It appears that my brother, who is a very hardworking and caring man is not staying with his family due to the nature of his work to make ends meet. However, usually visits home at least once in every three 3 months or as time permitted.
Apparently, I was not staying with them until just of recent when my brother and his wife insist that I should stay with them and feel the vacuum of the uncertainty loneliness.
Undoubtedly. my sister-in-law is so caring and considerate but unfortunately she is a philanderer and she has been playing her game smartly until this fateful day when she gave me her phone to subscribe for her. Though its not in my attitude to pokenose but the WhatsApp prompt really caught my attention as it reads "Miss you too dear, please make sure you call me before you come tomorrow" I was really devastated by her grief that she is a green snake under the green grass. To crown it all, my sister-in-law was telling in advance that would be visiting her parents and would pass night with them.
I have no doubt that she is visiting the guy to enjoy herself but in my opinion I intend to call the guy and scare him off my Sister in-law or should I seat my in-law down and counsel her because she always respect and behalf like innocent.
Please what should I do as am really confused Thanks.

' miss you too dear, make sure you call before you come'..... that is all you told us you read.. My Mom, dad, uncle or aunty can as well send me that response to my I miss you...... on the other hand, if you actually read more than that, and you are sure it a guy she's messing with and about to go sleep over at his place all night tomorrow, something must be done......... and your elder bro comes home once in like 3 months? Haba, what manner of work is that, in as much as that doesn't give the wife any justification to mess around, he should be closer to home more.

Let us see what the poster below got to say........

Unfortunately, he has nothing to say, he's advising you to do what Joseph ran way from Portiphar's wife from...

Just ask her that why is she going to Sokoto, when What she is looking for is within the vicinity of her Sokoto..

Kaponanty:
She said that she is paying her parents a visit and since they all stay in Lagos but different area I couldn't call it off

....... Your brother can call his in-laws (wife's parent) tomorrow's night, just to say hello and talk with his 'darling wife' in the process!

What about throwing her out?

Call your brother ASAP and relay to him what u hav just found out. But in a very subtle way

k

Give me her number lemme talk sense into her head

I don't think it is a good idea to tell your brother, your brother might even be cheating on her cos you can't trust men these days especially the ones that stays away from home. Sit her down and tell her that you know what she is up to. From her response you will decide if you will tell your brother.

Since you had the guts to intrude her privacy by reading her whatsapp messages, you should have the guts to confront her too and let her know what you now know.

Kaponanty:

Broo it was inadvertently or coincidentally glance on the messages but the last word attracted my attention to read forther as I don't take great delight in intruding someone's privacy unnecessarily.
Consequently, broo im still staying with her in that house and I don't want to die prematurely.
Am no coward but I have to be diplomatic in this matter because its hazardously risky

Your story does not add up. You love your caring sis-in-law so much and yet you are worried that you may die prematurely?
And what woman would give her phone to anyone without first deleting messages that could give her away?

Ol'boy your best bet will be to chill till she makes the journey, then call ur inlaws and pretend you want to speak with ur bro's wife after letting them know she is at their place visiting.

Act all excited as if u have a wonderful news to share with her.

Goodluck.

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Thanks for your candid response but in all sincerity i don't want my brother to be part of this because he is a highly disciplinarian person therefore I don't want to involve him because I love this my sister in-law apart from being flirt.
At the same time, I don't want her to poison me because I don't trust anyone especially when it comes to marriage issue so am not so sure what would be her reaction if she discover that am aware that she is cheating.
You guys should come to my aid
Or maybe I should turn a blind eyes to it and pretend that am not aware?

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If you truly love her talk to her before your bros finds out.Nothing good comes out of adultery,someday the truth will come to light and the marriage might not be salvaged.Talk to her in a manner that will make you not look or sound like a saint. If you think she can poison you then she might as well poison your brother.If you keep quiet then really how do you look her in the eye knowing she is cheating on your brother. It is your decision if turning a blind eye is what will make you sleep easy.

You should have read the complete chat na. Instead of miss you too dear alone. And call me. You should have read the complete chat. With that you'd know whats going on. Just tell her to borrow you her phone. That you need to browse with it or just find 1 better lie. Then open the chat again and read.
If she has cleared or deleted the chat. Then you should know fire is burning on the mountain big time. Then you can either sit her down or tell your brother.

Ok

.....isn't this the same fake story that was posted on one blog .....confessions or something....
Nairaland needs attention ooooo

Wetin come be ur own

F

Don't jump to conclusion just yet....I do text "I miss You" to my friends and that, it's not what you think. Just chill before you do more harm than good

I think you should blame your brother for it. He didn't do his homework well before marriage. By the way, what makes you feel your brother isn't doing the same where he is? I think birds of a feather flocks together.

How are you sure your brother doesn't have a side chick in that place he works and spends 3 months in?? My mom tell me she misses me on WhatsApp, so do my brothers. It can be anyone. But just cos you don't know, you've started calling her green snake under green grass. Smh

Sister, stop lamenting, tell you brother to try nd stay with his family

I think you should just talk to her she might come back to her senses. I wouldn't advise u tell ur brother straight away except it continues. Probably she indulged in such act cos of loneliness.

I think you should just talk . I wouldn't advise u to tell ur brother straight away except it continues. Probably she indulged in such act cos of loneliness. Can't really say.

All these "unsharp" girls are always caught on WhatsApp before being caught red handed.
WhatsApp doing more harm than good since 1730AD.

Anyways, set up a guy to pose as your bro and call the guy to threaten him, while you talk sense into the unfaithful wife's head.

Op...