sorry bout d way I'm typing this..pls bear with me...My girlfriend of 2 months old n i ended stuffs today. I've been everythin she culd ask 4 since we started datin. few weeks back i noticed she changd, i wanted 2 knw what's wrong,& each time i try 2 ask,she just wave it off. I'm a music producer,i dnt want games,I wantd a real relationship,my last relationship was 2 yrs ago. Not dat i'm a player,stayed alone cus i just wantd 2 b sure i'm ready before dating. My boss (snr producer) knew her b4 i did though, theyre frnds, his fiancee do come 2 d studio almost everyday, i know how much they love each other..last night i msgd my girlfriend n told her I wasnt feeling good cus of her sudden change.. today at d studio, sessions werent on,we were all gistin with some artistes, "see wetin dis girl(my GF) dey claim" dat was what i heard, "she say she loves u" #points 2 my boss#...in my mind,I was like wtf? her frnds around were like yea she loves him..i looked at her only fr her 2 nod her head sayin its true. I ended stuffs dat moment with her,
... I was hurt, angry, in pain there where i sat. all this happened cus she was hanging around today and her friend also. I said nothing, only a few other artists knew i was dating her, nd few of her friends also knew except the one around today. I told her so its true and she couldnt respect my feelings n tell me d truth? Told her i'm leaving her so she can go have the guy she wants. she said nothing, what i couldn't figure was d fact that she's aware of my boss fiancee (they see but they dont talk) and yet she could think dat way, I left their midst, was at d studio,couldnt think straight,felt like walls were closing in on me, temperature rised up, i had to leave the studio. I'm at home right now i'm filled with hate,and pain. I dnt knw if i did d right thing at all..i'm just lost..i need a shoulder right now, this isnt fair, i was happy i fell in love n thought i had what i wanted, the relationship turned out to be a bloody mirage..i dont deserve dis, i'm thinkin of building walls back around me.

brother, I don't know if you're true lover like me before experience with ladies stirred me around. Ladies are very indecisive and they don't worth sincere love.

if you're going to be in love again don't take it serious with ladies. but if with men sha. they appreciate love better '

Not again this night, too much sad love story since morning

All you need right now is some cool music to put you to sleep. When you wake up, you'll realize life is better off without some people.

Very emotional, but in trying to prove a point you messed up everything.

Love is a very confusing thing most especially to us ladies. Perhaps, she sees the kind of man she needs in your boss. Please forgive her. It maybe:

- Money, security
- Sense of Responsibility
-Good looks e.t.c

There wasn't any relationship between you guys. I feel she only needed you as means to be around the studio perhaps to entice your boss or dated you at of petty, (your loneliness) and you never read the signs.


Do not enclose yourself like you did for 2 years. Go out with your friends, meet new people and have fun.

Too long post, not properly paragraphed.

Sorry i cant go through the pain of reading this.



Finally read it.

Next time you date,

Have these things at the back of your mind.

Love doesn't exist.

Make sure that person appreciates you. The moment you find lapses, take the next exit door.

Communicate, you both should be able to share your deepest feelings and thoughts.

We all make mistakes and have our own fvck ups so be ready to forgive.

Lastly, make sure you guys are good friends.
The different e between lovers and those in the friendzone is that the latter don't make their intentions known

She was never worth your time to start with. Work harder and become a great producer. If you're angry, channel the anger into your music. I'm a music producer myself and that's what I always do: I turn my sorrows into money. Keep your head up, you'll meet someone truly special pretty soon.

Op, sorry about what happened. I understand how you feel. Atleast i know you are depressed.Its okay to lock yourself in atleast cry over the disappointment. But at the end, you have to fight that anger;do not let it take over you. She never had respect for you. Its not your fault she is leaving. The only person that can make you happy is you.Do not do anything stupid. In life,your soulmate will be the one that accepts you genuinely just as you do. If she doesn't accept you as you did, then she is not for you. Calm down and work on retrieving back your damaged emotions. Experiences makes people matured. Don't worry, you will be happy again.

