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Re: Nairalanders I Need Your Opinon. by Chrisrare: 5:15pm On Jul 08, 2016
ganaziah:



Yeah....
Dont allow ur ego to come between u nd him. Something might be bothering him, just reach out and he'll open up. But at d same time be smart, u shuld know when to walk away and move on with ur life, but now is not the time since u dont know what d problem is.
Re: Nairalanders I Need Your Opinon. by ganaziah(f): 5:15pm On Jul 08, 2016
larabae13:
Hmmn...relationship problems everywhere...

smiley
Re: Nairalanders I Need Your Opinon. by ganaziah(f): 5:16pm On Jul 08, 2016
Chrisrare:
Dont allow ur ego to come between u nd him. Something might be bothering him, just reach out and he'll open up. But at d same time be smart, u shuld know when to walk away and move on with ur life, but now is not the time since u dont know what d problem is.


That's very helpful, thanks.
Re: Nairalanders I Need Your Opinon. by ganaziah(f): 5:17pm On Jul 08, 2016
Chrisrare:
Dont allow ur ego to come between u nd him. Something might be bothering him, just reach out and he'll open up. But at d same time be smart, u shuld know when to walk away and move on with ur life, but now is not the time since u dont know what d problem is.


That's very nice, thanks.
Re: Nairalanders I Need Your Opinon. by ganaziah(f): 5:21pm On Jul 08, 2016
AngelAhnie:
Tot its online relationship?


Nope
Re: Nairalanders I Need Your Opinon. by Nobody: 5:21pm On Jul 08, 2016
ganaziah:
My boyfriend have recently stopped chatting or calling me for no reason (no quarrel or misunderstanding between us) and even when i chat him up, he reply like he's not interested in the chat same with when i call him on phone and its never been like that before. I have no idea why he's acting like that, and I wish things could go back to the way it has always been coz I miss him so much. So please people I'd like to know your opinions regarding this and a solution to it.
I'll tell u the truth... Sincerely, that's how a guy acts when he's getting tired of a girl... Am just being sincere here...


Now here's Wat u'll do, LET HIM BE! I know u miss him alot, but give him space, let him see the reason to come back or call u, DON'T BUG HIM! cos if u do, he'll even keep his distance the more. Babe just make him be the one to say the "I'm Sorry"



Dats all!
Re: Nairalanders I Need Your Opinon. by ganaziah(f): 5:24pm On Jul 08, 2016
Dab2mydick:
I'll tell u the truth... Sincerely, that's how a guy acts when he's getting tired of a girl... Am just being sincere here...


Now here's Wat u'll do, LET HIM BE! I know u miss him alot, but give him space, let him see the reason to come back or call u, DON'T BUG HIM! cos if u do, he'll even keep his distance the more. Babe just make him be the one to say the "I'm Sorry"



Dats all!



Alryt thn, thanks fr being sincere.
Re: Nairalanders I Need Your Opinon. by PunkyV(f): 5:26pm On Jul 08, 2016
Kondomatic:
Just act like you don't care. He will be the one to initiate a chat if he's still interested in you.

But isn't this unfair to the, OP? I mean the waiting until HE is ready. Why should communication be on HIS terms & when HE feels like talking again? This I don't understand about (some) guys. It's like they don't get how frustrating this is.

If he's going through personal stuff or whatever, then he should just tell her to give him some space. She's not a psychic & it's justifiable that she's taking it personal because he's not letting her in on what is actually causing the change in communication. The poor girl is probably thinking she's the problem. Guys really need to communicate better.
Re: Nairalanders I Need Your Opinon. by Nobody: 5:26pm On Jul 08, 2016
ganaziah:




Alryt thn, thanks fr being sincere.
yeah... And welcome
Re: Nairalanders I Need Your Opinon. by Nobody: 5:28pm On Jul 08, 2016
PunkyV:


But isn't this unfair to the, OP? I mean the waiting until HE is ready. Why should communication be on HIS terms & when HE feels like talking again? This I don't understand about (some) guys. It's like they don't get how frustrating this is.

If he's going through personal stuff or whatever, then he should just tell her to give him some space. She's not a psychic & it's justifiable that she's taking it personal because he's not letting her in on what is actually causing the change in communication. The poor girl is probably thinking she's the problem. Guys really need to communicate better.

but op is NOT ready to let go...
Re: Nairalanders I Need Your Opinon. by ganaziah(f): 5:29pm On Jul 08, 2016
PunkyV:


But isn't this unfair to the, OP? I mean the waiting until HE is ready. Why should communication be on HIS terms & when HE feels like talking again? This I don't understand about (some) guys. It's like they don't get how frustrating this is.

