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I Left My Fiancé For A Girl by ournaijablog(f): 11:58am On Aug 04, 2016
Bisi and I went to the same boarding school, she was two classes ahead of me; she was the first person I made friends with during my first year in school, I was very shy and introverted so it was really difficult to make friends as everyone thought I was a snub and a rich spoilt kid.

I saw nothing wrong when Bisi touched my boobs playfully anytime we were having our bath, or how she always wanted to share my bunk with me, or how her finger always played with my clitoris anytime she snuggled in bed with me, I kinda liked it so I said nothing and she continued, well one day we made full blown love and I liked it, I was into her, I liked her a lot, we continued till she graduated and I didn’t wanna do it with anyone else so I thought that phase of my life was over, “A phase I thought”

I had forgotten all about Bisi, I went to the university, graduated, met a nice guy, got a great job, I would term my life as being content, I had everything I wanted, Until I went to a conference in South Africa and saw Bisi, she came up to me and said “Nike, Nike!!!! OMG Nike is this you” I was confused at first, it’s been almost 15 years, but her voice was familiar, I know I had heard it before, I just couldn’t place it then she said “So you have forgotten your lover”? Then it all came back to me, Bisi! I screamed, we hugged, talk, we just couldn’t stop.


We reminisced on the past and talked about the present, we were doing really well for ourselves, I told her about Daniel my fiancé, and I asked her if she has anyone, she told me she and her girlfriend recently broke up and she wasn’t ready to date anyone, I said “Girlfriend”? She laughed it off.

The next day I took a flight to Nigeria, Bisi and I kept in touch, my heart fluttered whenever she called, I didn’t have many friends, so I thought I was just happy I finally had one I could talk to, she came back to Nigeria, resumed at her office, and we had dinner almost every evening, Until one day we both got drunk, ended up at her apartment and made sweet love, Daniel has never touched me this way I said to myself.

I couldn’t stop, I was hooked, I went back for more, I had no time for Daniel, he would call and ask me to come over I’d make excuses upon excuses, Bisi and I continued for six months, then she told me she wanted something serious and I’d have to break up with Daniel, I said I couldn’t, what will people say! I screamed at her, we are in Nigeria, Africa, if people knew what we were doing we will be arrested or even stoned to death. I told her I want babies, I want a full blown BellaNaija wedding, I want my family to come to my wedding, I want my dad to give me away on the aisle, I can’t have these things with you I told her, we had a big fight I went home angry.


We didn’t speak for two months, I was miserable, work was boring, Daniel became irritating, I wouldn’t let him touch me, he would cry and plead and ask “Nifemi", what have I done wrong”? I wanted to tell him, I wanted to say Daniel I am in love with a girl; the words just wouldn’t leave my mouth, I couldn’t hurt him that way, yet I knew I couldn’t hurt him even more by getting married to him, Bisi kept calling, sending me messages, she wanted us to relocate, live our lives somewhere else, away from friends and family who wouldn’t understand our kind of love.


I don’t know what to do, I love Bisi, I know I do, maybe I have always been a lesbian, and she’s always known even before I knew, oh! How do I make people understand that a girl can love a girl this much? I have made up my mind, I know what to do.


Talk2Bella

https://talk2bella./2016/08/i-left-my-fiance-for-girl.html?showComment=1470302378289#c6155599696042311368

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Re: I Left My Fiancé For A Girl by johnson232: 12:03pm On Aug 04, 2016
rubbish!!!
Re: I Left My Fiancé For A Girl by Nobody: 12:09pm On Aug 04, 2016
grin



Nice story... If I we're her , I wud relocate myself with the one I truly love where ppol respect the LGBT community...Love conquered everything...

I may forget the full blown wedding atm or having the babies... Everything has a solution in the right time.

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Re: I Left My Fiancé For A Girl by Hawx(m): 12:11pm On Aug 04, 2016
Girlfriend, you had better retrace your steps or else you become eternally doomed.

