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Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by Affableacho(m): 10:55pm On Jul 12, 2016
this love thing is a crazy affair. . but I would suggest you pull urself together and start building yourself. . cus right now, u probably dont have much to offer her. .
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by charlisco(m): 10:56pm On Jul 12, 2016
i saw ur msg, but guy moved on, 5years is not 5month. dating and marriage are two different thing.
after two to three years, what a girl want to see is getting marriage. nt wasting time.

move on and please save a lot of money. so tht u dnt waste anytime on the next chick

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Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by teevodaprinz(m): 10:56pm On Jul 12, 2016
You ve got to move on Bro... Probably u weren't meant for each other... When GOD chooses for a man or woman there wouldn't be anything called heartbreak... If you push and the later part is tragic... Bro it would be difficult to trace back the part... " it's better to be single than to be in a wrong marriage " So pray to GOD to lead you... Moreover, if you are opportune to study, never allow your woman to be ahead of you particularly on the academic ground so my advice for you is " Focus on your studies... Don't even think about another gf now #though that depends on your age and readiness for marriage# when the time comes... I mean the right time. Your partner will surely show up... Be strong bro that's the other side of human love...
Get yourself busy with something valuable and you will look back later and say "Thank GOD it happened that way" that would g the your mind off her... ALL IS WELL BRO

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Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by T3Amo(f): 10:56pm On Jul 12, 2016
SerialGist:


This heartbreak is 2016 version and your moniker says it all. May be you should be expecting 2017 version and your moniker then will be "heartbroken2017".

Anyways, if your hope is always that what you do for a woman wont let her leave when she wants to, my friend your brain needs to be reset. Women dont ever remember whatever you think you've done for them when it is time for them to leave. They will leave when they want to leave without looking back.
its not just women. Men too do this. Some people will still leave no matter what and some people will stay no matter what
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by dillinger: 10:57pm On Jul 12, 2016
Truthfully, my phone has given me more satisfaction than all the women I've dated. Someone's here asking for advice again....damn

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Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by Cadamlk: 10:57pm On Jul 12, 2016
ADUNOKIKI:
That's human being! My suggestion to you... Visit he in Osun, don't let her be aware you are coming. May be weekend, but make sure you have money for hotel ooo.
Ask her one on one what you have done to deserve this?
Don't be violent and don't sound desperate. You have been with her for 5 years, you should read the answers in her eyes...
But don't expect anything positive from her.
She already have a replacement for you!!!


Do you use to pay her surprire?
Do you have the key to her apartment?
My friend what difference will that make?This is the case of a girl that her mind is already made up.

In this life we find ourselves,heartbreak goes either way with both gender falling victim one way or the other .where many people have been able to overcome such disaster by moving on . That is what this dude got to do.