PushPlay:
Too long post, not properly paragraphed.

Sorry i cant go through the pain of reading this.

Read this as slowly as you can, or rather give someone else the phone to explain to you


The latter Is a music producer, his girlfriend betrayed his luv for her n equally brok' his heart. he's going through an emotional pain.

Haute:
She was never worth your time to start with. Work harder and become a great producer. If you're angry, channel the anger into your music. I'm a music producer myself and that's what I always do: I turn my sorrows into money. Keep your head up, you'll meet someone truly special pretty soon.

thanks bro

if someone is meant to be in ur life u dnt nid to wait for them, they will catch up with u.thats if they ar really meant to b part of u.

U need to calm down op. She wasn't meant for u in anyway. Tnk ur star self cus d truth cam out now. U need 2 relax. Don't giv her smtn to mock u of. Improve on urslf i.e career, investment, make more money, be good. Let her regret of eva brakn up with u. Pls shine ur eyes well b4 entering anoda relationship. Go out and make good friends. She didn't deserve a kind hearted person lik u.

sweetilicious:
Op, sorry about what happened. I understand how you feel. Atleast i know you are depressed.Its okay to lock yourself in atleast cry over the disappointment. But at the end, you have to fight that anger;do not let it take over you. She never had respect for you. Its not your fault she is leaving. The only person that can make you happy is you.Do not do anything stupid. In life,your soulmate will be the one that accepts you genuinely just as you do. If she doesn't accept you as you did, then she is not for you. Calm down and work on retrieving back your damaged emotions. Experiences makes people matured. Don't worry, you will be happy again.

Just so weak, thank you

Vendoor:
Very emotional, but in trying to prove a point you messed up everything.

Love is a very confusing thing most especially to us ladies. Perhaps, she sees the kind of man she needs in your boss. Please forgive her. It maybe:

- Money, security
- Sense of Responsibility
-Good looks e.t.c

There wasn't any relationship between you guys. I feel she only needed you as means to be around the studio perhaps to entice your boss or dated you at of petty, (your loneliness) and you never read the signs.


Do not enclose yourself like you did for 2 years. Go out with your friends, meet new people and have fun.

thanks, n ma'm pls i'd like to knw how i messed everything, pls?

kiddoiLL:
thanks, n ma'm pls i'd like to knw how i messed everything, pls?

You should have played along and zero her off your mind for any serious relationship.
Perhaps, this loneliness won't have resurface. While you look around for someone who deserve your love and commitments.

Thats what ladies do!

kiddoiLL:
sorry bout d way I'm typing this..pls bear with me...My girlfriend of 2 months old n i ended stuffs today. I've been everythin she culd ask 4 since we started datin. few weeks back i noticed she changd, i wanted 2 knw what's wrong,& each time i try 2 ask,she just wave it off. I'm a music producer,i dnt want games,I wantd a real relationship,my last relationship was 2 yrs ago. Not dat i'm a player,stayed alone cus i just wantd 2 b sure i'm ready before dating. My boss (snr producer) knew her b4 i did though, theyre frnds, his fiancee do come 2 d studio almost everyday, i know how much they love each other..last night i msgd my girlfriend n told her I wasnt feeling good cus of her sudden change.. today at d studio, sessions werent on,we were all gistin with some artistes, "see wetin dis girl(my GF) dey claim" dat was what i heard, "she say she loves u" #points 2 my boss#...in my mind,I was like wtf? her frnds around were like yea she loves him..i looked at her only fr her 2 nod her head sayin its true. I ended stuffs dat moment with her,
... I was hurt, angry, in pain there where i sat. all this happened cus she was hanging around today and her friend also. I said nothing, only a few other artists knew i was dating her, nd few of her friends also knew except the one around today. I told her so its true and she couldnt respect my feelings n tell me d truth? Told her i'm leaving her so she can go have the guy she wants. she said nothing, what i couldn't figure was d fact that she's aware of my boss fiancee (they see but they dont talk) and yet she could think dat way, I left their midst, was at d studio,couldnt think straight,felt like walls were closing in on me, temperature rised up, i had to leave the studio. I'm at home right now i'm filled with hate,and pain. I dnt knw if i did d right thing at all..i'm just lost..i need a shoulder right now, this isnt fair, i was happy i fell in love n thought i had what i wanted, the relationship turned out to be a bloody mirage..i dont deserve dis, i'm thinkin of building walls back around me.