If he's going through personal stuff or whatever, then he should just tell her to give him some space. She's not a psychic & it's justifiable that she's taking it personal because he's not letting her in on what is actually causing the change in communication. The poor girl is probably thinking she's the problem. Guys really need to communicate better.




Yeah......that's just the summary of how it feels like.
Re: Nairalanders I Need Your Opinon. by larabae13(f): 5:30pm On Jul 08, 2016
ganaziah:


smiley
ma bf too tried sumfin lyk dat...I changed it ni for him one time!!! He is now d one doing the calling cool
Re: Nairalanders I Need Your Opinon. by larabae13(f): 5:33pm On Jul 08, 2016
ganaziah:


smiley
ma bf too tried sumfin lyk dat...I changed it ni for him one time!!! He is now d one doing the calling cool...u gotta ask d reason for him nt calling
Re: Nairalanders I Need Your Opinon. by ganaziah(f): 5:33pm On Jul 08, 2016
Dab2mydick:
but op is NOT ready to let go...


Its not really the matter of letting go, at least just a reason behind the whole ish would be nice, just like she said, we're not psychics and its also really frustrating.
Re: Nairalanders I Need Your Opinon. by ganaziah(f): 5:35pm On Jul 08, 2016
larabae13:
ma bf too tried sumfin lyk dat...I changed it ni for him one time!!! He is now d one doing the calling cool...u gotta ask d reason for him nt calling


smiley ok
Re: Nairalanders I Need Your Opinon. by PunkyV(f): 5:36pm On Jul 08, 2016
Dab2mydick:
but op is NOT ready to let go...

Let go of what when there were no issues according to her? That's the crazy-making part about this behaviour. You, the person on the receiving end, you get fed up with it & start thinking of ending things. But then again you get confused on what exactly to do because breaking up over "nothing" sounds a little ridiculous. It's much easier to let go when someone point blank tells you to go kick rocks. But this right here is confusing because you don't know what the problem is. Period.
Re: Nairalanders I Need Your Opinon. by ganaziah(f): 5:38pm On Jul 08, 2016
PunkyV:


Let go of what when there were no issues according to her? That's the crazy-making part about this behaviour. You, the person on the receiving end, you get fed up with it & start thinking of ending things. But then again you get confused on what exactly to do because breaking up over "nothing" sounds a little ridiculous. It's much easier to let go when someone point blank tells you to go kick rocks. But this right here is confusing because you don't know what the problem is. Period.


Exactly!
Re: Nairalanders I Need Your Opinon. by czarr(m): 5:39pm On Jul 08, 2016
Please let the guy hustle and make money,don't bother him with love and relationship talk...that's all u girl know to talk about undecided

U too go and hustle and get dough,Nigeria is not america there is no space for such frivolities such as love and feelings and silly heart matters!!!


Don't ruin the guys life,allow him make money!!!
Re: Nairalanders I Need Your Opinon. by Nobody: 5:42pm On Jul 08, 2016
ganaziah:



Its not really the matter of letting go, at least just a reason behind the whole ish would be nice, just like she said, we're not psychics and its also really frustrating.
I'll still stand with Wat I said earlier... Act Like U Don't Care....


Do me a favor, from today onwards, don't call, flash or ping him again... U'll be surprised he calls u the day u less expected it... And IF he calls to end the relationship, act like u are happy about it... And see the magic from that... Do these and see the positive effects it'll render
Re: Nairalanders I Need Your Opinon. by ganaziah(f): 5:42pm On Jul 08, 2016
czarr:
Please let the guy hustle and make money,don't bother him with love and relationship talk...that's all u girl know to talk about undecided

U too go and hustle and get dough,Nigeria is not america there is no space for such frivolities such as love and feelings and silly heart matters!!!


Don't ruin the guys life,allow him make money!!!


Funny, I hear ya, not ruining his life with love fantasies but nyc point tho.
Re: Nairalanders I Need Your Opinon. by ganaziah(f): 5:44pm On Jul 08, 2016
Dab2mydick:
I'll still stand with Wat I said earlier... Act Like U Don't Care....


