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Re: My brother is driving me nut - How Should I Handle This Family Issue? by Nobody: 11:33am On Sep 12, 2016 |
You break my heart: if he hadn't done this to you, someone else would have. Maybe your boyfriend... You've spoilt him silly and it's going to take a while to undo it! Never give anything to him without him earning it. He has to do something to be worthy of having 10 naira! Secondly, you shouldn't have bailed him yet. You should have allowed him to serve his time and get rehabilitated in the process buying you time to recover, when he comes out, he'll have a broader pespective to life! No need crying over spilled me sha... Henceforth, make him work for everything even food and shelter: make him shop, cook, wash your car, sanitize the house and other stuff of his choice, just lay the cards before him to make his pick, then reward him afterwards. As he grows in it, you increase the reward! As he gets deeper into it, he'd known the value of cash, how to eran and spend it! Also, commit cash to him or send him on errand and make him account for it... This is your chance to make him a better man before he turns around to be naughty to the point where he can turn around and kidnap your for ransom! Have a lot to say but my fingers ache! |
Re: My brother is driving me nut - How Should I Handle This Family Issue? by 2saints: 12:12pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
End time Brother 1 Like |
Re: My brother is driving me nut - How Should I Handle This Family Issue? by Nobody: 12:38pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
That's what u get for pampering a man... He needs tough love to set him straight. I detest ungrateful self centered siblings.. Op please you only one life to live, don't allow any devil incarnate in d guise of sibling run your parade for you. Seems you are not yet married self. 1 Like |
Re: My brother is driving me nut - How Should I Handle This Family Issue? by Flawlessangel(m): 1:30pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
robedu: i just wanna say, you are such a lovely, hardworking and responsible lady. The world needs more people like you. You said you graduated at 22, so how old are u now? |
Re: My brother is driving me nut - How Should I Handle This Family Issue? by nomanicole(f): 2:13pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
wow I thought I was the only one with sibling issues.. I learnt a big lesson this year and I have promised myself that I will always make myself priority and no. more rubbish in the name of helping ungrateful siblings who feel entitled to your sweat and even try to claim ur property while you are alive. wow! na so we plenty? 1 Like |
Re: My brother is driving me nut - How Should I Handle This Family Issue? by Nobody: 2:57pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
robedu:Gor your own mental health safety and for your cardiovascular health, depart from that grown over grown baby that is your brother before he pulls you down while he's sinking |
Re: My brother is driving me nut - How Should I Handle This Family Issue? by christphina(f): 2:58pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
[quote author=taryour post=49208511]SPEECHLESS. what I have in mind to tell you is harsh so make I just sit down dey look before them nairalander label me wicked. but babe you try oo wahalai. I really commend you. God is your strength. that your elder brother ehen.... Label u wicked ke... me, can't go extra mile to displease myself 4 such an unserious brother.. In this situation, I will simply take my car back, or leave it 4 him nd get another cos obviously in no distant tym, he won't b able 4 afford d maintenance... then, he either leaves my house, or I pack nd leave him... then wen d rent expires, make he call my spirit... some pple will ve honey put right into their mouth, nd will take it 4 granted... nd to think dat he is even a guy nd soon 2 b some1's hubby nd father.. abeg, he doesn't deserve d pampering |
Re: My brother is driving me nut - How Should I Handle This Family Issue? by LadyGeorge(f): 3:07pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
Collect your car from him and tell him to go get a life cos if u ask me he doesn't have one You supported him through school and now u are still supporting him after school ask your self how long will it continue He wanted the car for weekends from weekends he is now using it daily How long will it continue? 1 Like |
Re: My brother is driving me nut - How Should I Handle This Family Issue? by jake2much(m): 7:58pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
nma24:hi |
Re: My brother is driving me nut - How Should I Handle This Family Issue? by Medunah: 10:01pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
scachy:Get him which yeye small uber spec?? Abeg, she has tried, let the nigga go fend for himself......she should sell that car after she is done repairing it, keep the money nd get another car for herself when she gets married. Stup!d old f00l, thats what he is!! I think she is partially at fault anyways 3 Likes |
Re: My brother is driving me nut - How Should I Handle This Family Issue? by adecares(f): 10:51pm On Sep 12, 2016 |
Its becos u give him everything he ask for dats y he is behaving DAT way. |
Re: My brother is driving me nut - How Should I Handle This Family Issue? by Qualer: 5:29am On Sep 13, 2016 |
nomanicole: yes! na so we plenty! 1 Like |
Re: My brother is driving me nut - How Should I Handle This Family Issue? by Qualer: 5:42am On Sep 13, 2016 |
Stoical: 1 Like
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Re: My brother is driving me nut - How Should I Handle This Family Issue? by Stoical: 10:08am On Sep 13, 2016 |
[quote author=Qualer post=49311121][/quote] thanks and take a walk |
Re: My brother is driving me nut - How Should I Handle This Family Issue? by Nobody: 6:51pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
jake2much:Hi |
Re: My brother is driving me nut - How Should I Handle This Family Issue? by jake2much(m): 8:47pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
nma24:how are we today? |
Re: My brother is driving me nut - How Should I Handle This Family Issue? by Nobody: 8:59pm On Sep 13, 2016 |
jake2much:Fine. |
Re: My brother is driving me nut - How Should I Handle This Family Issue? by Gbengageorge: 4:17am On Feb 02, 2017 |
I have to be blunt here, I think the guy added wickedness to the stupidity that is worrying him, if he can not help his blood sister, why are you helping him. It is when brother and sister help themselves that the family will progress as a whole no matter the shortcoming. Use your head and talk sense into him, if he does not change, sell off those camera equipment to recover your money, make him to sign a written agreement which he will back up with his certificate, or else you will not give him the car again. Let him realize that you are working for that money and it should be spent wisely. He sees that you have a lot of money and thinks it must be wasted. If he wants to be the black sheep let him use his money and let him see how easy it is to make money. robedu: |
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