hello Nlanders pls I need help n if possible suggestions, I had unprotected sex with my girlfriend yesterday n I even went to the extent of releasing inside of her, but the problem is that since den she has refuse to take the post pills I bought for her, am scared of her getting pregnant cus am not yet ready to father a child n d worst is that she told me today that if I leave her that she is going to kill me n kill herself n
she meant every single word she said.

Zealoy:
hello Nlanders pls I need help n if possible suggestions, I had unprotected sex with my girlfriend yesterday n I even went to the extent of releasing inside of her, but the problem is that since den she has refuse to take the post pills I bought for her, am scared of her getting pregnant cus am not yet ready to father a child n d worst is that she told me today that if I leave her that she is going to kill me n kill herself n
she meant every single word she said.

you were not ready for a child but am sure you were fully ready and charged up before the sex. You can't eat your cake and have it.

Op I'm so happy for you. Congratulations in advance papa ejima!

Zealoy:
hello Nlanders pls I need help n if possible suggestions, I had unprotected sex with my girlfriend yesterday n I even went to the extent of releasing inside of her, but the problem is that since den she has refuse to take the post pills I bought for her, am scared of her getting pregnant cus am not yet ready to father a child n d worst is that she told me today that if I leave her that she is going to kill me n kill herself n
she meant every single word she said.

U know what I love abt U?

1. U are not ready to be a father
2. U had unprotected sex with her
3. U went as far as releasing inside her
4. U are AFRAID SHE WILL KILL U!

Pls Sir, start buying baby things now!! Otherwise consult a lawyer to prepare ur will cos the lady U ar messing with IS NOT INTERESTED IN BOY/GIRL FRIEND POO BUT MARRIAGE!!!

Op, you have seen how sweet it is to release inside a girl's virgina without wearing condoms abi......ahhhhhhhhhhh


you've done the exam now,lets wait for the result.




and meanwhile,i don't eat moimoi in naming ceremony ooooo
I manage rice when I can't get semo or iyan.

Rewind the time, go back and wear condom

you shoulda pee-ed inside her immediately.. She wouldn't get pregnant..

Dezolo:
you shoulda pee-ed inside her immediately.. She wouldn't get pregnant..

will that work?

Sese2:
will that work?

yes.. It'll make the vagina more saline, kill the sperm immediately



But the girl will have to take shots later.. She might catch a weird infection.. But, better than pregnancy huh?

Congrat man
Invite me after nine month, make i come take zobo and bums

Dezolo:
you shoulda pee-ed inside her immediately.. She wouldn't get pregnant..

PEE ?
A man who bed-wets went to see a psychiatrist.
PSYCHIATRIST: Does a dream usually precede your bed-wetting? Tell me how it happens.
MAN: A little demon appears to me in my sleep and says, "Oya, let us pee". Then, I wake up to see the bed wet with my urine.
PSYCHIATRIST: This is what you must do. If the demon comes tonight and tells you "let us pee", just reply him that you have already peed.
The man left and returned the following day with tears streaming down his face.
PSYCHIATRIST: Why are you weeping? Didn't my therapy work?
MAN: Walahi, you have worsened my case!
PSYCHIATRIST: What? How?
MAN: When the demon came, I told him I'd already peed. Then he said, "Oya, let us shit!"

Dezolo:
yes.. It'll make the vagina more saline, kill the sperm immediately



But the girl will have to take shots later.. She might catch a weird infection.. But, better than pregnancy huh?

How do you know all this

faaz24:

PEE ?
A man who bed-wets went to see a psychiatrist.
PSYCHIATRIST: Does a dream usually precede your bed-wetting? Tell me how it happens.
MAN: A little demon appears to me in my sleep and says, "Oya, let us pee". Then, I wake up to see the bed wet with my urine.
PSYCHIATRIST: This is what you must do. If the demon comes tonight and tells you "let us pee", just reply him that you have already peed.
The man left and returned the following day with tears streaming down his face.
PSYCHIATRIST: Why are you weeping? Didn't my therapy work?
MAN: Walahi, you have worsened my case!
PSYCHIATRIST: What? How?
MAN: When the demon came, I told him I'd already peed. Then he said, "Oya, let us shit!"

Lmao...

Kolade354:
How do you know all this

I'm an onapaediatrician.

So my guy, of all dplaces in nigeria,na nairaland u choose to seek for advice in dis kinda situation.hahahahahah...i laff u in swahili

Dezolo:
I'm an onapaediatrician.

I see........

U are not ready to father a child yet u slept with ur girl without protection. Welcome to fatherhood or hades snc she has said, she wil kil herslf and u if u disappoint her. ODE.

lecturerdabo:


U know what I love abt U?

