Wonders they said shall never end A marriage counselor has explained why married men need to have a ‘girlfriend’. According to Frank Adofoli a marriage counselor from Ghana, all couples who intend to make their marriage work need to make sure the man of the house has a girlfriend. Adofoli is not
necessarily encouraging cheating in marriage, instead he gave an insight into why you need to rediscover the ‘boo, bae’ you married and why you turned her from girlfriend to wife. Counselor Frank Adofoli “Yes, every husband needs a girlfriend, not another woman but the girl part of the wife he once fell in love with. You may buy a new lock made of steel, with its keys.

The key doesn’t spoil the lock nor vice versa but over the years, the environment and factors such as dirt, rain, change in weather, etc may cause the lock to rust. So it’s important to oil and maintain it. A similar fate occurs in our relationships. You get married to that young, fun, adventurous girlfriend. As time goes on, most ladies assume that once they earn the title of a wife, no more work is required. It even gets worse when she starts bearing children.

That thought is a lie, Marriage is work dear. You will need to work on your marriage. Remember the things he first fell in love with, things about you that captured his heart and attracted him like a magnet; what did this man see in you? Are you still doing those things, how is the fun in the marriage? What is he complaining about? Do you see him chatting with other ladies, trying to look elsewhere? It’s time to work on yourself.

Your husband is wrong to look elsewhere, and you have the power to keep him home. Exercise regularly, lose the excess weight and eat healthy. Inside beauty is not enough, external beauty is important, maintain what God gave you. Don’t let marriage makes you look older than your age. Dirt and uncleanliness is a common killer of intimacy in marriage. Some wives are too lazy to keep their surroundings organized and clean.

The presence of children in your marriage should not kill your romance or intimacy. Remember how many times you bath a day when you were going on a date? how fresh and clean you looked? If you can keep your home and yourself like that, you will bring back the intimacy. When was the last time you sent that cute sms? When was the last time you had that candle light dinner? When was last time you appreciated your partner’s efforts?

How is your sex life? Most couples crave for sex when dating but turn their bedroom into courtroom when married, it’s time to go back! Don’t let your actions part God’s union as Matthew 19:6 (ESV) cautions “So they are no longer two but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let not man separate.I will stop here until i see comments then i will post the rest but if you can't wait follow here to read the rest” http://levelhealth..com.ng/2016/07/every-mrried-man-should-have-girlfriend.html

What is dis one saying ?

Keep deceiving people, sin of adultery can never be justified. A married man is meant to stick to his wife only!

Chibuhealth:
Keep deceiving people, sin of adultery can never be justified. A married man is meant to stick to his wife only!

Doubt you read the article

Correct man! He understands the nature of man.

*double post*

Chysexy:
Wonders they said shall never end A marriage counselor has explained why married men need to have a ‘girlfriend’. According to Frank Adofoli a marriage counselor from Ghana, all couples who intend to make their marriage work need to make sure the man of the house has a girlfriend. Adofoli is not
necessarily encouraging cheating in marriage, instead he gave an insight into why you need to rediscover the ‘boo, bae’ you married and why you turned her from girlfriend to wife. Counselor Frank Adofoli “Yes, every husband needs a girlfriend, not another woman but the girl part of the wife he once fell in love with. You may buy a new lock made of steel, with its keys.

The key doesn’t spoil the lock nor vice versa but over the years, the environment and factors such as dirt, rain, change in weather, etc may cause the lock to rust. So it’s important to oil and maintain it. A similar fate occurs in our relationships. You get married to that young, fun, adventurous girlfriend. As time goes on, most ladies assume that once they earn the title of a wife, no more work is required. It even gets worse when she starts bearing children.

That thought is a lie, Marriage is work dear. You will need to work on your marriage. Remember the things he first fell in love with, things about you that captured his heart and attracted him like a magnet; what did this man see in you? Are you still doing those things, how is the fun in the marriage? What is he complaining about? Do you see him chatting with other ladies, trying to look elsewhere? It’s time to work on yourself.

Your husband is wrong to look elsewhere, and you have the power to keep him home. Exercise regularly, lose the excess weight and eat healthy. Inside beauty is not enough, external beauty is important, maintain what God gave you. Don’t let marriage makes you look older than your age. Dirt and uncleanliness is a common killer of intimacy in marriage. Some wives are too lazy to keep their surroundings organized and clean.

The presence of children in your marriage should not kill your romance or intimacy. Remember how many times you bath a day when you were going on a date? how fresh and clean you looked? If you can keep your home and yourself like that, you will bring back the intimacy. When was the last time you sent that cute sms? When was the last time you had that candle light dinner? When was last time you appreciated your partner’s efforts?

How is your sex life? Most couples crave for sex when dating but turn their bedroom into courtroom when married, it’s time to go back! Don’t let your actions part God’s union as Matthew 19:6 (ESV) cautions “So they are no longer two but one flesh. What therefore God has joined together, let not man separate.I will stop here until i see comments then i will post the rest but if you can't wait follow here to read the rest” http://levelhealth..com.ng/2016/07/every-mrried-man-should-have-girlfriend.html

All he is trying to say is marriage a continuous work to getting a happy home,not forgetting to spice up ur marriage doing all d fun things that got u attracted to him\her( also a continuous check in our hygiene,character,personal relationship e.t.c)

Chibuhealth:
Keep deceiving people, sin of adultery can never be justified. A married man is meant to stick to his wife only!

Always try and read the content before comment that way you will sound more reasonable no need to hurry

End time counsellor