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|Re: Nairalanders I Need Your Opinon. by ganaziah(f): 12:02am On Jul 09, 2016|
|Re: Nairalanders I Need Your Opinon. by Nobody: 12:04am On Jul 09, 2016|
ganaziah:my 1 kobo
|Re: Nairalanders I Need Your Opinon. by PunkyV(f): 6:29am On Jul 09, 2016|
LOL @ the last part.
Well, that is not true that I ALWAYS advise people to move on. Most of the time, yes. And that's because people share stories where there is an apparent problem with the person they're dating.
Also, I never outrightly say, "leave him or her". Because that's not my decision to make. I understand that there're emotions involved in every situation. Personally, I can be very cold & pay no attention to my own feelings or someone else's when a situation is getting out of hand. I just wanna cut ties & get done. But that's just the way I reason sometimes. Hence I stressed out that this situation got ME thinking. Not to mean I want everyone to go around disregarding what they feel because I can.
Anyway, now back to your question. TBH, I wouldn't care how he feels. I'm not an unfair person. I give people plenty of chances to correct shitty behaviour. I talk a lot But when I notice they're not doing anything about it, then that's when the other side of me creeps in. I'll just toss them aside & move on because I don't like someone giving me a headache.
|Re: Nairalanders I Need Your Opinon. by Nobody: 7:02am On Jul 09, 2016|
PunkyV:hmmm.... And what happens while in marriage, cos marriages do have issues sometimes, would u toss the man aside and move on to divorce him rather than find ways to make things work with him
Siincerely u are really a strong lady, but am not sure I cant handle you lol , u MUST care about my feelings too, although I can't out of the sudden start keeping distances from the person I so claim to love.
PunkyV dear, what I've deduced from what u wrote up is that, u still yet to meet a guy, who's capable of spinning ur world around, show u the true definition of true love, who would make u go wild and crazy about him, make u feel so loved and important... But u may find it hard cus u seem not to fully open up ur heart to a willing guy, although there're so many many guys are players this days, but u should definitely be able to see through a guy and know who's serious about u and who's not, but only came for the cake in between the beautiful roads to London cos u are a beautiful lady, so u likely to face more of the unserious type... And Only then can u apply the "toss aside and move on thingy"
When I fall inlove, I do with my whole heartheart but always ready to let go even though it's hard
|Re: Nairalanders I Need Your Opinon. by AngelAhnie(f): 7:09am On Jul 09, 2016|
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|Re: Nairalanders I Need Your Opinon. by PunkyV(f): 7:19am On Jul 09, 2016|
Hahaha. I'm probably the most caring person you'll ever meet. I'm very loving too but like you said, maybe I haven't found someone that meets my deep level of devotion. I love 100%. I'm intense & tend to want it all because I give my all. That's where the problem begins. Maybe other people are capable of loving 75% or whatever. But I cannot do that. With me it's either 0 or 100. End of story.
|Re: Nairalanders I Need Your Opinon. by Nobody: 7:40am On Jul 09, 2016|
PunkyV:I still find it hard to belive what u wrote up there... (bolded). there are women/ladies who fought for what they believed in, and made it work out with their partner who on the other side, isn't a serious type.. At least there are relationships like that, that ended in marriages and a happy home.
U know the saying that goes like —-——-—behind every successful man, there's always a woman. That doesn't only apply on the financial aspect of the guy.. No! Being responsible's also involved, knowing how to change a bad guy to a good guy takes part too.. But I guess u don't have that time to go through all that ..
Buh a woman can actually make the unserious turn a serious type and achieve greater things together with him... Babe just dream big like MTN and he'll learn to treasure u like his salary during these hard economic times...
Don't talk again ooo.. Just say u have heard me and that u'll be more careful and put in more efforts, I wanna attend ur wedding soon babe.. So, endest of story building lol
|Re: Nairalanders I Need Your Opinon. by PunkyV(f): 7:49am On Jul 09, 2016|
LOL, what a nice post! Wedding bells are already ringing a few threads below
On a serious note, I lack patience & staying power in relationships. That I know. But I'm very caring/loving...when the guy is.
|Re: Nairalanders I Need Your Opinon. by Nobody: 8:05am On Jul 09, 2016|
PunkyV:then we can make things workout dear.. And another thing, I hope you are not part of the "he's too caring, and too good to me, and I can't be in a relationship with such guy" cos I am that type of guy, and I talk alot ooo, and am a Romanian too, so u can easily tell am a romantic type.. Very very!
Just kidding dear..
Now here's the deal, work more on ur patience babe.. Don't be in a hurry to end things with him, but rather plan on making things fine and perfect again between u two, make that sign obvious that u wanna make things work... But biko, jaw, and please.. Don't ever cry while doing these ooo... Just stay on the safe side while showing these signs..if the guy no be mumu, he'll understand ur body language lol and adjust to it... But if things keep getting worse, and all he does is get into paradise and fail to notice the "in thing",
Abeg, over-dump his 2inch Dick and dab2mydick lol
Don't mind me, but just dump him if that be the case... SHIKENAH!
|Re: Nairalanders I Need Your Opinon. by PunkyV(f): 8:44am On Jul 09, 2016|
LOL, you're adorable.
|Re: Nairalanders I Need Your Opinon. by Nobody: 8:48am On Jul 09, 2016|
PunkyV:lol.. Now u gonna make my head burst... OK nah, thanks sha... Though am looking forward to ur wedding, hopefully before the year runs out... And for now,
Be safe dear...
|Re: Nairalanders I Need Your Opinon. by PunkyV(f): 8:59am On Jul 09, 2016|
Awww, thanks You too. Do take care.
|Re: Nairalanders I Need Your Opinon. by MrDoGood(m): 12:56am On Jul 10, 2016|
sit his a$$ down and fu_ck him very well
|Re: Nairalanders I Need Your Opinon. by Nobody: 1:01am On Jul 10, 2016|
Yeah ur a fish too but only ur a piranha all u do Is open ur mouth and nibble all the rubbish.
|Re: Nairalanders I Need Your Opinon. by MrDoGood(m): 1:46am On Jul 10, 2016|
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