bakynes:
You are right abt the " No matter how much you spend on a girl she will still say you havent done anything" I think they think because they give us Sex they are doing us a favour. Thats why i dont know the difference between them and prostitutes. The money you spend on them have expiry date. They wont spend their money to buy you a little gift all is to collect and give sex. Your own money is our money, theirs is my money. All the money na on top cloth, makeup and weave-on. Shameless species.

Minemrys:

would u take back a guy wholly if he told u he was managing u? No matter what u said to him? In fact u can't take him back if he just told u, u were an ugly bitch. Gals should stop playing the victim when the truth's obvious. U can't tell s0me0ne u claim to love, u're just managing the pers0n. U inadvertently c0mpared the pers0n to a thing which is equivalent to nothing.

12go:
Mr. Taiwo, bobo for the girls. You are feeling like a demi-god because she took care of her. A mature person will know how to handle this better and know that women will not always speak palatable words to you. You have to learn to forgive and let somethings go as this is one of such.

eiBADAn:
Guy, well said. If you do 99 things for a girl, it's the one thing you didn't that she would remember. If I make 300k a month, her personal budget is already over half of it and when there's an argument, she remembers one stupid thing I didn't buy or get for her, I'm talking about my gf. What do I do in my own case? She's not working cuz she's still searching. Let's assume I have 700k now, her budget would be 450k when I finish calculating expenses. She would do hair, change nails, buy makeup, but expensive creams, buy new clothes even tho she just bought few weeks back. She wants to send money to her mom, to her sister, to her brother. She's owing her friend, she has to pay. I do all these and the smallest argument we have, she would suddenly remember one stupid thing I didn't buy for her. How long do I keep up with these. O ti su mi o.

eiBADAn:


Honestly, there is no lie in all I said. I'm not trying to brag, but my dad is a billionaire and she knows this. I'm currently planning to leave the country to further my studies for the benefits of the family company. I had to apply for a visa for her which was refused. A blessing in disguise I must say. Now she wants me to try again. I have dropped her sisters CV with my dad tho he doesn't know them. She wants me to buy her brother a phone. Also my expensive wristwatch she wants me to dash her brother. Some times when we argue, she would be like, don't forget we are not married o. That got me thinking a lot. I talk to her mom so I don't know how to dump her without much hassles. I have a very soft heart which she's capitalizing on. I love and I'm sad as I'm typing this. I don't know what to do.

queencalipso:
But you just said you guys were having an argument when she said the word. Didn't you say hurtful things to her too? And to think you even insulted her first. If you can't take her back wholly please let her go.

You are here now forming boss because she came to beg you without considering the hurtful things you said to her too that made her say those words to you.

Oahray:
Sorry to say, I think you are a cry baby. You insulted her and she retaliated, and you are wailing over it.

Thing is, verbal exchanges in the heat of anger are like punches - they are meant to hurt the other person. You tried to hurt her with your insults, and she tried to hurt you with hers. If you can insult the girl you love, why can't she tell you she's managing you? All is fair in war.

At least you now know whose punch dealt more damage. See pieces of your ego on the floor.

The fact that you provide for a girl doesn't give you the right to insult her as you please. If you do, it's foolish to expect her not to retaliate. At least she realized that it was wrong of her to say stuff in anger. But that makes just one of you.

NoBrake:


Lol, ugly galfrnd u gat and u r so obsessed with her Chai! I pity ur life

Minemrys:

would u take back a guy wholly if he told u he was managing u? No matter what u said to him? In fact u can't take him back if he just told u, u were an ugly bitch. Gals should stop playing the victim when the truth's obvious. U can't tell s0me0ne u claim to love, u're just managing the pers0n. U inadvertently c0mpared the pers0n to a thing which is equivalent to nothing.

Babzilla:


Hahahaha. D guy turn Simon Peter sharply begin deny the babe. I sure say d còck don crow tire

Oksman:
@queencalipso words are like eggs dropped from a height once released, i guess you know the outcome. The power of life and death belongs to the tongue, hence,watch what you say tnx and remain blessed.

Babzilla:


Hahahaha. D guy turn Simon Peter sharply begin deny the babe. I sure say d còck don crow tire

bqlekan:
*In one direction voice* The story of my life.................

yes! you tushed her up, spent on her. so? somethings should be personal.

