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| "Testing" Your Partner To See If They Pass The Fidelity Test by Cutehector(m): 8:21pm On Jul 23, 2016 |
Some of us like to play dirty games in our relationships, our insecurities have gone to the extreme we now set trap for our partners to see if they would ever cheat on us. Some go as far as creating a new account and adding their hubby on social media either whatsapp, bbm, or whichever disguising under a very sexy lady or guy to entrap their partner to see if he/she will pass the fidelity test. Now I put this foward to guys and ladies out there, do you think such measure is efficient to know the extent to which your man/woman really loves you? Do you think it's a bad/good measure? Do you also think you can forgive him/her should you happen to be "tested" and you found out? 10 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: "Testing" Your Partner To See If They Pass The Fidelity Test by MzPecs(f): 8:23pm On Jul 23, 2016 |
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| Re: "Testing" Your Partner To See If They Pass The Fidelity Test by falconey(m): 8:24pm On Jul 23, 2016 |
 don't test me ........ my fiasco is inevitable. 12 Likes 4 Shares |
| Re: "Testing" Your Partner To See If They Pass The Fidelity Test by halfricanadian(f): 8:24pm On Jul 23, 2016 |
It hurts i just move on somethings u dont av to fix them or dey get damaged d more just leave it nd move on 3 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: "Testing" Your Partner To See If They Pass The Fidelity Test by BlizzydoDo(f): 8:24pm On Jul 23, 2016 |
I cnt test my partner, & I'll feel very hurt if I find out. 3 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: "Testing" Your Partner To See If They Pass The Fidelity Test by Rexhenrex(m): 8:26pm On Jul 23, 2016 |
Thats a very illogical thing to do and it makes no sense in trying it on your partner only if and only if you suspect them cheating on you.but aside that why do you need testing your spouse when they have never done anything to arouse the contempt of your trust for them....an ex did that by sending her bestie to try and know if am loyal to her by dating me. trust me the bestie sold her out by actually dating me and it tore my bae apart but she cost it and i dated her bestie without an iota of pity,because it didn't warrant it because i loved her but it hurt me because she had doubts of me. Everyone has a weak point no need testing there loyalty till the need warrants so to me its a capital NO trying this is using your own hand in ruining your relationship because when your spouse find out it might not go down well. 70 Likes 6 Shares |
| Re: "Testing" Your Partner To See If They Pass The Fidelity Test by SweetieConstie(f): 8:26pm On Jul 23, 2016 |
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| Re: "Testing" Your Partner To See If They Pass The Fidelity Test by ronald4lif(m): 8:28pm On Jul 23, 2016 |
Modified: it's not a bad idea. Thought it's fertility test, now I see clearly.  2 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: "Testing" Your Partner To See If They Pass The Fidelity Test by Frozeen(m): 8:29pm On Jul 23, 2016 |
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| Re: "Testing" Your Partner To See If They Pass The Fidelity Test by cruzita(f): 8:29pm On Jul 23, 2016 |
very risky game o very dangerous no be telemundo o 3 Likes 3 Shares |
| Re: "Testing" Your Partner To See If They Pass The Fidelity Test by LuveU2(f): 8:30pm On Jul 23, 2016 |
Well if there is any need to start testing u, then u have created suspicion in my mind. The next thing would be to think of moving on... 4 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: "Testing" Your Partner To See If They Pass The Fidelity Test by Nobody: 8:32pm On Jul 23, 2016 |
Put me to this test and fail woefully 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: "Testing" Your Partner To See If They Pass The Fidelity Test by Cutehector(m): 8:33pm On Jul 23, 2016 |
LuveU2:Wat if u got tested and found out? Would u forgive? |
| Re: "Testing" Your Partner To See If They Pass The Fidelity Test by Nobody: 8:33pm On Jul 23, 2016 |
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| Re: "Testing" Your Partner To See If They Pass The Fidelity Test by jashar(f): 8:34pm On Jul 23, 2016 |