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Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by Sammyblaq(m): 10:59pm On Jul 12, 2016
Asking for advice won't help anything.
Move on once ur hustle dey pay. Your true girl must surely come by.
Mistakes are made...corrections are taken.
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by Biafrarep(m): 11:00pm On Jul 12, 2016
Try & hussle hard like your life depends on it but never engage in fraud, then fake it till you make it. Change your wardrope, do gym, improve yourself & behave as if your life is better now she left. Always update your facebook post with you in a happy mood. If you were really good to her, she will greatly miss u & will start calling u after some days or weeks but NEVER ANSWER HER till after 31 days of no contact with her! Do this & thank me later!!!
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by nextstep(m): 11:00pm On Jul 12, 2016
Was marriage on the horizon?
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by harrysjones(m): 11:01pm On Jul 12, 2016
bro do u ave anybody that is close to her try contact the person tell the person what realy happen .. who know she may change her mind...DO u rely offend her..
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by SmellingVagina: 11:01pm On Jul 12, 2016
Have You Ever Fuckedd Her Puccy?
BrokenHeart2016:
Right now my heart is heavy, am in a state of confusion I don't know what to do.On saturday I received the shock of my life through a text message from my girlfriend stating that I should move on with my life that it is over between us, at first I thought I was dreaming because I just got up from bed at exactly 7am, I ignored the text thinking it was a mistake had to shower and get ready for work. The following day which happens to be on sunday I called her and She told me that she has think about it that I should move on with my life...its over!!! I asked her what have I done to deserve such a thing from her she was unable to justify her action.
O boy, my jaw drop e be like say dem use dagger pierced my heart have never experience such thing in my life, I do read it online about how girls break up with their partner with no reason I can't believe this is happening to me. This is a girl that I really care for we met during our National Diploma program in 2012, she will be graduating this year while am about to put in for my HND.
Am not boasting about what have done for her but I just want you guys to understand my plight, I help her financially during her two years of studies pay her school fees and other miscellaneous while am still hustling. During our five years of courtship have never thought of cheating her or dump her for no reason I always make sure she's comfortable because her parents has passed. Since saturday my life have never been the same because the tone of text msg always ring on my head, am so sad right now I can't think straight anymore my boss at work notice my mood today and ask me what's up with me I had to dodge the question....till now I always look at my phone hoping to see her call or text maybe she was joking with me, I really love her so much and I always express my love to her though am not financially bouyant at the moment but I always do everything in my capacity to ensure she is Ok....there was a time i use money meant for my handouts to buy her foodstuffs and all, have sacrifice a lot for her during our academic days I finished with Lower Credit while she has Upper Credit. I'm not jealous of her success but frankly speaking I make impact in her life in general, I do see her as the mother of my kids there are a lot of plan I have for her, we always discuss this all the time. Right now she school in osun state while am hustling here in oyo state but I always travel to visit her from time to time and shower her with a lot of gifts.
Pls I need your advise on how to move on with my life because right now the thing is affecting my life I can't think straight anymore or even sleep very well. Bashing is also allowed I just want u guys to talk sense into my head.

Sorry for my grammatical blunders

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Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by BrokenHeart2016: 11:02pm On Jul 12, 2016
Mariojane:
You ve to move on. Life goes on. What I always tell myself is, I will try to be better than the way I was so that whenever I meet anyone from my pass I will be able to boast about what I have achieved without them and their unfortunate selves. But we need to hear the other Side of the story

I have a question though, you saw the message on Saturday nd none of you call each other until you call on Sunday,Is that how you run your relationship? I don't speak with my fiancé less than 4times in a day and it has been that way for years.
I mean when she text me it was early in the morning on saturday not that we don't use to communicate on phone but imagine u just receive such a strange text, I just laugh cus I thought it was a mistake and beside have already late for work I had to shower quickly and dress up...not until sunday that I called her
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by tundesplash: 11:03pm On Jul 12, 2016
Guy jst bon nd continue with ur life dnt ever trust or love women, me I dnt love them. At anytime der can go so pls dnt love them much guys.

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Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by omograndma(m): 11:03pm On Jul 12, 2016
time they say heals all wounds
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by Nobody: 11:04pm On Jul 12, 2016
BrokenHeart2016:
Right now my heart is heavy, am in a state of confusion I don't know what to do.On saturday I received the shock of my life through a text message from my girlfriend stating that I should move on with my life that it is over between us, at first I thought I was dreaming because I just got up from bed at exactly 7am, I ignored the text thinking it was a mistake had to shower and get ready for work. The following day which happens to be on sunday I called her and She told me that she has think about it that I should move on with my life...its over!!! I asked her what have I done to deserve such a thing from her she was unable to justify her action.
O boy, my jaw drop e be like say dem use dagger pierced my heart have never experience such thing in my life, I do read it online about how girls break up with their partner with no reason I can't believe this is happening to me. This is a girl that I really care for we met during our National Diploma program in 2012, she will be graduating this year while am about to put in for my HND.
Am not boasting about what have done for her but I just want you guys to understand my plight, I help her financially during her two years of studies pay her school fees and other miscellaneous while am still hustling. During our five years of courtship have never thought of cheating her or dump her for no reason I always make sure she's comfortable because her parents has passed. Since saturday my life have never been the same because the tone of text msg always ring on my head, am so sad right now I can't think straight anymore my boss at work notice my mood today and ask me what's up with me I had to dodge the question....till now I always look at my phone hoping to see her call or text maybe she was joking with me, I really love her so much and I always express my love to her though am not financially bouyant at the moment but I always do everything in my capacity to ensure she is Ok....there was a time i use money meant for my handouts to buy her foodstuffs and all, have sacrifice a lot for her during our academic days I finished with Lower Credit while she has Upper Credit. I'm not jealous of her success but frankly speaking I make impact in her life in general, I do see her as the mother of my kids there are a lot of plan I have for her, we always discuss this all the time. Right now she school in osun state while am hustling here in oyo state but I always travel to visit her from time to time and shower her with a lot of gifts.
Pls I need your advise on how to move on with my life because right now the thing is affecting my life I can't think straight anymore or even sleep very well. Bashing is also allowed I just want u guys to talk sense into my head.

