As a spear shaped guy in this world where opposite attract. ... because of a past experience I have a fear of ehmmm.... well covered, full sized/oversized women. I hit the red line at size 12.... but what if after childbirth/lack of exercise/poor diet .....my wife keeps puffing up and up wayyy past the danger zone? Either way.... getting too big or too skinny..... male/female.... do you honestly think you will cope?