Is it proper for a young lady of 23yrs to marry a man of 54 yrs. Plz give a reasonable advice . Thanks.

Yes yes yes


I think they are more matured nd wiser

The difference is much, but i don't think it's all about the age. What matters is the understanding & maturity, that's if the lady in question is okay with the man.


Secondly, the lady must be willing to accept the man's age cause at 23, there's a lot of "youthfulness" in her

54-23=31
The man was 31 yrs old when she was born. Well anything is possible but if she agrees she I'm sure its bcus she's young. A girl that is exposed to socio-sexual esteem may not say yes. The man may be financially capable but he may not be able to carry her socio-sexual load later o because as she approach 30 and sees how her mates socialize and then considers her 60+ hubby who probably is old school, she may not like what she locked herself into.

When papa's pleasurerod is 80, her hairy website would be just 46..still in active service, dats even if papa lives to 80 and their 1st child would be just 25. How will she cope with d kids if in-laws carry their wahala come after papa's death

I read on this NL how Kanu's wife whom he wedded at 18 said she wish she had more freedom for a while b4 she married and that her daughter won't go thru same

Though this one is 23 but I'm sure the age gap btwn she and her hubby is far more than kanu and his wife and would result in same feeling later if not worse cus papa would wear out far more than her esp if he's pot bellied

I'm not trying to discourage her but that she has to count the cost b4 embarking on it. At least a person who by herself jumps down a tall storey will prepare herself for the landing unlike a person who was pushed down from d storey top

ammyluv2002:
The difference is much, but i don't think it's all about the age. What matters is the understanding & maturity, that's if the lady in question is okay with the man.
Secondly, the lady must be willing to accept the man's age cause at 23, there's a lot of "youthfulness" in her

Seconded

Tnx for ur contributions, I really appreciate,

Tnx for ur contributions, I really appreciate.

Tnx dear

ivanurs:
Is it proper for a young lady of 23yrs to marry a man of 54 yrs. Plz give a reasonable advice . Thanks.

He'll likely die earlier, i know you're doing this for the money not love, if that's the case, go ahead, when he dies and you might have gotten all the money and property you've long for,you'll be 54 yrs old, then you'll look for a young guy who's 23 that you'll marry, and the circle goes on.. "Girls" always searching for easy life since 1914

sinaj:
Yes yes yes


I think they are more matured nd wiser

You hate her right, i know you'll never approve ur own daughter to go for it

NEROSKY:

You hate her right, i know you'll never approve ur own daughter to go for it

lol


I can't get married to 10yrs my snr.

But it doesn't mean I have to disapprove anoda person frm doing so.

If u think u are comfortable with d person nd can tolerate him or her, I dnt see wot shud stp u frm doing so.

The age fap is just much...i know nigerian girls wouldn't mind hence the money is there.

The age gap is just too much...i know nigerian girls wouldn't mind hence the money is there.

sinaj:
lol


I can't get married to 10yrs my snr.

But it doesn't mean I have to disapprove anoda person frm doing so.

If u think u are comfortable with d person nd can tolerate him or her, I dnt see wot shud stp u frm doing so.

Akuko! Story!! keep deceiving urself