Over the years, i've asked myself what is the reason or driving force behind rape incidences, it just can't be caused by just one factor only, of which many people will attribute it to "konji" there has to be a psychology around it. This is a discussion thread were matured minds should come to rub in their opinions as to why they think people (some men) get involved with rape/molestation.


The big question is, What is/are the cause(s) of Rape?



Do you think it goes beyond the physical?





When I was deliberating upon this issue with some friends, male and female alike, a colleague opined that the reason why some men get involved in rape is because they never had any sexual relationship with the opposite sex until much later in life.


Another person described the root of the matter relating to lack of self control.



A female in the group discussion opined that she feels that why some men resort to rape is due to the lack of good family upbringing.



I believe many of us in here will have one or two things to chip in regarding to this menace in the society. Every day we hear of rape/molestation cases and the need to understand why this is recurrent is important.


Let's know your view on this.

Rape is cause by a high libido not spiritual as some put it.Some girls also rape teenage boys.

The reasons why a man will rape a lady are numerous but the general perspective will be too much watching of porn which will then affect the man mentally making him see every woman as a potential sex object, and when such men have the opportunity to be with a lady in a lonely area, the images of the lady sends out sexual vibe to their brains which may lead to lack of self control.

Good question, let's do justice to it.

Literally, Women has as much as high sex drive as the men, Keep in mind we all human and undergo same urges. For some reason surh as culture and societal norms. Women have been rewired to lower their too much urges especially that of sex. So this has really cause some sort of internal conflict with women in the sense that it gets women easily frustrated and quick emotion outburst because they surpress too many urges.

Now, "Men can never go backward sexually and women can never go backward in lifestyle". So, if you a man you need to meet all her expectations materially, financially and otherwise before she would agrees to lay with you.

Back to the question, why do men rape?

Men practically rape vulnerable women because they(he) can't meet up with standards to get laid prior to no resources/money then in turn, men aggressively tends get sex by force by overpowering a woman.

That's why raped occur, there are other petty reasons too but this is the basic reason.

Konji or no konji rape is bad i don't even know why will some one think the onlyvway to satisfy his sexual urge is to rape for God sake is there any pleasure in it hmmmm may God save us from guys in animal skin