kevin25:
A guy in my neighborhood was dating a girl for a long time, I knew them as the best couple. The guy doesn't joke with anything that concerns the girl affair.

Today being June 11, this particular girl is getting married to one guy like that and the worst part is that not only that she breaks the guy's heart but she didn't let the guy know about her marriage plans Till today.

The guy in quote is very unhappy and was calculating how much he has spent on the girl since they started, not that he has a lot but he is trying his best to use the little money he has at his disposal to solve the girl's needs whenever they arise, no matter how big or small just to show the girl that he really lovers her.

I felt so bad for the guy but on a second thought I ask my self what is the need for dating? why do girls pretend they love you just to be with you for a while just to gain something from you and most of them know that they can't be with you for long still they persist on staying, by so doing l, they end up chasing away those that has the intention of staying with you forever..

Everyday is a lesson I have learnt my own today...I hope your learnt yours, is better to define any relationship to avoid the stories that touches the heart.. Define it so that you don't spend your hard earn money on a girl that doesn't value it..spend because you have not because your thinking that the girl will be your future wife where as she sees you as an ordinary friend..if you don't have, don't try so hard to impress because no matter what you do on this earth, you can never impress a girl...

krismars:


Abeg which heart ?

ronald4lif:
Well, sh1t happens. Guys shouldn't spend more than they can afford or forgo when dating, so they don't feel cheated when things like this happens. My rule is not to get overly attached to any woman, just enjoy the moment while it last and if she leaves her loss not mine.

Florblu:
Guys have taught ladies more hard lesson than this yet mount everest didn't fall now you want the wall of Jericho to fall down flat cos of your male counterpart.Oga swerve

jboy73:
Ab0ki sit down.

Even guys are like that... It happens everywhere in the world... Your friend should move on with His unplanned life.

Haven't you heard of cases where guy dump their 10years sweetheart to marry one village bimbo their mother recommended for them?

I repeat... Go and sit down.

histemple:
Fear them

bakynes:

No way you wont attach yourself to a woman if you date her for long.

Trina0936:

They are all hypocrites my dear! Money that can be earned again? Mtchewwww. Even God loves a cheerful giver and we all know he didn't mean sex!

sinaj:
Chai! Money wey ur frnd for u start business finish for woman head

It hurts tho.

Loosing d one u love to someone else.

Serzly it's better u define ur reltnshp to reduce d risk.


Ur frnd shud take heart, daz xperience for him

kevin25:
A guy in my neighborhoodl...

NevetsIbot:
honestly... Spending on a girl while dating is one of the biggest folly a man can make in his life even if you're financially stable. You aren't married yet. Tell your friend to wake up.... That gold digging biatch is gone. Let him focus on cash now. He should think about making flows of income. he should improve his life rada than lamenting

olami100:


it is a pity u have this mindset!! you are generalizing it as if what the girl did was right!! which means you can do the same? what amaze me is the way you use scripture to ur advantage ... some ladies sha!!!

ournaijablog:
its vice versa dear, while I do not encourage it I think its now a norm amongst people in a relationship to always have spare tyre

youmour:
Somebody shout hallelujah,im so glad the lord has opened your eyes to see the way of the world,unlike you i experienced mine first hand,though she didnt eat my money per say,cos i collect steady "if you know what i mean".

nwabuwa:

U ve a different definition of that collect.. That thing wey dey sweet u chee e no dey sweet her.. Abeg u lost...