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Re: Tired Bachelor Looking For Purposeful Friendship by Nobody: 7:54pm On Aug 30, 2016
Timbuktou:


Yes, mummy. gran grin
Re: Tired Bachelor Looking For Purposeful Friendship by Nobody: 7:57pm On Aug 30, 2016
tearoses:
Yes, mummy. gran
Ah ah ah ah. Granma, ejo e ma binu o. Slip of tongue finger no o. E f'ori jimi. O ya, gbogbo Granma of life. grin
Re: Tired Bachelor Looking For Purposeful Friendship by Ranchhoddas: 10:52pm On Aug 30, 2016
Giddyperson:
Hian examining women like they are stock fish for sale in the market.

I'm already feeling bad for any woman who applies for this ROLE.

You seem to have an opinion for everything. Her state, her village, her result, her occupation, her hymen.

Goodluck in finding the future employee tho, or better still, ask God to reveal her to you in the dream, I thought that's how you people do it.
The guy just needs to go look for clay and manufacture his own wife. PS: Your diary is the bomb. Makes me want to get married. You should update more frequently.

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Re: Tired Bachelor Looking For Purposeful Friendship by Noloss(f): 2:11am On Aug 31, 2016
U almost ccrack my ribs hian!!!
Giddyperson:
Hian examining women like they are stock fish for sale in the market.

I'm already feeling bad for any woman who applies for this ROLE.

You seem to have an opinion for everything. Her state, her village, her result, her occupation, her hymen.

Goodluck in finding the future employee tho, or better still, ask God to reveal her to you in the dream, I thought that's how you people do it.

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Re: Tired Bachelor Looking For Purposeful Friendship by Noloss(f): 2:21am On Aug 31, 2016
Longer throat grin
PresVA:
Very funny comments grin grin grin

But atleast, the op knows what he wants in a woman... some don't. .

Wish you the best in your search. . Remember to invite us to come chop party jellof rice smiley cheesy
Re: Tired Bachelor Looking For Purposeful Friendship by freshvine(f): 6:29am On Aug 31, 2016
Op, 24-27 years female virgin for Nigeria? cheesy



Check the covent grin

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Re: Tired Bachelor Looking For Purposeful Friendship by yetseyi(f): 7:05am On Aug 31, 2016
Baldman, may you find what you seek.

https://www.nairaland.com/2988873/single-want-start-solid-christian

The link above was opened too by one Christian guy, you can go through it and join their group you may find your specs.

You will surely find what you are looking for although it may not be total package you expect. You didn't put your genotype which I think a lot of people will consider before even contacting you at all, kindly edit your post to include genotype.


freshvine:
Op, 24-27 years female virgin for Nigeria? cheesy
Check the covent grin

Yeah its very possible, I know people personally even above that age and its even male and female. Even those that are engaged gan at age 31 male 27 for female within that range.

Why do people think virgins are hard to find, they are everywhere now haba, you just need to walk with the right people and you will be shocked, just because there's moral decadence doesn't mean everybody is having sex.



Honestly, I don't see what's wrong with the list, since you are born again you should also pray.

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Re: Tired Bachelor Looking For Purposeful Friendship by yetseyi(f): 7:48am On Aug 31, 2016
An0nimus:
This type does not come except by prayer and fasting.


cheesy


HBG was asking after you guys on the chat box, we all just deserted it, maybe I need to bring up one of those discussions again and tag all of you. Your post I quoted will make me bring one up again.
Watch out for my mentions oo.
Re: Tired Bachelor Looking For Purposeful Friendship by An0nimus: 8:00am On Aug 31, 2016
yetseyi:


cheesy


HBG was asking after you guys on the chat box, we all just deserted it, maybe I need to bring up one of those discussions again and tag all of you. Your post I quoted will make me bring one up again.
Watch out for my mentions oo.

No problemo cool
Re: Tired Bachelor Looking For Purposeful Friendship by freecocoa(f): 8:59am On Aug 31, 2016
I qualify with eyeballs, still a virgin but I'm currently atheist, OP please consider me? cry
Re: Tired Bachelor Looking For Purposeful Friendship by TV01(m): 11:13am On Aug 31, 2016
@ShineyDome grin

You have every right to define exactly what you want in a wife, To do otherwise is actually irresponsible, and at best careless. I would advise predicating your list on a strong faith - conduct yourself righteously, pray, speak to The Lord about it keep your eyes peeled. Do not abdicate your responsibility to any MOG/WOG.