error!!!!. 1 Like 2 Shares |
| Re: "Testing" Your Partner To See If They Pass The Fidelity Test by Nobody: 8:34pm On Jul 23, 2016 |
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| Re: "Testing" Your Partner To See If They Pass The Fidelity Test by LuveU2(f): 8:35pm On Jul 23, 2016 |
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| Re: "Testing" Your Partner To See If They Pass The Fidelity Test by Cutehector(m): 8:36pm On Jul 23, 2016 |
ronald4lif: make I no just yab u first. Make I keep kwayet make I no derail dis awesome thread  |
| Re: "Testing" Your Partner To See If They Pass The Fidelity Test by idearito(m): 8:37pm On Jul 23, 2016 |
Trial Survival is a necessity in every relationship!!! The best measure to check who we are dating in dia real form is by putting dem 2ru tests!!! Simple and Practical tho!! 6 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: "Testing" Your Partner To See If They Pass The Fidelity Test by Cutehector(m): 8:37pm On Jul 23, 2016 |
jashar:lol please expanciate 1 Like |
| Re: "Testing" Your Partner To See If They Pass The Fidelity Test by LuveU2(f): 8:37pm On Jul 23, 2016 |
Cutehector:Ive never tested anyonone, never will. But if he cheats on me, i forgive and move on with my life. 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: "Testing" Your Partner To See If They Pass The Fidelity Test by Cutehector(m): 8:39pm On Jul 23, 2016 |
LuveU2: 2 Likes |
| Re: "Testing" Your Partner To See If They Pass The Fidelity Test by rheether(f): 8:42pm On Jul 23, 2016 |
My ex tried it with me. He asked his cousin to woo me and lo and behold I fell for his cousin instantly. We are in the our second now and the relationship has been worth it. 7 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: "Testing" Your Partner To See If They Pass The Fidelity Test by jashar(f): 8:43pm On Jul 23, 2016 |
Cutehector: it usually ends bad. You end up causing more harm than good. Why would you go out of your way to test your partner? Shows you have control/trust issues. Life brings enough tests one's way. Why add to it? 16 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: "Testing" Your Partner To See If They Pass The Fidelity Test by Cutehector(m): 8:46pm On Jul 23, 2016 |
rheether: ur ex must be one hell of a stvpid boyfrnd. Just look at how he let a pretty girl go just becaus of his stvpid insecurities |
| Re: "Testing" Your Partner To See If They Pass The Fidelity Test by Cutehector(m): 8:52pm On Jul 23, 2016 |
Rexhenrex:it's a pity we guys are being though about as cheats. Such warped mentality is what is costing a lot of ladies to lose "potential" husbands. 2 Likes |
| Re: "Testing" Your Partner To See If They Pass The Fidelity Test by Rexhenrex(m): 9:01pm On Jul 23, 2016 |
rheether:sorry to mention you but please i wanna grasp something here and i will be very well honoured if you answer me,thanks in advance. 1,was it that you didn't like your b.f that you fell for the cousin? 2,And also did you know prior before you fell for the cousin that your b.f sent him because if you didn't know before accepting his cousin then you never loved him 3,and how did your b.f act about you and his cousin rolling together? 4,lastly what made you accept the cousin? 29 Likes |
| Re: "Testing" Your Partner To See If They Pass The Fidelity Test by Nobody: 9:05pm On Jul 23, 2016 |
I'll love him more if he passes with flying colors 2 Likes 2 Shares |
| Re: "Testing" Your Partner To See If They Pass The Fidelity Test by Rexhenrex(m): 9:06pm On Jul 23, 2016 |
Cutehector:you ccan say that again most times people lose trustworthy people because of lack of trust 3 Likes |
| Re: "Testing" Your Partner To See If They Pass The Fidelity Test by OCTAVO: 9:10pm On Jul 23, 2016 |
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| Re: "Testing" Your Partner To See If They Pass The Fidelity Test by penzino(m): 9:11pm On Jul 23, 2016 |
I am still of the opinion that you Should not ask questions you don't want to know the answer to!!! 3 Likes 1 Share |
| Re: "Testing" Your Partner To See If They Pass The Fidelity Test by McBrooklyn(m): 9:12pm On Jul 23, 2016 |
OK |
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