frget dat b1tch n face ur daw.. Improve ur game. Are u sure u really luv wat u doing? It should be ur first luv,live it,breath it, eat it n fvck wit it. It should be d medium wit which u should express ur self xcpt u just an apprentice i knw d settings worked in one like 4yrs back..any hw commit urself,teach urself via xpecially @ midnight..youtube,destiny is calling u n dat b!1tch is a bad distraction. Dont take my words 4 granted

kiddoiLL:
Just so weak, thank you

You are welcome.

dairykidd:


frget dat b1tch n face ur daw.. Improve ur game. Are u sure u really luv wat u doing? It should be ur first luv,live it,breath it, eat it n fvck wit it. It should be d medium wit which u should express ur self xcpt u just an apprentice i knw d settings worked in one like 4yrs back..any hw commit urself,teach urself via xpecially @ midnight..youtube,destiny is calling u n dat b!1tch is a bad distraction. Dont take my words 4 granted

much thanks bro

Vendoor:


You should have played along and zero her off your mind for any serious relationship.
Perhaps, this loneliness won't have resurface. While you look around for someone who deserve your love and commitments.

Thats what ladies do!

its not that easy

All you need right now is fresh air and cool music.. .. Maybe karaoke get it off your mind be happy....... She isn't worth your love so give her a break dear you will be fine.

After the reggae play the blues. Even your boo get a b..


I'm not amazed ur type of music producer don't flow with lyrics of songs just beats. Stop moaning.Stand up and work on your career

kiddoiLL:
sorry bout d way I'm typing this..pls bear with me...My girlfriend of 2 months old n i ended stuffs today. I've been everythin she culd ask 4 since we started datin. few weeks back i noticed she changd, i wanted 2 knw what's wrong,& each time i try 2 ask,she just wave it off. I'm a music producer,i dnt want games,I wantd a real relationship,my last relationship was 2 yrs ago. Not dat i'm a player,stayed alone cus i just wantd 2 b sure i'm ready before dating. My boss (snr producer) knew her b4 i did though, theyre frnds, his fiancee do come 2 d studio almost everyday, i know how much they love each other..last night i msgd my girlfriend n told her I wasnt feeling good cus of her sudden change.. today at d studio, sessions werent on,we were all gistin with some artistes, "see wetin dis girl(my GF) dey claim" dat was what i heard, "she say she loves u" #points 2 my boss#...in my mind,I was like wtf? her frnds around were like yea she loves him..i looked at her only fr her 2 nod her head sayin its true. I ended stuffs dat moment with her,
... I was hurt, angry, in pain there where i sat. all this happened cus she was hanging around today and her friend also. I said nothing, only a few other artists knew i was dating her, nd few of her friends also knew except the one around today. I told her so its true and she couldnt respect my feelings n tell me d truth? Told her i'm leaving her so she can go have the guy she wants. she said nothing, what i couldn't figure was d fact that she's aware of my boss fiancee (they see but they dont talk) and yet she could think dat way, I left their midst, was at d studio,couldnt think straight,felt like walls were closing in on me, temperature rised up, i had to leave the studio. I'm at home right now i'm filled with hate,and pain. I dnt knw if i did d right thing at all..i'm just lost..i need a shoulder right now, this isnt fair, i was happy i fell in love n thought i had what i wanted, the relationship turned out to be a bloody mirage..i dont deserve dis, i'm thinkin of building walls back around me.