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Re: I Left My Fiancé For A Girl by ournaijablog(f): 12:11pm On Aug 04, 2016
great advice, thanks

TrapQueen77:
grin



Nice story... If I we're her , I wud relocate myself with the one I truly love where ppol respect the LGBT community...Love conquered everything...

I may forget the full blown wedding atm or having the babies... Everything has a solution in the right time.
Re: I Left My Fiancé For A Girl by Headlesschicken(m): 12:11pm On Aug 04, 2016
undecided first of all,i wld like 2start by saying dat U nid Jesus,u probably encountered sm1 whom was carrying a strong foul spirit n she happened 2b yuh 1st love,n yea u might v enjoyed it bk den,buh come on gal,now yuh a grown up woman,ow u gon cope wiv her sagged bwests n Jajina in yrs 2cm if u finally decide 2b wiv her,4d sake of yuh family seek spiritual counsel cos its quite obvious dat u do not value yuhself dt much,like it or not,yuh not d one in control of yuh lyf ryt nw,wait untill u jam Christ then u wld understand....

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Re: I Left My Fiancé For A Girl by ournaijablog(f): 12:12pm On Aug 04, 2016
doomed? how?

Hawx:
Girlfriend, you had better retrace your steps or else you become eternally doomed.
Re: I Left My Fiancé For A Girl by ournaijablog(f): 12:13pm On Aug 04, 2016
so you're saying she's possessed?


Headlesschicken:
undecided first of all,i wld like 2start by saying dat U nid Jesus,u probably encountered sm1 whom was carrying a strong foul spirit n she happened 2b yuh 1st love,n yea u might v enjoyed it bk den,buh come on gal,now yuh a grown up woman,ow u gon cope wiv her sagged bwests n Jajina in yrs 2cm if u finally decide 2b wiv her,4d sake of yuh family seek spiritual counsel cos its quite obvious dat u do not value yuhself dt much,like it or not,yuh not d one in control of yuh lyf ryt nw,wait untill u jam Christ then u wld understand....
Re: I Left My Fiancé For A Girl by Headlesschicken(m): 12:19pm On Aug 04, 2016
ournaijablog:
so you're saying she's possessed?


am saying dat she's lost n was probably decieved in2 d act,cos if she had being wiv a man 1st,she might v made df choices,Yea sis she nids Christ... Wait untill she x delivered den u tel me whether she was posessed or not....
Re: I Left My Fiancé For A Girl by ournaijablog(f): 12:29pm On Aug 04, 2016
Headlesschicken:
am saying dat she's lost n was probably decieved in2 d act,cos if she had being wiv a man 1st,she might v made df choices,Yea sis she nids Christ... Wait untill she x delivered den u tel me whether she was posessed or not....

Having a different sexual preference doesn't mean one is possessed
Re: I Left My Fiancé For A Girl by obinnashady(m): 12:35pm On Aug 04, 2016
First of,You don't know how sweet a dick feels
your boyfriend is yet to fvck out that demon in you
Trust me,u've not had an encounter with a great dick
Re: I Left My Fiancé For A Girl by ournaijablog(f): 12:36pm On Aug 04, 2016
A good dicck has never solved anyone's problems has it? undecided


obinnashady:
First of,You don't know how sweet a dick feels

your boyfriend is yet to fvck out that demon in you

Trust me,u've not had an encounter with a great dick
Re: I Left My Fiancé For A Girl by Nobody: 12:40pm On Aug 04, 2016
Total rubbish
Re: I Left My Fiancé For A Girl by obinnashady(m): 12:47pm On Aug 04, 2016
ournaijablog:
A good dicck has never solved anyone's problems has it? undecided


It has solved a whole lot of problems

hope u are not 'like that' though
Re: I Left My Fiancé For A Girl by ournaijablog(f): 12:50pm On Aug 04, 2016
Like how?

obinnashady:
It has solved a whole lot of problems

hope u are not 'like that' though
Re: I Left My Fiancé For A Girl by ournaijablog(f): 12:50pm On Aug 04, 2016
How so?