Sorry for my grammatical blunders



My brother don't ever invest in a woman...... Its bad investment instead invest in family and self the upper credit she made courtesy of your assistance..... She will NEVER say thank you...... How abt your younger ones WHO U EPP.....next time be wise...... Take heart my friend it's NEVER TOO LATE....... start investing in yourself.

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Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by Nobody: 11:05pm On Jul 12, 2016
grin grin grin

Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by drkells(m): 11:05pm On Jul 12, 2016
Listen dude and move on really 1.5yrs no marriage you faced up 2. No marriage,no future hope ,no parents then she moved on#sugar dada/boys calling.... My candid advise is don't drink much cos it will affect your health,then get a good job first and forget about her...
BrokenHeart2016:
Right now my heart is heavy, am in a state of confusion I don't know what to do.On saturday I received the shock of my life through a text message from my girlfriend stating that I should move on with my life that it is over between us, at first I thought I was dreaming because I just got up from bed at exactly 7am, I ignored the text thinking it was a mistake had to shower and get ready for work. The following day which happens to be on sunday I called her and She told me that she has think about it that I should move on with my life...its over!!! I asked her what have I done to deserve such a thing from her she was unable to justify her action.
O boy, my jaw drop e be like say dem use dagger pierced my heart have never experience such thing in my life, I do read it online about how girls break up with their partner with no reason I can't believe this is happening to me. This is a girl that I really care for we met during our National Diploma program in 2012, she will be graduating this year while am about to put in for my HND.
Am not boasting about what have done for her but I just want you guys to understand my plight, I help her financially during her two years of studies pay her school fees and other miscellaneous while am still hustling. During our five years of courtship have never thought of cheating her or dump her for no reason I always make sure she's comfortable because her parents has passed. Since saturday my life have never been the same because the tone of text msg always ring on my head, am so sad right now I can't think straight anymore my boss at work notice my mood today and ask me what's up with me I had to dodge the question....till now I always look at my phone hoping to see her call or text maybe she was joking with me, I really love her so much and I always express my love to her though am not financially bouyant at the moment but I always do everything in my capacity to ensure she is Ok....there was a time i use money meant for my handouts to buy her foodstuffs and all, have sacrifice a lot for her during our academic days I finished with Lower Credit while she has Upper Credit. I'm not jealous of her success but frankly speaking I make impact in her life in general, I do see her as the mother of my kids there are a lot of plan I have for her, we always discuss this all the time. Right now she school in osun state while am hustling here in oyo state but I always travel to visit her from time to time and shower her with a lot of gifts.
Pls I need your advise on how to move on with my life because right now the thing is affecting my life I can't think straight anymore or even sleep very well. Bashing is also allowed I just want u guys to talk sense into my head.