Key is non-negotiables, i.e. marrying outside the faith. I believe over time God will mould you, reconsider some of your criteria, reset some of your attitudes, and bring you to a place of accepting someone who is right for you. And although she may not match your list exactly at last, she will be the one.

I also wanted a "non-choir member, firebrand prayer warrior" grin, but my wife was more a traditional Anglican. But it means we are not embroiled in church drama, socialise only in "church people society", or that I have a wife whose main refrain is "my pastor says". A blessed relief tome.

Sometimes we don't always know whats best at outset, even though we desire it. But God leads and the fruit is in the eating. And please expect some work - for you both - when it comes together. Marriage is a crucible of sorts, and a ministry. One purpose it serves is to actually grow you.

All the very best in your sincerity - you have brought your hopes here, may they be fulfilled to the glory of God, with testimony also here.


TV

...ps - baldman,I hope you don't come across as tired...it won't help...be of confident bearing


I found this post so meaningful in relation to OP, I'm 5* starring it. Really good piece. Thank you.

yetseyi:
Baldman, may you find what you seek.

https://www.nairaland.com/2988873/single-want-start-solid-christian

The link above was opened too by one Christian guy, you can go through it and join their group you may find your specs.

You will surely find what you are looking for although it may not be total package you expect. You didn't put your genotype which I think a lot of people will consider before even contacting you at all, kindly edit your post to include genotype.




Yeah its very possible, I know people personally even above that age and its even male and female. Even those that are engaged gan at age 31 male 27 for female within that range.

Why do people think virgins are hard to find, they are everywhere now haba, you just need to walk with the right people and you will be shocked, just because there's moral decadence doesn't mean everybody is having sex.



Honestly, I don't see what's wrong with the list, since you are born again you should also pray.
Re: Tired Bachelor Looking For Purposeful Friendship by baldman: 11:49am On Aug 31, 2016
yetseyi:
Baldman, may you find what you seek.

https://www.nairaland.com/2988873/single-want-start-solid-christian

The link above was opened too by one Christian guy, you can go through it and join their group you may find your specs.

You will surely find what you are looking for although it may not be total package you expect. You didn't put your genotype which I think a lot of people will consider before even contacting you at all, kindly edit your post to include genotype.

Yeah its very possible, I know people personally even above that age and its even male and female. Even those that are engaged gan at age 31 male 27 for female within that range.

Why do people think virgins are hard to find, they are everywhere now haba, you just need to walk with the right people and you will be shocked, just because there's moral decadence doesn't mean everybody is having sex.



Honestly, I don't see what's wrong with the list, since you are born again you should also pray.

Thanks for your advice. Yetseyi. I will check the link. As per Genotype. I just did not want to start out with all of that, but really, I will prefer an AA. I will make the correction.

And thanks for mentioning the fact that virginity is not such a rarity, even among the 'not so religious'. It is also not a golden award, but like I said, it is my preference. I am also praying about it, its just that it is only 'He who seeks that finds'.
Re: Tired Bachelor Looking For Purposeful Friendship by yetseyi(f): 12:10pm On Aug 31, 2016
TV01:



I also wanted a "non-choir member,



I found this post so meaningful in relation to OP, I'm 5* starring it. Really good piece. Thank you.


I am curious, why a non-choir member


5 star from oga TV shocked I am humbled oo.



At baldman I meant you should state your own genotype so that appropriate matches can contact.
Re: Tired Bachelor Looking For Purposeful Friendship by baldman: 12:13pm On Aug 31, 2016
TV01:
@ShineyDome grin

You have every right to define exactly what you want in a wife, To do otherwise is actually irresponsible, and at best careless. I would advise predicating your list on a strong faith - conduct yourself righteously, pray, speak to The Lord about it keep your eyes peeled. Do not abdicate your responsibility to any MOG/WOG.

Key is non-negotiables, i.e. marrying outside the faith. I believe over time God will mould you, reconsider some of your criteria, reset some of your attitudes, and bring you to a place of accepting someone who is right for you. And although she may not match your list exactly at last, she will be the one.

I also wanted a "non-choir member, firebrand prayer warrior" grin, but my wife was more a traditional Anglican. But it means we are not embroiled in church drama, socialise only in "church people society", or that I have a wife whose main refrain is "my pastor says". A blessed relief tome.