Do me a favor, from today onwards, don't call, flash or ping him again... U'll be surprised he calls u the day u less expected it... And IF he calls to end the relationship, act like u are happy about it... And see the magic from that... Do these and see the positive effects it'll render



Alryt thn. Thanks fr the advice.
Re: Nairalanders I Need Your Opinon. by Nobody: 5:45pm On Jul 08, 2016
PunkyV:


Let go of what when there were no issues according to her? That's the crazy-making part about this behaviour. You, the person on the receiving end, you get fed up with it & start thinking of ending things. But then again you get confused on what exactly to do because breaking up over "nothing" sounds a little ridiculous. It's much easier to let go when someone point blank tells you to go kick rocks. But this right here is confusing because you don't know what the problem is. Period.
fine! So wats ur advice to the op since u disagree with mine
Re: Nairalanders I Need Your Opinon. by PunkyV(f): 5:45pm On Jul 08, 2016
ganaziah:




Yeah......that's just the summary of how it feels like.

I know girl, trust me.

Like they say, just let him be. Even though it's unfair to you to be left hanging & to be dancing to his tune. Because that's exactly what it feels like. It's a circus, you're the clown & he's the ring master because things happen on his pace. Which is BS. I'd say just drop him but I know it isn't that cut & dry.
Re: Nairalanders I Need Your Opinon. by ganaziah(f): 5:48pm On Jul 08, 2016
PunkyV:


I know girl, trust me.

Like they say, just let him be. Even though it's unfair to you to be left hanging & to be dancing to his tune. Because that's exactly what it feels like. It's a circus, you're the clown & he's the ring master because things happen on his pace. Which is BS. I'd say just drop him but I know it isn't that cut & dry.

Yh
Re: Nairalanders I Need Your Opinon. by Nobody: 5:49pm On Jul 08, 2016
ganaziah:




Alryt thn. Thanks fr the advice.
u welcome dear... Now cheer up and go find me something to eat lol...

"Tryn'a make u smile sha"
Re: Nairalanders I Need Your Opinon. by UyiIredia(m): 5:50pm On Jul 08, 2016
onstelly:
Give him space for now or find a way to have real talk with him.

You should have just said she should give him space. She was asking for that way to talk to him. Instead of you to suggest one you are asking her to find a way.
Re: Nairalanders I Need Your Opinon. by PunkyV(f): 5:53pm On Jul 08, 2016
Dab2mydick:
fine! So wats ur advice to the op since u disagree with mine

OK, give the man's perspective. Why should she let go? What could be behind this change in communication? Because to us it means MAYBE he's lost interest, is bored with her, etc. If those are the reasons, then why isn't he telling her to go have a nice life? Cowardice?
Re: Nairalanders I Need Your Opinon. by ganaziah(f): 5:59pm On Jul 08, 2016
Dab2mydick:
u welcome dear... Now cheer up and go find me something to eat lol...

"Tryn'a make u smile sha"


Lol...yh you definitely achieved that
Re: Nairalanders I Need Your Opinon. by Nobody: 6:14pm On Jul 08, 2016
ganaziah:



Lol...yh you definitely achieved that
don't frown or get sad again... That nigga aint worth it... If u need jokes, holla at ur boi "dab2mydick"
Re: Nairalanders I Need Your Opinon. by Nobody: 6:26pm On Jul 08, 2016
PunkyV:


OK, give the man's perspective. Why should she let go? What could be behind this change in communication? Because to us it means MAYBE he's lost interest, is bored with her, etc. If those are the reasons, then why isn't he telling her to go have a nice life? Cowardice?
he just ain't put up enough courage to tell her to move on.... He still wants her, but wants to let go.. Hence scared to brake the news to her..



Mixed feelings cry
Re: Nairalanders I Need Your Opinon. by MrCork: 6:29pm On Jul 08, 2016
ganaziah:



Sure thing, thank you!


Granada...itsis becuzz of women like u that we stick to white women hear in London...black women like u is a embarasssment for cheatin on yor boy friend...U R A CHEATER!!!(no ofeinse) angry
Re: Nairalanders I Need Your Opinon. by ganaziah(f): 6:32pm On Jul 08, 2016
Dab2mydick:
don't frown or get sad again... That nigga aint worth it... If u need jokes, holla at ur boi "dab2mydick"


Thanks buh nah

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