NoBrake:



Him dun sharpely change the pix lmaooo

Babzilla:

Hahahahaha bros U wicked sha see as U corner d bros so tey him change pishure sharply Next na to go dey para for the poor girl She go dey wonder who ves lover boy

izaray:
Op, learn how to forgive and forget, she loves you which u had mentioned earlier!! They is no relationship that is perfect, even the married couples have their short-comings! But it all depends on how u handle it.

If u keeps taking things like this so serious in a mere relationship, then how about when u are married Dnt tell me you are the kind of husband that forgives his wife in a family meetings and still denies her food when he gets to the house !!!

Secondly, use this opportunity to correct/or that thing you know she has been doing that you don't like!! Being in a r/ship is supposed to be a thing of joy & Pleasure, mostly when the people involved are both in love with each other!!

So, wake-up guy and safe urself the stress!! No offense brh

Babzilla:


Hahahahaha
bros U wicked sha see as U corner d bros
so tey him change pishure sharply
Next na to go dey para for the poor girl
She go dey wonder who ves lover boy

alexistaiwo:
My girlfriend and I got into a hot argument last month which degenerated into a break up. During the argument, lots of hurtful words were exchanged but she made the fatal error of saying that she is managing me. This is a girl that I literally 'toshed up' and I had provided all her needs from 2014 we started dating up to that point.
Two weeks later, she came back begging to be accepted back. she said she said those words out of provocation since I was the one that insulted her first. As a sure guy, I accepted her back but made a promise to my self that I will never spend a substantial amount of my money on her again since it seems that she is the ungrateful type.
Her love for me isn't in doubt but guys wise up. Don't go bankrupt because of a girl, at the end of the day she will say that you haven't done anything.

alexistaiwo:
My girlfriend and I got into a hot argument last month which degenerated into a break up. During the argument, lots of hurtful words were exchanged but she made the fatal error of saying that she is managing me. This is a girl that I literally 'toshed up' and I had provided all her needs from 2014 we started dating up to that point.
Two weeks later, she came back begging to be accepted back. she said she said those words out of provocation since I was the one that insulted her first. As a sure guy, I accepted her back but made a promise to my self that I will never spend a substantial amount of my money on her again since it seems that she is the ungrateful type.
Her love for me isn't in doubt but guys wise up. Don't go bankrupt because of a girl, at the end of the day she will say that you haven't done anything.

alexistaiwo:

lolz. am just here laffing at you and the other guy. amateur trolls. so it is a crime to share my account with a platonic female friend. kids of nowadays. SMH

izaray:
Op, learn how to forgive and forget, she loves you which u had mentioned earlier!! They is no relationship that is perfect, even the married couples have their short-comings! But it all depends on how u handle it.

If u keeps taking things like this so serious in a mere relationship, then how about when u are married Dnt tell me you are the kind of husband that forgives his wife in a family meetings and still denies her food when he gets to the house !!!

Secondly, use this opportunity to correct/or that thing you know she has been doing that you don't like!! Being in a r/ship is supposed to be a thing of joy & Pleasure, mostly when the people involved are both in love with each other!!

So, wake-up guy and safe urself the stress!! No offense brh

Oahray:
mere relationship? Are you serious right now?

izaray:
My dear, it's only d married once that knows the meaning of that word!!

queencalipso:

Worse was said to me honey. But you know what? I didn't take him back because every time I look at him I can't help but remember thsoe words; i was sincere to him about it. Because I couldn't accept him wholly, I didn't bother accepting him back. That's my point. Anything worth doing is what doing well. If he can't take her back wholly, he should be sincere to her and let her go.

eiBADAn:


Honestly, there is no lie in all I said. I'm not trying to brag, but my dad is a billionaire and she knows this. I'm currently planning to leave the country to further my studies for the benefits of the family company. I had to apply for a visa for her which was refused. A blessing in disguise I must say. Now she wants me to try again. I have dropped her sisters CV with my dad tho he doesn't know them. She wants me to buy her brother a phone. Also my expensive wristwatch she wants me to dash her brother. Some times when we argue, she would be like, don't forget we are not married o. That got me thinking a lot. I talk to her mom so I don't know how to dump her without much hassles. I have a very soft heart which she's capitalizing on. I love and I'm sad as I'm typing this. I don't know what to do.