histemple:


Same thing was going through my mind. Women who don't check their husband's phone or monitor his calls usually have better marriages.

awesome11:


It says a lot about the kind of being the lady is. Undoubtedly, she chose her supposedly best friends and assumedly made the choice of who to marry. One attracts what he/she deserves..

My advice: She should take a break and think through how she has found this kind of people as her destiny influencers.. The result of that search process will be crucial to her life..
How've you been?

kayalla:
lemme cum beofre i go out hahahaha, conji.

histemple:


Same thing was going through my mind. Women who don't check their husband's phone or monitor his calls usually have better marriages.

uplawal:
you playing with what is making a fellow woman cry.

Boyooosa:
All I see is boobs and the story... Same birds! Where did ur husband meet you? Wash your bottle, I guess you once sold red palm oil!

Deux:
More..

onyekachee:
some girls can be so shameless,just imagine her saying I still didn't misbehave despite the fact that you are married
Arrant nonsense
in my own words she married the wrong man sorry to say,and she has to deal with his infidelity now and always
But best option will be to leave the marriage because that man can never change

uplawal:
Which home?foolishness on increase.

Jamean:


So when I get married you will delete my number

coolviv:


I believe in my heart that you meant to say tell her to leave that marriage now that it's still young and she is not encumbered with a child making it easier for her to move on...

kajoula:
hmmmm what a mess, why are men doing these ?
Madam,

1. Make sure you have multiple copies (backup) of this chats somewhere else

2. Make it known to him, his level of unfaithfulness and that you will report the issue to his parents,
check on his action if he will sincerely apologise.

3. Show all these pictures to his Parents,siblings that you know.

4. Show all the picture also to the fiancé of your said friend who is set to marry so that the fiancé will know the devil he's starting life with

5. Observe his attitude, if he feels remorse about it before taking up action No4, if he doesn't feel remorse about it.
Dont reveal your friend secret.

it's dishertneing but Truth be told

1How did you meet and marry this man ?
2What are the flaws you saw in him,did you take time to discuss and reach conclusion on issues with him ?
3How log did you court?

Mindfulness:
You have not only very dishonest friends but very id.iotic ones as well.
The girl is creating drama because he doesn't call like she wants him to (as if she can force it ) and all he wants to do is to come and release some pressure. He is using her.

Your husband's behaviour is devious - just like that of your friends and the question is:

Why are you surrounded by so many sneaky people? You choose your friends and you have chosen your husband.
I hope the answerto this question will help you in the future.

Inspectahdeck:
For some guys (newly wed) they understand what marriage is quite late ( 5month etc.) compared to an individual that had a mentor tutoring same.

If I took what I had into my marriage 3years ago, I am sure I will be alone by now. Please understand that it isn't easy for both parties. patience is key in marriages during the adjustment period (first 2 years. Some might take 5-10years).

Every man cheats so we should clap for them and watch them infect us with STDs, not satisfy us and give money meant for family to prostitutes. And you expect her to respect you afterwards? Anyway, it's not by force to be married.

She should go back and start her marriage afresh. Every man cheats (the volume differs) so don't be fooled.

midehi2:
that is why i wil never check his phone, it will give me hypertension...ooops, i used to but i have stopped, no be me ooo

men are always men

uplawal:
nawa o,and u still dey keep such woman?

stchinedu:


You quickly framed MEN as bad news and you left the serious part. The lady in question clearly stated that the GIRLS are her CLOSE PALS. Can you imagine?!

Tell me, who is worse, the man or the girls?

I am not fronting for men but it will not be fair to leave out the truth no matter how bitter and keep mute. I am not a sexist.

These are her friends for crying out loud, not just friends but close. Holy Moses and his water dividing rod!

Apparently, they know her well enough. Possibly they were all sharing the same 'rod' until he decided to settle for one out of the "many options available" but the other girls will not accept that.

If they are "True" friends, why are they dating her man, knowing full well he is married to their "friend"?

Even if the "gotie" cannot tame his misbehaving libido, do they have to go down with him too? At least if the man is insane, they are not insane...in this case, they are same

If men are terrible, like you are insinuating, where will you place the girls?

Have you forgotten the saying, "show me your friend and i will tell you who you are" ...he may be relating with her based on the way and where he met her.

It is the height of hypocrisy for girls to cry wolf and form the victim when they are the one pulling the strings... Granted, the man approached them for "illicit affair", do they not have the word, "NO" in their dictionary?

Your question should be, why are girls like this?

stchinedu:


You quickly framed MEN as bad news and you left the serious part. The lady in question clearly stated that the GIRLS are her CLOSE PALS. Can you imagine?!

Tell me, who is worse, the man or the girls?

I am not fronting for men but it will not be fair to leave out the truth no matter how bitter and keep mute. I am not a sexist.

These are her friends for crying out loud, not just friends but close. Holy Moses and his water dividing rod!

Apparently, they know her well enough. Possibly they were all sharing the same 'rod' until he decided to settle for one out of the "many options available" but the other girls will not accept that.

If they are "True" friends, why are they dating her man, knowing full well he is married to their "friend"?

Even if the "gotie" cannot tame his misbehaving libido, do they have to go down with him too? At least if the man is insane, they are not insane...in this case, they are same

If men are terrible, like you are insinuating, where will you place the girls?

Have you forgotten the saying, "show me your friend and i will tell you who you are" ...he may be relating with her based on the way and where he met her.

It is the height of hypocrisy for girls to cry wolf and form the victim when they are the one pulling the strings... Granted, the man approached them for "illicit affair", do they not have the word, "NO" in their dictionary?

Your question should be, why are girls like this?

Jayjay0:

Sorry ma but... I don't think reporting a man to his parents can solve anything that's why his a man and no longer staying with his parents. So I think she should just approach him and let them talk it out inside of involving people that he will clearly not listen to.

kajoula:


now its not men alone, it comes along with her friends and that was why I asked

1How did you meet and marry this man ?
2What are the flaws you saw in him,did you take time to discuss and reach conclusion on issues with him ?
3How log did you court?

HaneefahRN:
I can't even see any marriage here. 3months into the wedding and he is cheating wt two of her friends? Useless husband and friends. She better go for HIV test and other venereal diseases, she might have caught something.

How can just one person have 2 Oloshos as friend? People are wicked sha

waldigit:


All blames on the man now, and.
Why are those women doing that too. instead of you to balance your view you are already putting sentiments. Are you any better than these people you are complaining about. Because it seemed to me the common denominator here is lack of emotional intelligence. No offence pls.

SIRKAY98:





Well some friends a devilish and they dont care they ruin your marriage once they see you have something good in your life.

And already we know thise ladies lifes are ruined because of there wayward life. Who knows maybe they have even aborted there womb.

Anither point i hv is that shey the lady is planning a wedding good na. She should forward that to the fiance so she can eat a little cake of the duel