of marriage dictate to us..

Me i have vowed any day i find someone i love and love me back... Am going to hold on till the end.

Blackfire:



we allow people who hate that institution of marriage dictate to us..

Me i have vowed any day i find someone i love and love me back... Am going to hold on till the end.

Marriage is a scared institution, God will help us to be tolerant of others