let me be the first to welcome you to #lovedon'texist clan. first of all, you didn't do anything wrong, you only wemt into a relationship with the intent of falling in love. see bro next time go into it with an open mind n bearing in mind that love doesn't exist.that way you won't fall for any gimmick from anyone.It's normal to b angry and pained now but is better to move on..just accept it that she wasn't meant for you and its her loss not yours.so bro cheer up, if possible get close to any of her friend n if you have the chance hit her cus ladies despise when a guy hitting on them leave them for their friend even if they dont want him..finally when you are getting a gf make sure you get a side chick and don't feel bad or guilt about it is cus for cases like this, that the word sidechick came into existence.

Vendoor:


You should have played along and zero her off your mind for any serious relationship.
Perhaps, this loneliness won't have resurface. While you look around for someone who deserve your love and commitments.

Thats what ladies do!

you still want to confuse the op with the word love again..knowing fully well that's what got him into this mess in the first place..

the word love has lost its true meaning and people only use it this days to deceive people and satisfy their selfish urge or need.

97% relationship this days are overrated and is slowly creeping into marriages, mostly early marriages due to the global world we find ourself in this days and all thanks to social media and platform that have done more harm than good to relationships n marriages.

my dear love doesn't exis or its true meaning can't b practiced by humans, except the selfish part.

schumastic:


let me be the first to welcome you to #lovedon'texist clan. first of all, you didn't do anything wrong, you only wemt into a relationship with the intent of falling in love. see bro next time go into it with an open mind n bearing in mind that love doesn't exist.that way you won't fall for any gimmick from anyone.It's normal to b angry and pained now but is better to move on..just accept it that she wasn't meant for you and its her loss not yours.so bro cheer up, if possible get close to any of her friend n if you have the chance hit her cus ladies despise when a guy hitting on them leave them for their friend even if they dont want him..finally when you are getting a gf make sure you get a side chick and don't feel bad or guilt about it is cus for cases like this, that the word sidechick came into existence.

i'm on dis road now i guess, i'll be fine..nd thanks

schumastic:


you still want to confuse the op with the word love again..knowing fully well that's what got him into this mess in the first place..

the word love has lost its true meaning and people only use it this days to deceive people and satisfy their selfish urge or need.

97% relationship this days are overrated and is slowly creeping into marriages, mostly early marriages due to the global world we find ourself in this days and all thanks to social media and platform that have done more harm than good to relationships n marriages.

my dear love doesn't exis or its true meaning can't b practiced by humans, except the selfish part.

Sometimes,things don't just go the way we want them esp when it comes to love...

Shez a fool,we both know it..

Go and bath,eat as much as you can,watch cartoon if you can tho...cry if it hurts that bad even if she doesn't worth it...

You will be fine but not too soon...that's the truth

I sympathize with you dear...let's cry together..

O women,where art thou hearts??
where have thy flung them to??

U need to chill smoke some weed, or drink or play some games, you should be happy , for now forget relationships think about career. All relationships are bound to fail

sashishalom:
Sometimes,things don't just go the way we want them esp when it comes to love...

Shez a fool,we both know it..

Go and bath,eat as much as you can,watch cartoon if you can tho...cry if it hurts that bad even if she doesn't worth it...

You will be fine but not too soon...that's the truth

I sympathize with you dear...let's cry together..

O women,where art thou hearts??
where have thy flung them to??

@shashishalom.LOL You aint nice. You want him to cry? How many hrs and how many days plus wks. Be precise.

classichsy:







@shashishalom.LOL You aint nice. You want him to cry? How many hrs and how many days plus wks. Be precise.

It depends on how much he loved her...its a process lovers who get their hearts broken must go through...am not wicked joor..he needs his grieving time...let him have it,feel better and bounce back....

pcguru1:
U need to chill smoke some weed, or drink or play some games, you should be happy , for now forget relationships think about career. All relationships are bound to fail

Not all joor