[center]Acting Bold[/center]
1 Stop hesitating and do something. Is there something you've been wanting or trying to do, but can't seem to get the
courage up? Whether it's asking an acquaintance out for a drink, apologizing to a loved one after a long period of
misunderstanding, or simply being friendly to a co-worker, stop thinking about acting and actually do something.[1]
Boldness is the opposite of hesitation. Whenever you're feeling hesitant in interactions with others, or in making a
decision for yourself, learn to swallow your pride and make the first move.
2 Do the unexpected. Bold people aren't afraid of trying new things, and one of the reasons they're so exciting to be
around is that they keep you guessing. This could be something new for you, like salsa dancing or learning to water
ski.[2] Whatever you do, be sure to do it for yourself, not other people.
Doing something new and unexpected might make you vulnerable or afraid. Don't give in to those feelings. Instead,
accept the newness of the skill and don't be afraid to be yourself.[3]
3 Rediscover who you are. Ultimately, boldness has to do with understanding your strengths and weaknesses, then
moving beyond them. Don't try to hide your problems or failures, but accept them as part of you. This will allow you to
confidently move forward, appreciating your uniqueness.[4]
Realize that you don't have to do random, uncharacteristic things to discover who you are. Avoid making any
uncharacteristic changes just to shock people. Be honest with yourself.
4 Pretend you're already bold. If you were to switch places with somebody you admire for their assertiveness and
boldness, what would they do in your shoes? If you already know someone who's bold, imagine how they'd act.
Your bold inspiration doesn't have to be real. You could even think of a character from a movie or book who's
daring and brave. Then, imagine their boldness in your life.
5 Be willing to say no. If someone asks you to do something you don't want to do, refuse. Saying "No" will reinvigorate
your individuality and help you to feel bold, ensuring that you're ready and willing to go out and get what you want.
Don't feel like you have to make up an excuse or explanation. People will have to learn to respect your honesty and
boldness, and you'll be getting what you want.[5]
Realize that if you do commit to doing something, you should follow through. Your sense of self-respect will grow,
as will other people's respect for you.[6]
6 Follow through on your claims. It's not enough to simply say you're going to do something, you actually have to do
it or people think of you as a flake. When your word is good and you follow through with actions, people will trust you
and look upon you as a bold, reliable, complicated person.[7]
If you agreed to do something you really don't wish to do, you should probably just follow through with it because
you gave your word. Next time, remember to say no and assert yourself.

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