Why do men not call when they say they are
going to? Let us go over the possible reasons for
this, as I know how men's minds' often work.

There are lots to learn from each, so let us
see which ones ring true for you, And while you're reading each of these,
see if you can figure out what each one of these
situations has in common.

Why Men Don't Call: Situation #1
Some men are too immature to be honest and
straight-forward with a woman. Sometimes men are just being dumb
and giving themselves ego strokes by flirting with you,
even though they never really thought they'd call.

But they get your number anyway to feel
good and to have it "just in case" they got some
random urge or reason to call you in the future.

Plus, getting a woman's number is a kind of
"trophy" to show to other immature men.


Why Men Don't Call: Situation #2

They were just looking for a hook-up, and you
weren't "fling" material (which is a good thing,
unless that is all you are looking for).

Often times, men think they just want a woman
to be "physical" with. If you are out at a club or a bar and you meet
a man, often times he will have "hooking up" on his mind.

Right!?

If you meet a guy like this and, in his eyes,
You are the girl he would like to bring home to mom, then
you might not be the girl he will want to spend his
time with, at least for the near future.

But in spite of this, he takes your number, in
case he gets the crazy foreign idea in his head
that he would actually want a great girl for a real relationship.

And guess what?
He does not come to that realization for a
very long time - so he doesn't call.

I am not saying it makes sense, but that is how
some men operate. And in a strange way, men who do this are doing
you a favor at that time in their life.

The timing wasn't right.

Why Men Don't Call: Situation #3

They thought they were being "polite" by
getting your number, even though they never felt like calling.

Have you ever given your number to a man who
asked for it, meanwhile you were already dreading
his call and wishing inside that you had given
him a fake number?

Exactly, And I know it sucks to think about this, but
have you ever thought that the tables could be turned?
You see, if men enjoy their conversations with
you but are not that interested, they sometimes
feel a polite "obligation" to get your number.

It is a kind of way to end the interaction on a
positive note, even though they never really
thought about if they intended to call you.

I know it sucks, but men are not often up front and assertive
either when it comes to the opposite sex.

Why Men Don't Call: Situation #4

They were interested in you at first, but
after a little while they started to feel like
something was "off", maybe even after they got
your number.

And while you were trying so hard to create
random reasons for you to see each other again,
and to not have a guy get your number and not call
again, they could sense your subtle fear and discomfort.

And so the attraction and connection they had
just started feeling and had turned into with you
changed and was "broken."

Why Men Don't Call: Situation #5
They lost your number or forgot to call.

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Very good!!

true yarn!

good one man I so needed to know some reasons
behind this

rokky u don't need those rules

what am I suppose to do kiss you also? lol just
kidding

the wink is just fine

Wouldnt it just be better to not just take the number at all? Gosh Im so hating men right now.

there could be a bet

Ebonyeyes:

Wouldnt it just be better to not just take the number at all? Gosh Im so hating men right now.

why now

it happened to me two days ago with a friends cousin,and i know rite now dat the girl will be wondering what manner of guy i was.but i was only trying to be nice or the word friendly.nothing else in mind.well reading this now,will proceed in giving her a call b4 she begins to hate me,lol or look down on her self.she is cute n well figured bt cant just figure why i didn't call.perhaps no credit to waste.sorry fellas. just doing wat makes me happy as a friend told me today,"do wat ever makes u happy no matter what". 4 those who saw my previous thread,u will know wat am talking abt.tired of runaways n back girls.

candylips:

why now

Sorry babes just been having bad experiences with them,

scemchee:

it happened to me two days ago with a friends cousin,and i know rite now dat the girl will be wondering what manner of guy i was.but i was only trying to be nice or the word friendly.nothing else in mind.well reading this now,will proceed in giving her a call b4 she begins to hate me,lol or look down on her self.she is cute n well figured bt cant just figure why i didn't call.perhaps no credit to waste.sorry fellas. just doing wat makes me happy as a friend told me today,"do wat ever makes u happy no matter what". 4 those who saw my previous thread,u will know wat am talking abt.tired of runaways n back girls.

You better call her Poor thing will be wondering what happened,

Ebonyeyes:

Sorry babes just been having bad experiences with them,

eyaaah pele

interesting

Your number simply got binned straight after the second stage (elimination stage)

Reason number 1 should be


He met you, he liked you but he hasn't called you as he has a girlfriend.

In that situation he shouldn't really ask for or accept your number though but some men do.

Yumi:

Reason number 1 should be


He met you, he liked you but he hasn't called you as he has a girlfriend.

In that situation he shouldn't really ask for or accept your number though but some men do.

wrong assumption . If he has a GF and obviously willing to cheat on her then i don't see anything stopping him from taking it further.

simple they no get credit

jay bee:

wrong assumption . If he has a GF and obviously willing to cheat on her then i don't see anything stopping him from taking it further.

Yep but some men get hit by their conscience mid way and then just don't call as they really can't cheat on their girlfriend.

iice:

I'd rather they don't call
Just be bombarding pesin

U sure abt dat?
why give them your number when you obviously wish they don't call? hmmmmmmm

One  and the most probable reason is that men often realize that the babe whose number was collected might be a PREDATOR

u really got issues but am afraid ur 1st point is true

McDoe:

One  and the most probable reason is that men often realize that the babe whose number was collected might be a PREDATOR

Hilarious isn't that what men usually are?

stupid rules

Not exactly true. pls do more research.

Ok