MotherOfDragons:
I heard a lot of stories that yoruba man cheat alot,but whats tribe gat to do with men cheating?i've been dating dating my bf for more than 4mnths now and things have been going great..he hasn't cheated on me or atlearst i hadn't found out yet.
A few weeks ago he told me to tell him about my past,i was scared but he said he will still love me either bad or worse.i told the biggest secret that not even my parents know.
He said it was fine but i could see he was hurt,he started avoiding me last week but he said he had financial problems.i thought he was cheating and i accused him and he was vexed.yesterday he told me that he loves me but our relationship won't work because of what i told him..he said he is thinking about his future





he saying he dont want to dump me but i can see he does.what can i do to make him stay?i really love him

VolTOxic:
You stating he's Yoruba is totally unnecessary.

Anyway, If your time together isn’t enough to keep him with you, there's nothing you can do to keep him. Let him go.

MotherOfDragons:
I heard a lot of stories that yoruba man cheat alot,but whats tribe gat to do with men cheating?i've been dating dating my bf for more than 4mnths now and things have been going great..he hasn't cheated on me or atlearst i hadn't found out yet.
A few weeks ago he told me to tell him about my past,i was scared but he said he will still love me either bad or worse.i told the biggest secret that not even my parents know.
He said it was fine but i could see he was hurt,he started avoiding me last week but he said he had financial problems.i thought he was cheating and i accused him and he was vexed.yesterday he told me that he loves me but our relationship won't work because of what i told him..he said he is thinking about his future





he saying he dont want to dump me but i can see he does.what can i do to make him stay?i really love him

onestepatatime:


hmmmmm I need ask you many questions about the secret;
1. does it have negetive effect on you in future.-----Ask for help from your relations
2. is it just a mistake that can be over looked.------ He doesn't love you, so move on.
3. Is it health threatening and can't be solved.----- Turn to God and ask for prayers from elders in your church. Prayer f a righteous man availeth much and God would help you and turn around your situation.
4. Is it spiritual and many more------ Turn to God for help.

My dear forget the tribe it's common with men especially wih those that are not meant for you. Just keep calm any one that is yours would appreciate your sincerity and move on with you. Again if that secret is of the negative side and has a solution you could share with your mum or any relation that is close to you so you can be helped inorder that next time after telling your new found man , you could also tell him steps you have taken to curb or ammend such thing.

Seek help to avoid repitation of such event.

CrazyQuinn:
Op you brought this upon yourself you should have lied the lesser you know the better

CrazyQuinn:
Op you brought this upon yourself you should have lied the lesser you know the better

MotherOfDragons:
whos that?

MotherOfDragons:
this is something that i can't keep

jamalnation:
Op the secret or....

mizzbouqui:
There is nothing you can do about this
Just let him go and find yourself a man that will be with you no matter what happened in your past

MotherOfDragons:
it is health threatening and has a negative effect on HIS future..i dont expect him to stay but he told me he'll support me and now his changing his mind about us and our future together

MotherOfDragons:
or what?