Hello nlanders,,hapy sunday,,,heres my present ordeal,,,im from a catholic family,,a strong one @dat,,but towards d 1st quarter of 2015,,i left d catholic church for a pentecostal bible believing church for personal reasons best known to me(my reasons r numerous,,dnt want arguments and bashings),,,my parents r not happy about this developmnt tho,,they tried evrythn 2 change my mind but I stood my ground telln dem dat iv made my decision and ill bear watevr consequences dat it brings,,alright fastfoward to 2016,,met a girl I really liked,,approached her and we began to date,,a serious relationship began bwn us,,,now d issue is,,shes from a catholic family too and her parents r knights too,,,from my experience in d catholic church,,d kids of knights are not allowed to marry anybody except they're catholics,,,we really love each other and wer planning to walk the aisle v.soon but she keeps crying and urging me to leave my present church and go bak to catholic,,i told her I cant,,that if I can go against my parents wish,,no one else can stop me,,im just confused,,should I go on with the r.ship or look for someone else,,need ur advice,,,,,,,mods,,,lalasticlala FP

You are a very confused human being...

You are the cause of your problem. Please change back to Catholic and stop bugging us.

LOool,,,well tnks 4 ur advice,,,u may not see it the way I c it,,,i ain't confused and I ain't bugging anyone,,,,some ppl wld advice I move on since I dnt agree with the catholic faith,,its all gud,,tnks tho

Lol...it will seem very childish if you now go back to a catholic church,as in people go laff u telling u "na because woman carry u come baq church wey u don abandon"...except you are ready for this,just stay baq in ya present church..

kunlesufyan:
Lol...it will seem very childish if you now go back to a catholic church,as in people go laff u telling u "na because woman carry u come baq church wey u don abandon"...except you are ready for this,just stay baq in ya present church..

yea,,,she has to reason with me,,,tanx bro

Ppl should go beyond church tradition and focus on the weightier matters of the 'law'

Why let a flawed religion get in the way of your happiness?

Well, see it as choosing between her and your faith. but to me oh, true love ain't easy to find so i'll say go back to catholic, marry her, then you both return to your pentecostal. God go understand

Here's what to do




Change to catholic and once you marry their daughter return to your church





Problem solved

If you love the lady as much as you claim you do, then a small thing such as religion wouldn't be much of an obstacle. People have made GREATER sacrifices in the name of love. The choice is yours.

You see the couple below? His name is Edward the 8th. He was the heir to the British throne & was literally just about to be king (preparations were taking place) when he had to give up his BIRTH RIGHT to marry the woman he loves, Wallis. Because the laws of that time wouldn't allow a royal to marry a "commoner". A twice divorced commoner at that. It turned out to be the biggest mistake he ever made though because she treated him like trash throughout their marriage, but that's a story for another day What matters is that they remained married until the end because he truly loved her.