I am a corp member and I have a fiancee that I love and she loves me too.we hv been dating for like a year now.we only romance and kiss no sex.2months ago she told me that we should stop the romance and kiss till marriage. she is suppose to visit me at my place but she now told me that she will not b sleeping at my place but at their family house which I know.Although she told me that she told her mum abt her journey to my place and her mum accepted. my question is that was it her mum that told her to stay at the family house or she intended to abstain from me because of romance and other sexual tins.am confused

SO WHAT KIND OF ADVICE DO YOU NEED?

FlawlesRebirth02:
SO WHAT KIND OF ADVICE DO YOU NEED?

whether the no sex and romance thing is to fool me or she is sincere with it because she knows am a virgin

Break up with her and live4christ just as your moniker says

if u love her,why not be patient till marriage. and ask her for her reasons

Don't be a mugu.

If she is not a virgin, she's playing you for a fool.

If she isn't a virgin, you can take it to the bank that she is screwing other guys.

Sex or you walk.

BuddhaPalm:
Don't be a mugu.
If she is not a virgin, she's playing you for a fool.
If she isn't a virgin, you can take it to the bank that she is screwing other guys.
Sex or you walk.

Don't have this mind set concerning women it's bad for the brains biko.

OP don't mind him oh. Sex before marriage is wrong and that u know. so come to an agreement with her and see reasons with her. she not having sex with you doesn't mean she's fooling around. if you love her, then wait for marriage.

Abi u wan do come disappoint her later?

i wonder how old you are now as a copper talking about fiance and marriage,if you love kissing and ssex, forget this girl and date the girls that are willing to do things like that, focus on how to arrange your money track, marrige shouldn't come first, no offence bro

Nawa o, is this even an issue

You guys get so attached to women, overrate sex, so they can dictate and play mind games with you. Its obvious you want to get laid so bad. If shes refusing, get it somewhere else. Otherwise, respect her decision.

live4christ:
whether the no sex and romance thing is to fool me or she is sincere with it because she knows am a virgin

y wld u even tel a lady dat ur a virgin

op..isit not clear to you that she is playing on you.. don't be the nice guy that she can control.. instead give her your own terms of the relationship the way you want it to go..


imagine.. u guys are dating.. no romance just kiss.. she is definateltly fvcking outside and she's fed up with your nice and "Yes madame" being.. you're the man for crying out loud.. u have the D.. not her... start taking control of the relationship cos it seems she's the one controling it. ..cheers

one advice thou..

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BuddhaPalm:
Don't be a mugu.

If she is not a virgin, she's playing you for a fool.

If she isn't a virgin, you can take it to the bank that she is screwing other guys.

Sex or you walk.

Na so you like sex ehn bros.

NLjona:
op..isit not clear to you that she is playing on you.. don't be the nice guy that she can control.. instead give her your own terms of the relationship the way you want it to go..


imagine.. u guys are dating.. no romance just kiss.. she is definateltly fvcking outside and she's fed up with your nice and "Yes madame" being.. you're the man for crying out loud.. u have the D.. not her... start taking control of the relationship cos it seems she's the one controling it. ..cheers

one advice thou..

NEVER






TRUST






GIRLS!!!
#TeamPlayboys!!!

even tou I don't like the play boy tins.but I hv sieved ur advice n taken wat I need.u r on point