Durentt:
Total rubbish
Re: I Left My Fiancé For A Girl by obinnashady(m): 12:51pm On Aug 04, 2016
ournaijablog:
Like how?
les!!
Re: I Left My Fiancé For A Girl by ournaijablog(f): 12:56pm On Aug 04, 2016
undecided oh that grin


obinnashady:
les!!
Re: I Left My Fiancé For A Girl by obinnashady(m): 1:00pm On Aug 04, 2016
ournaijablog:
undecided oh that grin

yes that
Re: I Left My Fiancé For A Girl by obinnashady(m): 1:01pm On Aug 04, 2016
ournaijablog:
undecided oh that grin

yes that
Re: I Left My Fiancé For A Girl by Nobody: 1:19pm On Aug 04, 2016
ournaijablog:
How so?
u are really stopid.
Mtcheeew. Hopeless les, don't quote me again
Re: I Left My Fiancé For A Girl by MDsambo: 2:13pm On Aug 04, 2016
What an expensive nonsense..
Re: I Left My Fiancé For A Girl by VampireeM(f): 2:28pm On Aug 04, 2016
obinnashady:
First of,You don't know how sweet a dick feels

your boyfriend is yet to fvck out that demon in you

Trust me,u've not had an encounter with a great dick

Lol.. Quite a hilarious comment.. Lesbianism, the d¡ck becomes repulsive to the female so no matter how good you are, the crave for female conjugation will always be there.. Instead she will be bisexual.

D¡ck cannot solve this issue at all.. its all about mindset and she making a decision and sticking to it even though its going to be tough.. Really you dont know whats like for her the "writer"
Re: I Left My Fiancé For A Girl by ournaijablog(f): 2:37pm On Aug 04, 2016
Are you done? grin

Durentt:


u are really stopid.

Mtcheeew.
Hopeless les, don't quote me again
Re: I Left My Fiancé For A Girl by ournaijablog(f): 2:38pm On Aug 04, 2016
Dick solves everything in Nigeria, even a goat's Dick grin grin

VampireeM:


Lol.. Quite a hilarious comment.. Lesbianism, the d¡ck becomes repulsive to the female so no matter how good you are, the crave for female conjugation will always be there.. Instead she will be bisexual.

D¡ck cannot solve this issue at all.. its all about mindset and she making a decision and sticking to it even though its going to be tough.. Really you dont know whats like for her the "writer"
Re: I Left My Fiancé For A Girl by Nobody: 2:39pm On Aug 04, 2016
ournaijablog:
Bisi and I went to the same boarding school, she was two classes ahead of me; she was the first person I made friends with during my first year in school, I was very shy and introverted so it was really difficult to make friends as everyone thought I was a snub and a rich spoilt kid.

I saw nothing wrong when Bisi touched my boobs playfully anytime we were having our bath, or how she always wanted to share my bunk with me, or how her finger always played with my clitoris anytime she snuggled in bed with me, I kinda liked it so I said nothing and she continued, well one day we made full blown love and I liked it, I was into her, I liked her a lot, we continued till she graduated and I didn’t wanna do it with anyone else so I thought that phase of my life was over, “A phase I thought”

I had forgotten all about Bisi, I went to the university, graduated, met a nice guy, got a great job, I would term my life as being content, I had everything I wanted, Until I went to a conference in South Africa and saw Bisi, she came up to me and said “Nike, Nike!!!! OMG Nike is this you” I was confused at first, it’s been almost 15 years, but her voice was familiar, I know I had heard it before, I just couldn’t place it then she said “So you have forgotten your lover”? Then it all came back to me, Bisi! I screamed, we hugged, talk, we just couldn’t stop.