Sometimes we don't always know whats best at outset, even though we desire it. But God leads and the fruit is in the eating. And please expect some work - for you both - when it comes together. Marriage is a crucible of sorts, and a ministry. One purpose it serves is to actually grow you.

All the very best in your sincerity - you have brought your hopes here, may they be fulfilled to the glory of God, with testimony also here.


TV

...ps - baldman,I hope you don't come across as tired...it won't help...be of confident bearing


I found this post so meaningful in relation to OP, I'm 5* starring it. Really good piece. Thank you.


@TV01: Thanks for sharing those insights. I always appreciate your guidance.
Re: Tired Bachelor Looking For Purposeful Friendship by Nobody: 12:41pm On Aug 31, 2016
freecocoa:
I qualify with eyeballs, still a virgin but I'm currently atheist, OP please consider me? cry


OP, don't come near this one o. I can vouch for her. Na area scatter be dis.

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Re: Tired Bachelor Looking For Purposeful Friendship by TV01(m): 1:42pm On Aug 31, 2016
yetseyi:
I am curious, why a non-choir member
Choirs tend to be a hot-spot for egos and some kind funny practices in church - in my experience. Wifeys singing can kill but not revive cheesy.

yetseyi:
5 star from oga TV shocked I am humbled oo.
Don't be, it was a spot on post. I liked the encouragement, sound advice, practical pointers and particularly the matter of fact way you spoke about virginity. it tells me a few things about you. Kudos. Take one more sef grin.

baldman:
@TV01: Thanks for sharing those insights. I always appreciate your guidance.
You are more than welcome, and I am more than happy too. Godspeed on your quest.

Timbuktou:
OP, don't come near this one o. I can vouch for her. Na area scatter be dis.
grin. Freecocoa, tender your own list na, maybe we can help. I sense your aspirations rocketed since you joined the picture sharing club cool


TV
Re: Tired Bachelor Looking For Purposeful Friendship by freecocoa(f): 2:29pm On Aug 31, 2016
Timbuktou:



OP, don't come near this one o. I can vouch for her. Na area scatter be dis.
I don't like it o, see how you are spoiling chances for me, what is that one na? angry angry cry
Re: Tired Bachelor Looking For Purposeful Friendship by freecocoa(f): 2:44pm On Aug 31, 2016
TV01:

grin. Freecocoa, tender your own list na, maybe we can help. I sense your aspirations rocketed since you joined the picture sharing club cool


TV
Didn't join any club and I still haven't seen the pictures o, seems like this is you wanting to show them to me, oya post biko, I am waiting, who knows, I just may consider what you've been gunning for.cool
Re: Tired Bachelor Looking For Purposeful Friendship by Nobody: 2:56pm On Aug 31, 2016
TV01:

Choirs tend to be a hot-spot for egos and some kind funny practices in church - in my experience. Wifeys singing can kill but not revive cheesy.

You are right about the choir thing.
I've never seen so much beef & ego massaging in any other church dept
Re: Tired Bachelor Looking For Purposeful Friendship by CoCoLav(f): 3:51pm On Aug 31, 2016
I am rolling. I had to clutch my belly to laugh grin grin grin

You even specified the size of eyeball...Hahahahha

On a more serious note, I know two people that meet your criteria. One would have been perfect for you until I got to the virgin part.

The other one has all you need including eyeball size but her temper no be for here.

Let me know if you are interested.
Re: Tired Bachelor Looking For Purposeful Friendship by yetseyi(f): 4:27pm On Aug 31, 2016
TV01:

Choirs tend to be a hot-spot for egos and some kind funny practices in church - in my experience.




TV

hmmmm maybe because they are in the spot light

Don't be, it was a spot on post. I liked the encouragement, sound advice, practical pointers and particularly the matter of fact way you spoke about virginity. it tells me a few things about you. Kudos. Take one more sef grin.

cheesy cheesy Thanks
Re: Tired Bachelor Looking For Purposeful Friendship by Nobody: 4:41pm On Aug 31, 2016
freecocoa:
I don't like it o, see how you are spoiling chances for me, what is that one na? angry angry cry
Which chances? You want to go and frustrate that gentleman's destiny abi? God doesn't do evuls grin

