Sugarladypleaser:


I dont even know how I became attracted to her, last night we spent like 4 hrs together talking outside at night. this morning again we did PE together, she is jogging beside me all through..... and this will continue all day. even in class we still manage to have eye contact with smile. but she kept on saying she is not this and that........ I just want to know if she feels same way but pretending not to.

She is using reverse psychology on you

You will become curious when she acts like she doesn't want you.
After curiousity comes the digging,you will try to make her like you,thereby falling uncontrollable in LUST with her.


For the sake of your sanity and family,flee while you still can,because you will end up cheating on your wife physically,you have already cheated emotionally(ask God for forgiveness for that).

And if you cheat on your wife,your home will be under spiritual attack, that can lead to divorce.


You know How to flee,please flee

Sugarladypleaser:
I am in training with one of the paramilitary departments, one my first day in camp during documentation, this lady approached me, she is in her 30s, we started talking and we just clicked.... we exchanged phone nos and from there, we always stick together in camp, talking, laughing and going out together. Even when we went home on break, we are always talking by phone calls, whatsapp for long hours.

I am married with a kid and I told her on that first day we met, she seems disappointed by it, but decided not to show it. we have become very close and apart from the fact that I like her, I have developed feelings for her, and I believe she has developed feelings for me too. Her brother is also always in touch with me.

We met just a little over 3 months ago. We will be commissioned with same rank, she is from Awka but based in Abuja, I am from Ibadan but based in both Lagos and Ibadan.

presently, I am fighting hard to bring down the lovely feelings I have for her, but I discover she is always telling me stuffs like, she is not moved by trivials, she doesnt fall in love easily, she is mean, etc..... is she trying to fight the feeling?

Is it that she doesnt have feelings for me or she is trying to pretend or she is put off by the fact that I am married?

Is she pretending?


Matured comments alone pls

firstking01:
In matters like this? any impression you give will leave an indelible mark in her heart...like she said trivial things doesn't move her, and of a fact this seems trivial, so, tread with caution cos i percieve she's hurding and bottling the feelings, rjust that she doesn't wanna appear needy(cheap) and desperate that's why you really need to be careful so to convince her that you have genuine intentions that's if you have it in mind to ask her out.

enshi:
So you are on of those people who got federal job through back yard Doors abi... You even had the mind to come here and say shit despite being a married man.

I know you are talking about the unadvertised civil defence or Prison jobs... Instead of you to lay low and enjoy the awoff you still wan infidelize in the whole thing..

Ur thunder go come from redeem camp or sambisa forest

Sugarladypleaser:


I thought as much, but I can only wait for the traning to finish so that we can part ways and be just friends, but as it is now, I am totally helpless. like this morning I promise my self not to talk to her, but we did PE together and we have met 4 times after that discussing, chatting, holding hands and laughing. If she did not see me, she will look and search for me in the crowd of other students and I must confess I do that as well. If this continue, I pray I dont end up doing what I dont plan to do.

I just lose my guard around her, become defenseless and filled with emotions.

NemzySeries:
I dunno weda to call morally loose or a male hoe sef.........u av wife & pikin yet U're trying to still findout abi measure d amount of affection another lady has 4 u weda itz ascending or declining abi but lemme tell u 1 tin u dunt kw, any married man dat goes outside hiz matrimonial territory is automatically cursed by God & bliv me I'm not jst saying dat as a story to scare u but itz biblical......I personally is not a saint, infact fornication is not new to me but bliv me dat I'm currently running away frm a married woman whom ordinarily I shd av settled her case long ago talkmore of u a married man.....so itz best u allow d lady & stop any form of adultery or fornication & focus more on building a beta relationship with ur wife & kids instead of perfectly working ur way 2wrds destruction by d say tin u av @ home.....dunt say we didn't warn u & remember itz a single guy advising u dis much

Sugarladypleaser:


I dont even know how I became attracted to her, last night we spent like 4 hrs together talking outside at night. this morning again we did PE together, she is jogging beside me all through..... and this will continue all day. even in class we still manage to have eye contact with smile. but she kept on saying she is not this and that........ I just want to know if she feels same way but pretending not to.