Sorry for my grammatical blunders
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by fortunechy(m): 11:05pm On Jul 12, 2016
just ask google
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by olubenjazzy(m): 11:05pm On Jul 12, 2016
Just move on. If she choose to be a past in life, u have to just let her be. Focus on becoming the man God want u to be and with time u will forget her and have enough reason in d future to thank God that she left you in 2016....
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by baum1: 11:06pm On Jul 12, 2016
duscollins:

Good guys often finish last. You are right, a professor of psychology at Havard university came up with such findings in a related research last week. This lady does not to be your wife, please don't regret, move on and move on quickly.

Can you please point to this paper or provide the link..Would love to read it..Meanwhile, I will be doing a google search just in case I'm able to find am.
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by princejayboss: 11:06pm On Jul 12, 2016
Why you go date woman 5years without even taking drink to know her father or her people, something dey worry you for head?
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by hatbricker: 11:07pm On Jul 12, 2016
Op this is for you

Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by dododawa1: 11:07pm On Jul 12, 2016
See men and love thing
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by Nobody: 11:07pm On Jul 12, 2016
Lord of the ring in the making>>>>>>
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by burticious(m): 11:07pm On Jul 12, 2016
My friend, if you ARE a religious person, go seek for spiritual guidance from your alfa or prophet If she's a right lady for your or not.. If you are told she's right lady for you.. Get back to me..we can help you get her back.. But if she's a bad choice for your life.. Bro Thank your star and move on
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by iRyan(m): 11:07pm On Jul 12, 2016
That sucks bro. You may think she's stopped loving but you can't be sure. She left you for reasons best known by her alone. Maybe you don't satisfy her sexually, as such, she doesn't wanna act out by cheating on you, or there's something about you she just couldn't continue to keep up with. She's probably keeping those reasons to herself because she doesn't wanna dampen your spirit, or hurt you.
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by jclassiq(m): 11:07pm On Jul 12, 2016
@OP. Bro, this is life!!!

Suck it up, man.

Its not gonna be an easy one I tell you. Especially seeing as she simply said its over without proffering any serious reason for her action.

Still we have to move on. Been there done that. Life goes on, bro.

So sorry.
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by Mememan: 11:08pm On Jul 12, 2016
BrokenHeart2016:
Right now my heart is heavy, am in a state of confusion I don't know what to do.On saturday I received the shock of my life through a text message from my girlfriend stating that I should move on with my life that it is over between us, at first I thought I was dreaming because I just got up from bed at exactly 7am, I ignored the text thinking it was a mistake had to shower and get ready for work. The following day which happens to be on sunday I called her and She told me that she has think about it that I should move on with my life...its over!!! I asked her what have I done to deserve such a thing from her she was unable to justify her action.
O boy, my jaw drop e be like say dem use dagger pierced my heart have never experience such thing in my life, I do read it online about how girls break up with their partner with no reason I can't believe this is happening to me. This is a girl that I really care for we met during our National Diploma program in 2012, she will be graduating this year while am about to put in for my HND.
Am not boasting about what have done for her but I just want you guys to understand my plight, I help her financially during her two years of studies pay her school fees and other miscellaneous while am still hustling. During our five years of courtship have never thought of cheating her or dump her for no reason I always make sure she's comfortable because her parents has passed. Since saturday my life have never been the same because the tone of text msg always ring on my head, am so sad right now I can't think straight anymore my boss at work notice my mood today and ask me what's up with me I had to dodge the question....till now I always look at my phone hoping to see her call or text maybe she was joking with me, I really love her so much and I always express my love to her though am not financially bouyant at the moment but I always do everything in my capacity to ensure she is Ok....there was a time i use money meant for my handouts to buy her foodstuffs and all, have sacrifice a lot for her during our academic days I finished with Lower Credit while she has Upper Credit. I'm not jealous of her success but frankly speaking I make impact in her life in general, I do see her as the mother of my kids there are a lot of plan I have for her, we always discuss this all the time. Right now she school in osun state while am hustling here in oyo state but I always travel to visit her from time to time and shower her with a lot of gifts.
Pls I need your advise on how to move on with my life because right now the thing is affecting my life I can't think straight anymore or even sleep very well. Bashing is also allowed I just want u guys to talk sense into my head.

