Advice

Juz give him a space... As long he is not married to her, there's nothing to worry about... But if u want a bachelor, then move on.


Everything is ur hands.. Take a pick which u think is better for u...

and who still beleive in distant relationship?....abeg if u cant handle it, move on jare..






Nairaland bitchesss got ur back..

Give him a break to sort things out with his babymama.


If he loves u, he will cme back for u.

Try nd support him in anyway u can.







Dear future hubby, better stack cd in ur wallet coz I dnt Wana be a step mama

Jolsnow:
He told you the truth.
It could be so easy for him to hide this.

He made a mistake and it's back to hunt him.
So don't push him away. Instead be supportive.
Try overcome this hurdle together. Forgive Him.

Bro, let us turn the table; would u accept this if u were to be the guy and ur babe came up with this?...Personally, i wont! I think the guy is @ fault, he ought to av told her b4 now...OP,the ball is in ur court.

Give him time

DoPeRoSa:
Hey guys..I need your advice on this

I've been dating this guy for over a year(distance relationship), our relationship has been amazing so far, though we do have issues but we are still going strong. About a week ago I noticed he isn't really the himself,so i asked what's wrong,he said it was due to stress from work,I accepted...but his attitude change even more and I insisted he tells me what is really happening,after much persuasion ,he agreed to tell me what is actually wrong when we chat online,I said ok.

Two nights ago we chatted, and I asked him to tell me what is wrong,because his mood and new attitude has affected me alot....To my greatest surprise he said his baby mama is around and she is giving him a tough time,I just thought he was playing around until he said he is serious,saying the girl is not in his life.. This is a guy I've loved with all my heart,The most painful part was that he never mentioned it to me,I could recall a time we were having a discussion that he asked "what would I do if he had a baby mama?" I just laughed over it and asked him if he had one,He said no, Tears alone cannot express how I feel right now,he has been apologizing ever since then saying "I'm the one he loves,he's going through hell without me" This is a guy I truly love

Should I move on with my life or continue the relationship??
cc:lalasticlala

op there is a lot to worry about, don't answer that trapqueen.why didn't he tell you from the on set?
i won't be surprise if you are his side chick cus distance relationship is a no no...you can't even confront him or go see things for yourself cus of the distance..i really pity those in distant relationship cus is more or less like a deceiving game being played by both parties..my advice to you is MOVE ON

Toor, I will brb.....

sinaj:
Give him a break to sort things out with his babymama.


If he loves u, he will cme back for u.

Try nd support him in anyway u can.







Dear future hubby, better stack cd in ur wallet coz I dnt Wana be a step mama

Haha... he ain't hearing u

armylord:
Haha... he ain't hearing u

I wasn't referring to Buhari

sinaj:
I wasn't referring to Buhari

haba I know na.. thats ur great grandfather.. I meant vizkiz..

DoPeRoSa:
Hey guys..I need your advice on this

I've been dating this guy for over a year(distance relationship), our relationship has been amazing so far, though we do have issues but we are still going strong. About a week ago I noticed he isn't really the himself,so i asked what's wrong,he said it was due to stress from work,I accepted...but his attitude change even more and I insisted he tells me what is really happening,after much persuasion ,he agreed to tell me what is actually wrong when we chat online,I said ok.

Two nights ago we chatted, and I asked him to tell me what is wrong,because his mood and new attitude has affected me alot....To my greatest surprise he said his baby mama is around and she is giving him a tough time,I just thought he was playing around until he said he is serious,saying the girl is not in his life.. This is a guy I've loved with all my heart,The most painful part was that he never mentioned it to me,I could recall a time we were having a discussion that he asked "what would I do if he had a baby mama?" I just laughed over it and asked him if he had one,He said no, Tears alone cannot express how I feel right now,he has been apologizing ever since then saying "I'm the one he loves,he's going through hell without me" This is a guy I truly love

Should I move on with my life or continue the relationship??
cc:lalasticlala

even if he have a child that does not mean he don't love you, he was even afraid to ask you that's why he use style to ask u the other time, he love you I believe, ask him where you stand in his heart and if both of you have future together.