1. U are not ready to be a father
2. U had unprotected sex with her
3. U went as far as releasing inside her
4. U are AFRAID SHE WILL KILL U!

Pls Sir, start buying baby things now!! Otherwise consult a lawyer to prepare ur will c

os the lady U ar messing with IS NOT INTERESTED IN BOY/GIRL FRIEND POO BUT MARRIAGE!!!

No no she can't tie me down with pregnancy am not yet ready for marriage I still have alot of things to achieve before getting married

olatunjithomas:
Op, you have seen how sweet it is to release inside a girl's virgina without wearing condoms abi......ahhhhhhhhhhh


you've done the exam now,lets wait for the result.




and meanwhile,i don't eat moimoi in naming ceremony ooooo
I manage rice when I can't get semo or iyan.

initially I've never wanted to sleep with her without condoms but she insisted we do it raw, what I don't understand is y she refused to take d pill I bought for her it's for d gud of both of us

Zealoy:
initially I've never wanted to sleep with her without condoms but she insisted we do it raw, what I don't understand is y she refused to take d pill I bought for her it's for d gud of both of us

Because she wants to get pregnant.

If u really don't want pregnancy then take responsibility for yourself by using a condom. You can't force the girl to do anything and now you know that.

The chances of her getting pregnant from one nut are slim, but it still possible. Also that pill isn't 100% effective and may just result in ectopic pregnancy which can kill her.

Do you know for sure she hasnt been fukking with a lot of other guys so an can get pregnant and trap someone to marriage?

I'd be more worried about catching a disease. Get yourself tested.

Dezolo:
you shoulda pee-ed inside her immediately.. She wouldn't get pregnant..

wow first time hearing this, will check it out n see if it is true.

Op you are being set up. It's obvious she has gotten pregnant by someone else and knows the man will not take responsibility. That is why she insisted on you not wearing a condom and why she won't take the pills. She is likely too far along for the pills to work anyway. I strongly advise you to go for a DNA test after the baby is born. Hopefully you won't be forced into a marriage before the baby arrives.

Zealoy:
hello Nlanders pls I need help n if possible suggestions, I had unprotected sex with my girlfriend yesterday n I even went to the extent of releasing inside of her, but the problem is that since den she has refuse to take the post pills I bought for her, am scared of her getting pregnant cus am not yet ready to father a child n d worst is that she told me today that if I leave her that she is going to kill me n kill herself n
she meant every single word she said.

..... D mata don settle itself jaweee... am sure u must by now sabi d place where dem dey sell pampers and baby care and be ready for d cash too.... u can halla me when ur girlfriend don put to bed cuz i will be more dan happy to see d new baby........ unserious element is what u are... u are not ready and u dey reddii....

you are being set up. Have her take a P test this week and see if she's not pregnant already. Though you are in for a long battle my friend, I think you should confront her now it is still safe because her behaviour seems suspicious and no sane person will act that way knowing your man isn't ready for such commitment, I don't know what else to advise you cos I've never been is this kinda situation. Lest I forget always use protection.

Zealoy:
initially I've never wanted to sleep with her without condoms but she insisted we do it raw, what I don't understand is y she refused to take d pill I bought for her it's for d gud of both of us

Eyah she insisted with a gun to your head and knife on your throat.

A lot of judgemental peeps here as if they are any better than the op...
I think two things are involved here op.. it's either she is in her safe period or she is already pregnant. If it's the former, you have no problem but if it's the latter, I suggest you mark down the day you had sex somewhere and keep, if she eventually says she is pregnant at a later day, follow her to the hospital and confirm how far the pregnancy has gone... if it tallies with your date, brace up and wait she delivers, go for DNA test if u can afford one... if the baby turns out to be yours? Do the best for yourself nd baby

Wish you the best anywhich way

Op, Force it down her throat, Make she no Go Hijack belle come dash you

lecturerdabo:


U know what I love abt U?

1. U are not ready to be a father
2. U had unprotected sex with her
3. U went as far as releasing inside her
4. U are AFRAID SHE WILL KILL U!

Pls Sir, start buying baby things now!! Otherwise consult a lawyer to prepare ur will cos the lady U ar messing with IS NOT INTERESTED IN BOY/GIRL FRIEND POO BUT MARRIAGE!!!

Your response is Epic ...shebi to be papa pikin sweet?

Debbywills:
Op, Force it down her throat, Make she no Go Hijack belle come dash you

the girl for wicked sha

demzylahot:

the girl for wicked sha

Lol.

Girls girls girls!!!

You in big shiiiit man!
Enjoy fatherhood!
I hear it's awesome