Sorry for my grammatical blunders

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Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by hope4nigeria(m): 11:08pm On Jul 12, 2016
BrokenHeart2016:

Thanks for the advise bro, I really suffer in this relationship
Congratulation Op, God has just removoved Badluck from ur destiny! You are expected to go for thanks giving.
I had similar experience, my ex told me to my face that she never knew when I will become a man! OMG. She followed Ready made man! After 9yrs now, I'm happily married with Two boys! I later got info that my Ex got chronic Vibroid and her chances of bearing a child is slim! The already made man abandon her! Till now she never married! We met recently in abuja! I took her to a restaurant! She was crying full of regrets while I'm giving thanks to God because I loved her then more than my live! She was later begging me for money for her fibroid Operation! Which I sent her 50k! Tho my wife must never know of it sha, so Op thank God in Advance.

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Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by LuckyLadolce(m): 11:09pm On Jul 12, 2016
BrokenHeart2016:
Right now my heart is heavy, am in a state of confusion I don't know what to do.On saturday I received the shock of my life through a text message from my girlfriend stating that I should move on with my life that it is over between us, at first I thought I was dreaming because I just got up from bed at exactly 7am, I ignored the text thinking it was a mistake had to shower and get ready for work. The following day which happens to be on sunday I called her and She told me that she has think about it that I should move on with my life...its over!!! I asked her what have I done to deserve such a thing from her she was unable to justify her action.
O boy, my jaw drop e be like say dem use dagger pierced my heart have never experience such thing in my life, I do read it online about how girls break up with their partner with no reason I can't believe this is happening to me. This is a girl that I really care for we met during our National Diploma program in 2012, she will be graduating this year while am about to put in for my HND.
Am not boasting about what have done for her but I just want you guys to understand my plight, I help her financially during her two years of studies pay her school fees and other miscellaneous while am still hustling. During our five years of courtship have never thought of cheating her or dump her for no reason I always make sure she's comfortable because her parents has passed. Since saturday my life have never been the same because the tone of text msg always ring on my head, am so sad right now I can't think straight anymore my boss at work notice my mood today and ask me what's up with me I had to dodge the question....till now I always look at my phone hoping to see her call or text maybe she was joking with me, I really love her so much and I always express my love to her though am not financially bouyant at the moment but I always do everything in my capacity to ensure she is Ok....there was a time i use money meant for my handouts to buy her foodstuffs and all, have sacrifice a lot for her during our academic days I finished with Lower Credit while she has Upper Credit. I'm not jealous of her success but frankly speaking I make impact in her life in general, I do see her as the mother of my kids there are a lot of plan I have for her, we always discuss this all the time. Right now she school in osun state while am hustling here in oyo state but I always travel to visit her from time to time and shower her with a lot of gifts.
Pls I need your advise on how to move on with my life because right now the thing is affecting my life I can't think straight anymore or even sleep very well. Bashing is also allowed I just want u guys to talk sense into my head.

Sorry for my grammatical blunders
I've been there bro and I know how it feels.. Just move on and be keen on your personal development. Give yourself time, don't rush into a new relationship. Get busy with constructive schedules, and pray hard to forget about her. She Will still come back but don't accept her back. Just see her as a w.h.ore when she comes back. I wish you all the best. May God be with you. Take care.

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Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by AfroKnight: 11:10pm On Jul 12, 2016
sweetilicious:
Substitute is not a good advice. You don't have to change your personality just because others are doing so. Faithful guys should be faithful likewise girls. It will help you stay focused. Having numerous partner just cos you wanna run away from heart break will give you the worst surprise. Diseases are real biko. Guys don't listen to him for your saftey.

I did not advice him to sleep with his partners.
Re: My Girlfriend Just Broke Our 5 Year Relationship. Pls I Need Advise!!! by Nobody: 11:10pm On Jul 12, 2016
fortunechy:
just ask google
........ grin grin grin

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