We reminisced on the past and talked about the present, we were doing really well for ourselves, I told her about Daniel my fiancé, and I asked her if she has anyone, she told me she and her girlfriend recently broke up and she wasn’t ready to date anyone, I said “Girlfriend”? She laughed it off.

The next day I took a flight to Nigeria, Bisi and I kept in touch, my heart fluttered whenever she called, I didn’t have many friends, so I thought I was just happy I finally had one I could talk to, she came back to Nigeria, resumed at her office, and we had dinner almost every evening, Until one day we both got drunk, ended up at her apartment and made sweet love, Daniel has never touched me this way I said to myself.

I couldn’t stop, I was hooked, I went back for more, I had no time for Daniel, he would call and ask me to come over I’d make excuses upon excuses, Bisi and I continued for six months, then she told me she wanted something serious and I’d have to break up with Daniel, I said I couldn’t, what will people say! I screamed at her, we are in Nigeria, Africa, if people knew what we were doing we will be arrested or even stoned to death. I told her I want babies, I want a full blown BellaNaija wedding, I want my family to come to my wedding, I want my dad to give me away on the aisle, I can’t have these things with you I told her, we had a big fight I went home angry.


We didn’t speak for two months, I was miserable, work was boring, Daniel became irritating, I wouldn’t let him touch me, he would cry and plead and ask “Nifemi, what have I done wrong”? I wanted to tell him, I wanted to say Daniel I am in love with a girl; the words just wouldn’t leave my mouth, I couldn’t hurt him that way, yet I knew I couldn’t hurt him even more by getting married to him, Bisi kept calling, sending me messages, she wanted us to relocate, live our lives somewhere else, away from friends and family who wouldn’t understand our kind of love.


I don’t know what to do, I love Bisi, I know I do, maybe I have always been a lesbian, and she’s always known even before I knew, oh! How do I make people understand that a girl can love a girl this much? I have made up my mind, I know what to do.


Talk2Bella

https://talk2bella./2016/08/i-left-my-fiance-for-girl.html?showComment=1470302378289#c6155599696042311368
An the gals name changed from nike to nifemi. That proves d story is a faabu
Re: I Left My Fiancé For A Girl by ournaijablog(f): 2:42pm On Aug 04, 2016
Guess you aren't yoruba then you would know that's her pet name, it was in "

raylord:

An the gals name changed from nike to nifemi. That proves d story is a faabu
Re: I Left My Fiancé For A Girl by obinnashady(m): 3:48pm On Aug 04, 2016
VampireeM:


Lol.. Quite a hilarious comment.. Lesbianism, the d¡ck becomes repulsive to the female so no matter how good you are, the crave for female conjugation will always be there.. Instead she will be bisexual.

D¡ck cannot solve this issue at all.. its all about mindset and she making a decision and sticking to it even though its going to be tough.. Really you dont know whats like for her the "writer"
I say that sh!t[lesbianism] is demonic "some of my 'Charles Darwin' friends will not agree w:ith me though"
Re: I Left My Fiancé For A Girl by obinnashady(m): 3:55pm On Aug 04, 2016
ournaijablog:
Dick solves everything in Nigeria, even a goat's Dick grin grin

Hope you aren't trying to throw shade @ me.
Re: I Left My Fiancé For A Girl by ournaijablog(f): 6:25pm On Aug 04, 2016
Raybans or Gucci? grin

obinnashady:
Hope you aren't trying to throw shade @ me.
Re: I Left My Fiancé For A Girl by ournaijablog(f): 6:25pm On Aug 04, 2016
I don't think this is true

obinnashady:
I say that sh!t[lesbianism] is demonic "some of my 'Charles Darwin' friends will not agree w:ith me though"
Re: I Left My Fiancé For A Girl by LorDBolton(m): 7:00pm On Aug 04, 2016
Wish I was Daniel, i'd offer to marry the two of them so as to give them official cover


2 heads are better than one.

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