TV01: Freecocoa, tender your own list na, maybe we can help. I sense your aspirations rocketed since you joined the picture sharing club
Don't mind Cocoa, she's saving herself for Otedola's son. She's expecting his proposal which should come in very soon. angry
Re: Tired Bachelor Looking For Purposeful Friendship by Nobody: 4:43pm On Aug 31, 2016
tearoses:


You are right about the choir thing.
I've never seen so much beef & ego massaging in any other church dept

Everyone there is a potential Beyonce and Chris Brown na
Re: Tired Bachelor Looking For Purposeful Friendship by FTBOY: 4:46pm On Aug 31, 2016
your list was ok until you mentioned 'virgin'. where you wan see am? see how you just killed the spirit of nairaland husband hunters with one post..
Re: Tired Bachelor Looking For Purposeful Friendship by Nobody: 5:09pm On Aug 31, 2016
Timbuktou:


Everyone there is a potential Beyonce and Chris Brown na

Its a serious matter o!
Re: Tired Bachelor Looking For Purposeful Friendship by baldman: 5:10pm On Aug 31, 2016
CoCoLav:
I am rolling. I had to clutch my belly to laugh grin grin grin

You even specified the size of eyeball...Hahahahha

On a more serious note, I know two people that meet your criteria. One would have been perfect for you until I got to the virgin part.

The other one has all you need including eyeball size but her temper no be for here.

Let me know if you are interested.



I am glad you could have such a refreshing laugh on my account and I really appreciate the humour in your offer.
Re: Tired Bachelor Looking For Purposeful Friendship by sisisioge: 5:20pm On Aug 31, 2016
Giddyperson:
Hian examining women like they are stock fish for sale in the market.

I'm already feeling bad for any woman who applies for this ROLE.

You seem to have an opinion for everything. Her state, her village, her result, her occupation, her hymen.

Goodluck in finding the future employee tho, or better still, ask God to reveal her to you in the dream, I thought that's how you people do it.

Odikwe serious! And the guy bald o. No be beg person wey bald dey beg make girl marry am? Hian! I fear this guy as an employer of labour, person go need cross all Ts and dots all Is to get him job grin grin


OP, may God bless your hustle and help you with that which your heart desires.

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Re: Tired Bachelor Looking For Purposeful Friendship by freecocoa(f): 5:22pm On Aug 31, 2016
Timbuktou:

Which chances? You want to go and frustrate that gentleman's destiny abi? God doesn't do evuls grin
Don't mind Cocoa, she's saving herself for Otedola's son. She's expecting his proposal which should come in very soon. angry
How can a biriful, gentulu, humbulu and innocent gal like mua frustrate him? it's not possible na. This man might just be my soul mate, did you know he is bald? that's like my kryptonite and you want to ruin it? seriously dude stop angry angry, bald men are not easy to come by.

Baldness no dey otedola lineage so it won't work.

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Re: Tired Bachelor Looking For Purposeful Friendship by Nobody: 6:25pm On Aug 31, 2016
freecocoa:
How can a biriful, gentulu, humbulu and innocent gal like mua frustrate him? it's not possible na. This man might just be my soul mate, did you know he is bald? that's like my kryptonite and you want to ruin it? seriously dude stop angry angry, bald men are not easy to come by.

Baldness no dey otedola lineage so it won't work.

So na apari be your problem! Bald men full Lagos ma, you no dey see dem for traffic? grin. By the way, I get one bald friend but ma slim guy and can argue for Africa, just like you. I'm sure you will like him. This one wet open thread ma brother-in-the-Lord. Don't come and frustrate a child of God, biko grin
Re: Tired Bachelor Looking For Purposeful Friendship by ardeypearlz(f): 9:52pm On Aug 31, 2016
grin
Berbierklaus:
grin

grin

Someone should please mention me when this gets to FP embarassed


Even baldmen are choosing grin smh
woman yaff suffad
Re: Tired Bachelor Looking For Purposeful Friendship by Funjosh(m): 11:34pm On Aug 31, 2016
shocked shocked shocked
Re: Tired Bachelor Looking For Purposeful Friendship by baldman: 10:58am On Sep 01, 2016
ardeypearlz:
grin

I find the fascination with my nicely receding hairlines to be quite intriguing. Well the reason bald men get to choose their girls too is because the loss of hair does not extend into the brain.

In my experience, having a good bald head gives you an exotic allure and takes your coolness to a whole new level. Plus, it keeps the shallow ladies away.

(The lucky woman will get to playfully rob this shining head without the hairs getting in the way)

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